A Conversation with Ruby

Oh, get of here, Whiney McWhineface. So because someone correctly points out that most Christians are sadists whose beliefs are predicated on fear, that person is a bigot?

I see, you choose the battle that suits you. Yes, if you say most Christians are sadist whose beliefs are predicated on fear, you are a bigot.

Are you a bigot because you believe the set of {all non-Christians} is going to hell?

No, I'm not. Because I'm not labeling a group with negative characteristics.


You really have no idea why this type of bigotry is wrong.

You can't defend yourself with reason, so you try to scare us with this "bigotry" garbage.

You can be as angry as you like. I'm not going away.
 
Christian said:
And just a reminder:

All forms of intolerance to a classified (specific group) is called bigotry.


Actually, according to Dictionary.com:

"\Big"ot*ry\, n. [Cf. F. bigoterie.] 1. The state of mind of a bigot; obstinate and unreasoning attachment of one's own belief and opinions, with narrow-minded intolerance of beliefs opposed to them."

Throw "Jesus" in there somewhere and we get a good definition of "Christianity"

Christianity: The state of mind of a Christian; obstinate and unreasoning attachment of one's own belief and opinions as to the divinity of Jesus, with narrow-minded intolerance of beliefs opposed to them."


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One is guilty of bigotry when one talks negatively about the group instead of the individuals (exceptions are noted, Nazis, KKK, etc.) [/B]

Your reasoning is bizzare at best.

First, a universal statement: "All forms of intolerance to a classified (specific group) is called bigotry."

--- here, you try to paint all those not liking Christians in general as "bigots," which is a negative term. Then at some point you realize the contradiction in that logic and mention some exceptions.

So it seems your real position is: All forms of intolerance to a classified (specific group) except those groups I disagree with is called bigotry.


So try again in your attempt to be holier than thou...
 
Suddenly wrote:
So try again in your attempt to be holier than thou...

You can say all you want.

Anybody that calls "most in X group are sadists is a bigot.

Go ahead and slice it, anyway you want. And while you people are at it. Avoid the main purpose of this thread.
 
Christian said:
Suddenly wrote:
So try again in your attempt to be holier than thou...

You can say all you want.

Anybody that calls "most in X group are sadists is a bigot.

What if they are sadists? What if group "X" is a collection of S&M enthusiasts?

If they are sadists, then calling them sadists is nothing but a true statement. If they aren't sadists then it is not a true statement. If it is done for the purpose of hurting the named party then it is an "insult."

Insulting people is not equal to bigotry, you stupid idiot (see!).

A statement that "Christians are sadists" when explaining why one is no longer a Christian is simply an opinion, based on personal observation. Personally, I find them to be more masochists than sadists, given their affinity for self-denial, but I do see elements of sadism in some of the more fundimentalist sects. Considering the context of a claim is important, so if such a mention came from one that has had more experience with Pentacostals than Presbyterians then it in context would be reasonable to me.


Trying to paint such a thing as bigotry is just stupid. It also marginalizes real bigotry and attempts to capitialize on the suffering of those actually harmed by narrow-mindedness.



Go ahead and slice it, anyway you want. And while you people are at it. Avoid the main purpose of this thread.

"You people?"

Engaging in a little negative classification are we?
 
LFTKBS said:


Oh, get of here, Whiney McWhineface. So because someone correctly points out that most Christians are sadists whose beliefs are predicated on fear, that person is a bigot? Meh. Am I a bigot because I correctly point out that Scientology is a cult?

Are you a bigot because you believe the set of {all non-Christians} is going to hell? It's a group! A group!

You can't defend yourself with reason, so you try to scare us with this "bigotry" garbage.

How do you know so much about sadism and fear?

-Elliot
 
Suddenly said:


Actually, according to Dictionary.com:

"\Big"ot*ry\, n. [Cf. F. bigoterie.] 1. The state of mind of a bigot; obstinate and unreasoning attachment of one's own belief and opinions, with narrow-minded intolerance of beliefs opposed to them."

