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Transwomen are not Women - Part 15

... he says that homosexuality is not innate, but almost all environmentally caused by childhood sexual assault (I'm serious- he actually says that,

I'm not in a position to listen to that again right now, but that is not my recollection of what he said.

and goes on about AGP, which as we all know, isn't a thing.

It is most certainly a thing. Reality doesn't stop happening just because you're in denial. Autogynaephilia is most certainly a thing, indeed it is the core of the entire problem.
 
I'm not in a position to listen to that again right now, but that is not my recollection of what he said.
Then allow me to direct your recollection to 5:08 on the clock in the interview where he says exactly that.
It is most certainly a thing. Reality doesn't stop happening just because you're in denial. Autogynaephilia is most certainly a thing, indeed it is the core of the entire problem.
AGP is a thing, but not as you use the term. The psychological and medical circles that Blanchard et al submitted the idea to define it as merely a sexual arousal at the thought of one's self as a woman. That's it. And as I pointed out to you earlier, cis men and women also report arousal at those same thoughts, as Blanchard worded them in his questionnaire ("picture yourself as a nude woman", etc).

Of course, this tweety person was running around calling other people autogynophiles, when I doubt sincerely that he has the diagnostic credentials, was able to measure their sexual arousal, or even ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ MET the people he was slapping the label onto. So ya, as he and you use the term, it's not a thing.
 
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he says that homosexuality is not innate, but almost all environmentally caused by childhood sexual assault (I'm serious- he actually says that)
No, he didn't. He said he found out, "that homosexual transition was environmentally caused in almost every single case by childhood sexual assault or by internalized homophobia, [or?] failed-boy syndrome. 92.5% of trans identified males are straight and bisexual, and the only explanation for straight or bisexual men to transition is autogynaephilia."

You may have got confused because he reported the clinicians telling him, in response to asking if his CSA might have caused him to "be this way", that "no, being gay is innate, and being trans is innate, and what you have is gender identity disorder."
and goes on about AGP, which as we all know, isn't a thing.
I've seen several men report that it is a thing, and they know because they've got it. (I doubt it's the only reason straight/bisexual men transition, but I hear AGP is quite common among that cohort.)

ETA: ApostateAri also mentions knowing self-identified AGPs in this video.
 
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No, he didn't. He said he found out, "that homosexual transition was environmentally caused..."
You're right! Had to listen again to catch that difference

You may have got confused because..
Actually it was because "homosexual transition" is not a thing to the medical community. It's a Bailey and Blanchard buzzers that the community doesn't use or acknowledge, so my ears autocorrected the nonsense phrase to one that was goofy yet made sense.
I've seen several men report that it is a thing, and they know because they've got it. (I doubt it's the only reason straight/bisexual men transition, but I hear AGP is quite common among that cohort.)
Most people "have it", if they respond to the exact questions Blanchard composed. Dr. Chaz Moser noted that something like 93% of cis women he posed the same question to self reported sexual arousal. This was one of the many many many criticisms lobbed against the whole posit, which he evidently abandoned further research on, except to talk about how no one was researching it.
 
You're right! Had to listen again to catch that difference
It's a good job someone keeps getting you to listen again, isn't it?
Actually it was because "homosexual transition" is not a thing to the medical community. It's a Bailey and Blanchard buzzers that the community doesn't use or acknowledge, so my ears autocorrected the nonsense phrase to one that was goofy yet made sense.
<<Edited to remove the diamonds: BULL!>> It's because you set out to discount everything this transphobic bigot was spouting, so your "ears autocorrected the nonsense phrase" to one you could rant incorrectly about.
Most people "have it", if they respond to the exact questions Blanchard composed. Dr. Chaz Moser noted that something like 93% of cis women he posed the same question to self reported sexual arousal. This was one of the many many many criticisms lobbed against the whole posit, which he evidently abandoned further research on, except to talk about how no one was researching it.
More trans propaganda. See, for example, https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2010-00746-001
although Moser may have found something superficially resembling autogynephilia in women, there is little reason to think that he documented genuine autogynephilic arousal in women. Perhaps because of Moser’s evident unfamiliarity with Blanchard’s scales, many of Moser’s items are not genuinely analogous to any of Blanchard’s items.
 
