I think that you are describing the indicators of false claims of ritual / satanic abuse in your post.
I fear that you may be throwing out the baby with the bathwater by deducing that the existence of the satanic panic and associated activities indicates that real ritual abuses never occur.
Sex and labour traffickers frequently use threats of black magic / juju / voodoo to terrify victims into complicity. Victims typically endure abusive rituals (often including violent and sexual assaults) as part of the grooming, recruitment and retention process.
Here is another example for you to consider.
A former member of a cult called Universal Medicine, describes the activities of the cult leader who claims to be able to heal women of various illnesses and emotional traumas (including rape) by massaging their breasts and genitals.
http://universalmedicineaccountabil...e-one-and-any-other-cult-member-who-feels-to/
http://universalmedicineaccountabil...front-for-deception-manipulation-and-control/
I am just wondering whether the activities of this particular cult leader qualify as "ritual abuse". While I cannot claim to know his intentions or motivations I think it unlikely that he is abusing the women in order to please a deity.
He is not acting alone in practising this kind of "healing". Vulnerable people all over the world including desperate people with terminal illnesses are visiting quacks who claim to heal them via intimate massage. The massages "burn bad karma", "awaken the kundalini", "activate the chakras" , whatever.
Here is another practitioner of this kind of abusive quackery, Wayne Clayton (apparently an expert in anal and vaginal reflexology). He claims that, via intimate tantric massage, he helped a cancer patient's breast grow back following a mastectomy.
*best have a sick bag at the ready before watching*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8eajlwJ_vA
IMO we need to clarify what we mean by ritual abuse, not least of all because some of the people who are promoting the myth of widespread SRA are also involved in exactly the kinds of practises I have posted about here.
Other posters have mentioned the unusual new age religious groups that a lot of IFS therapists (for example) and other therapists promoting the SRA myth belong to. If you dig a little deeper you will find some extremely disturbing facts about these religious groups.
If digitally manipulating the genital, rectal or breast area of a vulnerable person having convinced them that by doing so they will be cured from rape trauma / cancer/ MS / PTSD, via burning bad karma, cleaning chakras or some other BS is ritual abuse (and I believe that it is) then we have a very interesting situation in which some of the very same people who are screaming "ritual abuse" and pointing the finger at others are themselves perpetrators of ritual abuse.