Throw "Jesus" in there somewhere and we get a good definition of "Christianity"

Christianity: The state of mind of a Christian; obstinate and unreasoning attachment of one's own belief and opinions as to the divinity of Jesus, with narrow-minded intolerance of beliefs opposed to them."



So try again in your attempt to be holier than thou... [/B]

And you are obstinate and narrow-minded about people who think differently from you.

You've demonstrated your ability to preach how much better you are than Christians. Nice one.

-Elliot
 
Suddendly wrote:
Insulting people is not equal to bigotry, you stupid idiot (see!).


You do show your true colors. You can't help it, can you? As I've said many times, that is all the power you have in here. And now, you have even less power, because this is the most you can say, anything more is a no no.

If they are sadists, then calling them sadists is nothing but a true statement. If they aren't sadists then it is not a true statement

Calling Christians sadists is bigotry.

A statement that "Christians are sadists" when explaining why one is no longer a Christian is simply an opinion, based on personal observation.

And I have the right to challenge that.

Personally, I find them to be more masochists than sadists, given their affinity for self-denial, but I do see elements of sadism in some of the more fundimentalist sects. Considering the context of a claim is important, so if such a mention came from one that has had more experience with Pentacostals than Presbyterians then it in context would be reasonable to me.

And this is bigotry. If you can't get why making blanket statement is dangerous, then that is you shortcoming. I'm glad you can only do harm in a forum, and not the real world.

I would be very afraid if you had more power or control.

Trying to paint such a thing as bigotry is just stupid. It also marginalizes real bigotry and attempts to capitialize on the suffering of those actually harmed by narrow-mindedness.

The defenders of liberties, I assure you, did not have your views. You can call me an idiot or stupid, and still that view is bigotry.

"You people?"

Yes, the plural for the people you say Christians are sadists in this thread.

Engaging in a little negative classification are we?

Absolutely, I can call them by name (if you can't see the difference, that is a big problem)
 
Christian said:
Beside, she agreed to come to this thread.

If I'm wrong, I see no evidence of it yet. I see plenty of evidence to the contrary.

I am still getting over the flu, but feel the need to start trying to respond to your posts. It's going to take awhile to respond to everything.............and I might not get to it all.

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Originally posted by Eos of the Eons
I find it ludicrous that are affairs are considered, but divorce is not.

Affairs are way worse than leaving a bad marriage. My husband better divorce me before he ever has an affair.

I can't believe their stinking peaves about Ruby's post.
Nutballs, all of them, and I admire you all for leaving this craziness behind when you left christianity behind.

I bet that's mostly what made them all so nuts in the first place. The guy's shame at his fantasies keep him from being sexually functional with a woman. I know lots of guys with warped fantasies, and it doesn't hold them back from sex with their wives.

Gads. Nuts nuts nuts.
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Ruby's response to that:

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Originally posted by Ruby
Yep!!!
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Tricky, how about this for condescension:

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Originally posted by Ruby
Well, I figured I may as well go out like a bang. I've got them all praying for me now....it's pretty serious when they all start into praying for you!!!
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The context of these quotes can be found here.............>http://www.randi.org/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29104&highlight=gads

The thread had to do with a poster on RR forum who was in a sexless marriage....never consumated...because the husband could only get off to fantasies about women in violent situations. The wife had said "my husband does masterbate, and is able to find release.. however, only when fantasizing about "wounded women"... women with bullet holes.. arrows... bruises.. blood... etc."

My response of "Yep" to Eos of Eons, is justified in my mind under the circumstances. That whole situation was nuts.......as well as sick and sad.

The wife admitted to having affairs....even though she was a Christian, and seemed to be looking for someone to tell her it was okay to have another affair. She felt divorce was the wrong thing to do. I went on the forum in hopes to help this lady as I felt some of the advice she had been given was awful. Naturally, my help was not taken kindly. I had the posters in the thread saying they would pray for me. It seems my advice upset them that much. It's true statement I made "it's pretty serious when they all start into praying for you!!!". I don't take it back for one second.
 