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You listened so badly you reminded Rolfe she's wrong with an actual timestamp in the video, where Ari just sums up that we need to stop it with legislation, and that's the end of the video?

I'm concerned about you, seriously Thermal. You took four days to realise what year it was, even squinting at me and saying you were checking your calendar (which presumably you didn't do) when I said in passing what freaking year it is. Are you ok?
 
It's a good job someone keeps getting you to listen again, isn't it?
Absolutely, and I mean that sincerely. We all get things wrong once in a while and can stand the rightful correction.
<<Edited to remove the diamonds: BULL!>> It's because you set out to discount everything this transphobic bigot was spouting, so your "ears autocorrected the nonsense phrase" to one you could rant incorrectly about.
Great example! You are painfully wrong in your attempt at mind reading here, so allow me to correct you:

I don't think he's a bigot at all. From the extremely limited information he has self disclosed, he has had a horrifically rough time of his life thus far, so I don't think he is presently the most objective arbiter of his psychological diagnoses. Further, his treatment is woefully still lacking if he's got some quack spouting the Eugenics Boys' ◊◊◊◊. Seems listening to the wrong people has been a theme in his life.
More trans propaganda. See, for example, https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2010-00746-001
Lawrence, dude? Really? She's the third of the Three Musketeers, after Blanchard and Professor ◊◊◊◊ Saw. Coming in late to the discussion has you Rinse and Repeating stuff we've long covered as if it was new (not a criticism, just an observation).

BTW, I still owe you a reply for the last long post you directed to me. Still on mobile now and would rather be on more comfortable device for long replies.
 
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You listened so badly you reminded Rolfe she's wrong with an actual timestamp in the video, where Ari just sums up that we need to stop it with legislation, and that's the end of the video?
Correct.

Sidebar: Many of us dislike listening to interviews. Some people, and many dogs, prefer to listen. I don't. Between my tinnitus, loud jobsites, and mobile phone speaker, having to listen to mindless videos is annoying in the extreme. Invariably, the content comes across faster and more clearly when written, and I rarely have the patience to rewind and catch what wasn't clear on the first hearing.
I'm concerned about you, seriously Thermal.
I'm touched.
You took four days to realise what year it was, even squinting at me and saying you were checking your calendar (which presumably you didn't do) when I said in passing what freaking year it is. Are you ok?
Never better. Not knowing the current day, date, month, or year, however, is a lifestyle byproduct that is somewhat embarrassing but I got over it a long time ago.

Eta: I'd be proud to say that was the first time I googled "what year is it?", but the autocomplete brought it up awfully quickly.
 
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Or reading comprehension.

You going anywhere nice? Or have you been and come back already? Or was it heat you were packing? :)

Going to Bali, then the Maldives, later today. My friend chose the holiday, I'm still a bit hazy about the details. I'll only have my phone with me, and I may not check in very often. Back at the beginning of February.
 
Your double standards are showing, Thermal. You were all over me with nitpicking criticism because I don't use the auto-complete the way you do, and use it inconsistently. You thought that I should have seen your edit posted after my reply was posted, and edited my reply, and because I didn't you felt entirely justified in criticising my reply for not addressing your edit.

But now you completely misinterpret a short video, apparently "unconsciously editing" what you heard to conform to your personal biasses. OK, that happens. But when challenged, honest people go back and check.

You didn't check. You went back and posted a time stamp you claimed supported your interpretation, even though I'd already said I wasn't in a position to listen again. Turns out my memory of what was said was correct all along.

Do better. Live up to your own exacting standards.
 
What is it that is causing you confusion?

It's remarkably similar to Trump apologetics. Instead of "Trump never said that" it's "that (crime) didn't really happen." Instead of "Okay he said it but didn't mean it" it's "Okay it happened but the perp wasn't really trans." Instead of "okay he meant it but you only care because TDS" it's "okay a trans person did it but you only care because bigotry." No amount of evidence suffices to overcome the layers of invincible denial.
 
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That has to be the funniest analogy for a serious issue that I have seen in long time!!
All hail Tyler Durden...
 
Assuming a feminine name or attire does not make someone trans. Saying they are trans does. Surely you have caught up that far in this thread?
You have been quite insistent in the past that this is NOT correct. For example, when I point out that under self ID, nobody can lie about being trans because saying you are trans makes you trans, you claimed that this was wrong, that a person could lie about that, because it was their internal sense of self that made them trans, not what they said.

Are you finally acknowledging that self ID only relies on your declaration and not on any internal sense of self?
 
You have been quite insistent in the past that this is NOT correct. For example, when I point out that under self ID, nobody can lie about being trans because saying you are trans makes you trans, you claimed that this was wrong, that a person could lie about that, because it was their internal sense of self that made them trans, not what they said.

Are you finally acknowledging that self ID only relies on your declaration and not on any internal sense of self?
I suspect he's trying to square the circle of trans being an internal sense of self, and that sense of self being identifiable via self-declaration that cannot be tested and can be a lie.

My preferred solution is to challenge the premise. I simply do not believe it is possible for a male to have an internal sense of a female self. Their bodies and experiences are simply incapable of providing the necessary data for such a sense.
 
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That's your flawed and mind-reading bad interpretation. What I am arguing, clearly and consistently, I'd that the use of cheap fig leaf claims is beneath us on a skeptics forum. Can we not simply debate real things without pearl-clutching imaginary tales?

Untrue, and I don't know why you keep saying this. Of course there are. Boatloads of them, as there are with cis predators and perverts. You are flatly lying to say i denied this, evrn once. It never happened outside your evidently active imaginations.
Alright. So you totally admit that a boatload of males with transgender identities are predators and perverts... but somehow not a single one of the many cases you've been shown fits that description, and we're all just lying meanies who make things up because we're evil bigots. Makes total sense.
Bull ◊◊◊◊. Again, I'm arguing for truth over narrative, nothing more.

Great example! That is a bald faced lie. There is no such documentation. Half of us involved in that discussion googled the ◊◊◊◊ out of it trying to find something. There was nothing, except an alt-right tabliod's claim and others repeating it.

Yes, I argued that if you intend to be naked among strangers, you might want to think about who those strangers might be. If you live in a state that allows transwomen in (and even all the way over on the other side of the country, it's common knowledge), you have no reason at all not to expect exactly that. I get that you guys like to conveniently abandon all your conservative principles ITT, but I don't. Individual responsibility is still high on my priority list.
Alright. So you personally think that males shouldn't be given legal right to use female intimate spaces just because they declare themselves to have a womanly gendery soul... BUT... if it's legal for them to do so, then females should just opt out of ever using those spaces, or females should be happy and accepting of males in their spaces.

And of course, we're all somehow conservatives when it suits you to cast us as evil devils. Yep. Gotcha.
 