Originally posted by elliotfc

The longer I live, the more apparent it is that people believe what they want to believe...
Well, the longer I live, the more apparent it is to me that this notion is completely bogus. The assumption that belief is a choice is indeed central to Christianity. If you believe, you get eternal life -- if you don't, you get the lake of fire.

But belief -- about anything -- is not something that can be toggled on or off like a switch. It is graded over a range of values from complete confidence to complete lack of confidence. For the most part, those degrees of confidence are composites of outputs from numerous low-level processes which are not subject to conscious control (whatever that is).
If you want to find reasons to not believe, or to believe, or to have no opinion, or to believe in disbeliving, or to disbelieve in believing, you'll find them.
There are two fundamentally very different approaches here. One is to make a commitment to believing in a certain thing because that belief will produce a certain feeling -- the most popular choice being a warm, fuzzy feeling. The desired state may not, however, simply be summoned on demand; the low-level processes involved must be persuaded with some kind of evidence. Providing them with carefully selected data is one way to modify the results; repetitively inputting the same data over and over is another.

I tried these methods for years. I wanted to believe as much as anyone ever did. I tried to believe. I pretended to believe. At times, I almost believed that I believed. But the doubt was always there, pricking me like a thorn. Something wasn't right, and I knew it. Holding the thing up was just too much work. When I see excessive enthusiasm about a belief system -- fanaticism -- I understand. I know the torment doubt can bring, and I try to remember to be compassionate. Though I reached a point of acceptance about what I really believe, it didn't come easy.

The other approach, of course, is to make a commitment to truth. Once the struggle is over, it's the only thing left -- to try to find the courage to be willing to follow the evidence wherever it leads. This requires courage because the truth is often quite ugly -- even terrifying. And there is no turning back. Atheism is the red pill.
 
Dymanic wrote:
The other approach, of course, is to make a commitment to truth. Once the struggle is over, it's the only thing left -- to try to find the courage to be willing to follow the evidence wherever it leads. This requires courage because the truth is often quite ugly -- even terrifying. And there is no turning back. Atheism is the red pill.

But if I'm really honest with myself and SEE human limitations to knowledge (in the context of close to infinite information and (from the MA perspective) randomness)) then I have to admit that the truth is unattainable.

The things that atheist can be certain about (that really matter) in comparison to the rest of the population (including Christians) is miniscule, at best.
 
Originally posted by Christian

...the truth is unattainable
Agreed. It is an ugly, even terrifying, fact that that to which I am commited is something I can never attain.
 
Dymanic said:

Well, the longer I live, the more apparent it is to me that this notion is completely bogus. The assumption that belief is a choice is indeed central to Christianity. If you believe, you get eternal life -- if you don't, you get the lake of fire.

I'd quibble by saying you get the "lake of fire" if you reject, as oppose to the whole belief thing. At that point belief is out the window, all the cards will be on the table.

But belief -- about anything -- is not something that can be toggled on or off like a switch.

Sure it can. Taking the card analogy from above, if you're playing a card game, like spades, you can go from believing you'll make your bid to believing you'll be set. Happens all the time.

It is graded over a range of values from complete confidence to complete lack of confidence. For the most part, those degrees of confidence are composites of outputs from numerous low-level processes which are not subject to conscious control (whatever that is).

Is that what you believe?

I think there are a whole bunch of variables.

There are two fundamentally very different approaches here. One is to make a commitment to believing in a certain thing because that belief will produce a certain feeling -- the most popular choice being a warm, fuzzy feeling.

How exactly do you know this? I respect your belief of course.

I could also say that you stating your beliefs gives you a warm and fuzzy feeling. I don't know what's in your heart/head however. Were you excited when you were typing this response? Did you feel any glee at showing how your knowledge makes someone else wrong? I have no idea. How do you know what feelings people have? Besides belief. Do you have magic powers?

The desired state may not, however, simply be summoned on demand; the low-level processes involved must be persuaded with some kind of evidence. Providing them with carefully selected data is one way to modify the results; repetitively inputting the same data over and over is another.

Or contemplating and thinking and working things out.