Agreed that the TRAs are the primary pushers for formalizing legislation on the matter. What I'm not clear on is whether that is the cause or effect. Like, I'm not sure if they were pushing back against a movement to exclude them (starting around the time that conservatives started pushing against Drag Queens and the like), or if they were motivated by being tired of being marginalized. Either way, I think the best solution remains to push back against legislation in either direction. Lobby to maintain the older status quo, as you say seems like the ideal.
The old status quo is dead. The TRAs killed it, and there's no going back. At this point, sex segregation requires laws to, at minimum, enable it.
And just to clarify where my head is at, I very viscerally want the boys in the boys room. But as I talk to women, more seem to say it's not that big a deal to them as I would have thought. They view it largely the way I view a woman using the men's room (in some bars I used to hang out in, it was pretty common). It's a little weird and my guard is up while they are in there, but we tolerate that kind of stuff sometimes.
Others have already touched on the idea of transferred consent. But there's another aspect of what you said here that I want to touch on. Namely, if you're in a bar, there's a reasonable expectation that everyone is an adult. So if you're in a bathroom in a bar, you can also expect that everyone in there is an adult. If someone of the wrong sex is in that bathroom, you can expect that they will only encounter other adults, not children. That is not the case in general. Which is another reason what might be tolerable at a bar should not be considered tolerable in general.
The Mass data is provided by the Williams Institute from UCLA in the states. In Jersey, our gender policy is lunatic wide open, but there is no formal data that I'm aware of.
Time and time again, we have pointed out all the problems that this data doesn't even touch upon.
We've discussed this at length ITT. You would intuitively think that every perv in the world would throw on a wig and charge the women's room if policy allowed it.
Why would you think that? That's silly. We should only expect a subset of pervs are going to do that.

And we DO see that happening. Have you forgotten Richard Cox already? I mean, I guess he didn't even have to throw on a wig, but I'd still say he qualifies.
That's the thing: it was never kept closed over here. There was never (till very recently in a few US states) any actual laws or penalties for being in the wrong rest room. We just sorted it out ourselves on the fly.
You don't need to impose legal penalties for merely being in the wrong restroom. It suffices enough to let authorities just trespass people, rather than punishing the people who complain (which we've seen plenty of).
 
I suspect he's trying to square the circle of trans being an internal sense of self, and that sense of self being identifiable via self-declaration that cannot be tested and can be a lie.

My preferred solution is to challenge the premise. I simply do not believe it is possible for a male to have an internal sense of a female self. Their bodies and experiences are simply incapable of providing the necessary data for such a sense.
I prefer to rely on the simple fact that the rest of the world has no reason to care about your internal sense of self. So we need not even decide what it is, what it means, or how we find out about it.
 
"@"ing puts the alert right on your screen. That's why it's called an alert. ETAing can be done without the poster knowing. It's far better to call attention with an "@" when the thread is fast moving.
It doesn't do this for me. It will show up in the notification list (the bell in the upper right), but I don't pay much attention to that. I try to clear it out about once a day because having red-backed numbers makes my brain itch. But it certainly doesn't put any alert in any obvious and visible location for me.
 
She's the third of the Three Musketeers, after Blanchard and Professor ◊◊◊◊ Saw.
This is a circumstantial ad hominemWP at best, not a substantive critique.

If we're going to argue about the existence, prevalence, or scope of AGP it's probably worth asking why it should matter.

If it turns out that AGP is actually very common (or very rare) would that change anyone's mind about the policies we've discussed here?
 
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Not all males are an inherent threat. Same as not all females inherently want to steal your husband then ice pick you to death. Aren't you doing the misandry thing?
I don't think so.

You are correct that not all males are a threat. In fact, MOST males are not a threat. But it's sometimes hard to distinguish them from the minority that are a threat. You know one really effective way that males can signal to females that they aren't a threat? By giving them space and privacy when they are changing, using the bathroom, or otherwise in vulnerable states.

And yeah, there actually are female equivalents which your own parallels hint at. Some women will try to steal husbands. You know how a woman can signal that she's not trying to steal your husband? By not sharing a hotel room with him on a business trip, by not going out to restaurants with just the two of them, etc.
 
Hi John Freestone, I meant to greet you and respond to your earlier post, but as you can see, we got tied up in a pissing match and it slipped my mind.

I get it would take a lot to catch up on my positions, so I'll give you the short version: I'm like 90% in agreement with most of the gender critical positions here. Strict sex segregation where nudity would be expected, no elective gender related body modifications to minors, and all that. Where I am conflicted is mostly on public restroom access. I think it should be pretty much like it has been for generations, men here and women there, and y'all sort yourselves out without force of law in either groups favor. I came to this thread a while back to discuss it more in depth with skeptics.
As we've said many times... there's no reasonable way to go back to this prior standard. Our trust has been completely betrayed, and there's no plausible way to enforce it. Failure to impose sex-based separation based on law results in a gigantic loophole visible from space, which any male can exploit simply by saying magic words when confronted.

Remember that females didn't change the rules of interaction - males professing transgender identities did.
But the majority of the forum avoids this thread like the plague, so the crew here is starved for a TRA to battle against, so they declare yours truly to be a TRA and back me into battling positions far more on the pro trans side than I really am.
I seriously don't understand why you feel like you're backed into battling these position. You take this on yourself, and you do it repeatedly.
Basically, I'm 'live and let live'. If women don't object to the occasional non-conformist in their rest room (as I don't object when a woman comes in ours once in a blue moon), then shrug it off. If a woman does object, she should not be penalized for harassment/discrimination. She has every right to object, just like she would for a woman behaving in a menacing manner.
Unless that female is Tish Hyman, in which case you decide that Tish engineered a confrontation just for public notice, then opine that females who don't want to be confronted with males in the female shower should just completely stop using public spaces.
 
Interesting, because you use them too. I've had a bunch of 'smartcooky mentioned you' pings on my alerts.
Why do you use them if you don't use them yourself?
I use them because when someone gets to the post it makes it easy to see that you're actually addressing them directly, rather than making a comment about them. But @Thermal, it's on the assumption that you can't time travel, so you haven't yet gone past the post that I just now hit reply on.
 
What is it that is causing you confusion?
Oh that, yes. I thought the convo was referring to Thermal (because so much of it had been), and when I saw 'Myriad' I didn't realise they'd contributed earlier. I remembered Myriad from years ago and wondered if they'd had a rename, that's all. I realised soon after but it didn't seem important enough to explain.
 
Agreed that the TRAs are the primary pushers for formalizing legislation on the matter. What I'm not clear on is whether that is the cause or effect. Like, I'm not sure if they were pushing back against a movement to exclude them (starting around the time that conservatives started pushing against Drag Queens and the like), or if they were motivated by being tired of being marginalized. Either way, I think the best solution remains to push back against legislation in either direction. Lobby to maintain the older status quo, as you say seems like the ideal.
The TRAs started this.

In UK they pushed to change the GRA, including removing all diagnosis requirements completely, requiring no active treatments, and drastically reducing (eliminating?) the waiting period and cost to change legal documents. When females put together a meeting to talk about what the proposal would mean for female rights, and where there might be some problems... a whole lot of males with transgender identities showed up and threatened and harassed the females so much that the meeting had to be cancelled and moved to a secret venue to avoid abuse. It still resulted in at least one elderly female being physically assaulted by a male with a transgender identity

In the US, much of the issues arose out of Obama and Biden executive orders redefining "sex" to include "gender identity" with respect to Title IX, and requiring that all publicly funded schools allow males to participate in female sports if those males say they have "womanly feelings" of some sort. It also required public schools to allow male students to use female bathrooms and showers. It resulted in several very unhappy female students who rose issue with it all... and were over and over again slapped down as being "bigots" for not wanting a fully intact male to be able to look at them while they were naked. Including a judge declaring that female students have no right to visual privacy while in the showers - thus effectively legalizing voyeurism.

Those were some of the flashpoints. But bear in mind that it's been steadily creeping in for about 25 years now, with males getting more and more blatant about overriding and dismissing female boundaries.

The conservative aspect of this is a new thing. Up until quite recently (last 5 years or so?), it's been almost entirely left-leaning and liberal females (and some male allies) who have been objecting and raising the alarm about this. And I'm fully worn out by the fact that every ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ time a conservative male decides to latch themselves onto this topic, a pile of ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ come out of the woodworks saying "gee, where have all the feminists been on this?" We've been here the entire time, they just don't bother to listen to females.
And just to clarify where my head is at, I very viscerally want the boys in the boys room. But as I talk to women, more seem to say it's not that big a deal to them as I would have thought. They view it largely the way I view a woman using the men's room (in some bars I used to hang out in, it was pretty common). It's a little weird and my guard is up while they are in there, but we tolerate that kind of stuff sometimes.
I suspect you're talking to a narrow range of females, and you're giving significantly greater weight to opinions you agree with than those you don't. ISF doesn't have a large number of female posters to begin with... but a significant majority of females here do NOT want males in female spaces including restrooms. I don't know if you are just unable to process our statements, seeing as you've decided we're all evil bigots who only want to keep males out of female spaces for "bad reasons", or if you've somehow decided we're not females at all. Either way... You just keep ignoring the growing data that demonstrates that views have shifted over the last decade, and that a majority of females now oppose letting males use female spaces. I know it's been shared with you repeatedly - one survey from the UK, one from the US.

I'm also curious how you're framing your question. For example, if you ask "Hey, do you freak out and get hysterical if a male wanders into the female restroom, like sometimes happens if it's busy or they're drunk?" you're going to get an entirely different answer than if you ask "Hey, are you copacetic with any male at all having the right to use female restrooms, as long as they make an out-loud claim of having a womanly gender identity regardless of whether they come even remotely close to passing?"
 
You seem to be basing your feelings about this on web pages (and like many here, based on the worst of the worst of them). I base mine on the limited experience I have with real ones. The transwoman I have seen go from a troubled teenage boy to a well-adjusted medically transitioned transwoman is worth more to me than wailing about some tweet from 20 years ago. I believe she is sincere in her belief that she was 'born in the wrong body', which I usually describe as having a crossed wire upstairs somewhere.
Do you use the same metric when considering male violence against females? Do you insist that because you don't personally know any males who have ever sexually assaulted a female, it must mean that females are just cherry picking a few bad apples out of all the great and fantastic males out there?

Or do you perhaps consider that 1) there are a whole lot of males that you don't know, and those that you surround yourself with are more likely to be more like you or 2) they're not going to tell you that they're sex predators in the first goddamned place.

You keep doing this, Thermal. You know a single male with a transgender identity, who seems to be a good person. And because you personally know a single good person, that means that every instance we show of males with transgender identities behaving very poorly, aggressively, and threateningly is somehow made up or we've gone looking for the absolute worst in order to push a false narrative.

It's rather annoying to have you repeatedly mansplain to us why we're the evil nasty bigots because your one friend is great so obviously the vast majority of males with transgender identities are great and we're just being hysterical about it.
 
It's also about the hypocrisy of males insisting that females must be forced to share intimate spaces with males because they don't want to share intimate spaces with other males. No evidence is apparently required for that preference to be taken as perfectly reasonable and understandable. "I'm male, but I'm a woman in my head, and women don't have to share intimate facilities with males, therefore actual women must be forced to share their intimate spaces with males". It's utterly nonsensical.
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Agreed, being up on the studies is essential, but what I am more interested in is how we interact and think of transpeople socially, when the boots hit the ground. I think that informs how we shape policy, and indeed which 'facts' we accept and dismiss. That's been a recurring theme in the discussion for the last year.
I'm not so sure this has been a recurring theme in this discussion. Or at least, you seem to have either completely missed or completely dismissed it. Because pretty much every poster in this thread doesn't care about social interactions. We don't care how people dress, or whether they wear make up or not, we don't care how long or short their hair is, or whether they paint their nails. We don't care if they have effeminate mannerisms or they're very macho in their behaviors. We don't care. More power to them.

We care about single sex spaces, sports, prisons, the sterilization and permanent medicalization of vulnerable youth, and we care about forced language.

Other than that, we don't care. And not caring isn't something evil or bad, it's not expressing a lack of empathy. It's literally expressing that all of those other things are personal preference. It's neither for nor against. It's like when I say I don't care about an interviewee's race; I shouldn't care about race, race is irrelevant to the work. I'm not going to avoid hiring someone because of their race, nor am I going to seek out people of any particular race. I simply don't take race into account at all, it's irrelevant. Same thing here: I don't care about how people dress or present themselves, I don't care how they feel about their inner souls and gendery essence. I am neither for it nor against it, it's irrelevant to me. I care no more about that than I care what their favorite flavor of pudding is.
 
I'm not so sure this has been a recurring theme in this discussion. Or at least, you seem to have either completely missed or completely dismissed it. Because pretty much every poster in this thread doesn't care about social interactions. We don't care how people dress, or whether they wear make up or not, we don't care how long or short their hair is, or whether they paint their nails. We don't care if they have effeminate mannerisms or they're very macho in their behaviors. We don't care. More power to them.

We care about single sex spaces, sports, prisons, the sterilization and permanent medicalization of vulnerable youth, and we care about forced language.
Pronoun usage falls under social interactions. But that's about the only thing we've objected to on that front, and even there, as you said, it's the compulsion that's really at issue. I don't think any of us objects to completely voluntary, uncoerced use of preferred pronouns, except perhaps when used to describe sexual predators to hide their actual sex.
 
First, let's solve for X. We really do need to stop sidestepping that one.

Then, we want to do a chicken wire assessment. Is the proposed wire any better than what was there? Is is going to reduce the instance of X? Or is it some half assed security theatre measure more suited to being able to harass and humiliate the non-predatory animals in the barnyard because we really dont like them?
How many females being intimidated by males while in female spaces do you think is the acceptable amount? What X do you think females should just be obligated to deal with?

And while you're assessing whether better chicken wire will protect chickens better than cheap flimsy chicken wire, let alone better than no chicken wire at all and an open coop door... Would you mind opining on why you think the chickens are evil barnyard bigots for wanting to keep out foxes in the first place?

Seriously, buddy. It's not like there are fifteen different types of humans here. There are two: male and female. You seem to demand that females can only be allowed to want to exclude predatory males, but can't want to exclude non-predatory males. Why on earth do you think that's a reasonable position for you to decide we should have to take? Are we supposed to do an intake evaluation and background check for every male to decide which get to use our bathrooms?

Why does it bother you so much that we want to keep ALL MALES out of female spaces, including bathrooms?

That has to be the bottom line consideration: will these measures do anything? Are the pervs deterred by someone saying "no pervng in this room", or as you suggested earlier, does that just add to the thrill and even possibly increase instances of X?
How about you take that little extra step, and ask "Will removing existing convention and barriers increase the behavior that we don't want?" Or perhaps "Will making the behavior no longer technically illegal increase the likelihood of the behavior happening?"

Because that's come up multiple times. Wi Spa, Evergreen Community College, Tish Hyman's gym. Over and over, we see males engaging in behavior that an objective and reasonable person would consider unacceptable: Showing their fully intact penises to females in female-specific intimate spaces. To any rational person, that's exhibitionism or flashing, and it's predatory male behavior. But a few times now, you seem to have taken the position that because it's legal, it's no longer exhibitionism, and female consent is no longer relevant. It's now become LEGAL for a male to show off their junk to non-consenting females. To which you seem to respond "Oh, it's not illegal" or "There are no reported crimes". As if that means it's not ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ happening! It's happening, but now it's magically okay - now males get to do the bad behavior without any fear of repercussions, because the law defends their right to flash or to peep on females!
 
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Not all males are an inherent threat. Same as not all females inherently want to steal your husband then ice pick you to death. Aren't you doing the misandry thing?
It turns out that the small subset of males who demand access to women's spaces whether women like it or not are exactly the small subset of males that is more likely to pose a threat if their demands are met.
 

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