I tried these methods for years. I wanted to believe as much as anyone ever did. I tried to believe. I pretended to believe. At times, I almost believed that I believed. But the doubt was always there, pricking me like a thorn. Something wasn't right, and I knew it. Holding the thing up was just too much work. When I see excessive enthusiasm about a belief system -- fanaticism -- I understand. I know the torment doubt can bring, and I try to remember to be compassionate. Though I reached a point of acceptance about what I really believe, it didn't come easy.

See, you tried the wrong methods (in my opinion). It isn't about wanting to believe as much as being content. But that's just me. I have doubts prick me all the time, what's so bad about doubt?

I see excessive enthusiasm for belief systems all over this forum. What's so bad about that?

It is always good to be compassionate. That includes not assuming what is going on inside other peoples heads. Just because you had these horrible feelings doesn't mean that all other believers think the same.

The other approach, of course, is to make a commitment to truth. Once the struggle is over, it's the only thing left -- to try to find the courage to be willing to follow the evidence wherever it leads. This requires courage because the truth is often quite ugly -- even terrifying. And there is no turning back. Atheism is the red pill.

I don't know what this red pill stuff is about.

But aside from that, I've heard Christians say the exact same thing. Christians say that it takes courage to follow the truth, and atheists say the same.

-Elliot
 
All forms of intolerance to a classified (specific group) is called bigotry.

One is guilty of bigotry when one talks negatively about the group instead of the individuals (exceptions are noted, Nazis, KKK, etc.)

One is guilty of bigotry even when one talks in generic terms of Nazis, KKK, etc. Most Nazis, Klansmen, etc. don’t see themselves as evil. They do evil because they follow evil philosophies. These philosophies divide humanity into groups; Aryan and non-Aryan, white and non-white, etc. and then deny the worth and basic humanity of those in the non-favored group. This division and dehumanization is the basis of the evil produced by these philosophies. The Nazis didn’t just wake up one day and say: “hey, let’s burn all the Jews and the Gypsies!” They worked up to it over a period of years with a concerted campaign of propaganda and gradual steps. They had to dehumanize and vilify their victims before they could kill them with impunity.

Now, let’s look at this subject as it applies to Christianity. Does it divide humanity? Yes. There are the believers and the non-believers – the saved and the unsaved. Does it dehumanize one group? Absolutely. In traditional Christian theology, unbelievers are damned to hell to suffer for eternity. But a good and loving God wouldn’t condemn people to such a fate unless they deserved it. So the unbeliever is a fallen creature fully deserving of damnation. Can there be a greater dehumanization of a person than to claim they deserve to spend an eternity in Hell? I’ve noticed that a lot of fundamentalist preachers tend to treat terms like atheist, agnostic, secular humanist, and Satanist as essentially indistinguishable. Atheists, agnostics, and secular humanists don’t believe Christian philosophy so they are going to hell so they must be bad people.

I lost my religion when I was in college. I did not however, become particularly anti-religion until September 11, 2001 when I watch a dozen religious fanatics murder several thousand people in the name of their God. These were Muslims rather than Christians, of course, but given the similarities of the faiths (both claim to be the one true path with Heaven for the believer and Damnation for the infidel) and the bloody histories of both, the distinction is academic.

I willingly concede that the majority of religious people are not bad people. Most of the ones I know are in fact decent and sincere folks. They are merely misguided. It does bother me that some people on these forums tend to attack theists in a personal manner rather than focusing on the real issue. I tend to take a “love the theist, hate the theology” approach to the subject. Religious is ultimately divisive, destructive, and an impediment to science, progress, and civilization in general, and humanity would be better off without it.
 
espritch said:

I willingly concede that the majority of religious people are not bad people. Most of the ones I know are in fact decent and sincere folks. They are merely misguided. It does bother me that some people on these forums tend to attack theists in a personal manner rather than focusing on the real issue. I tend to take a “love the theist, hate the theology” approach to the subject. Religious is ultimately divisive, destructive, and an impediment to science, progress, and civilization in general, and humanity would be better off without it.

Progress? There will always be progress. How can progress be avoided in chronological time?

Civilization? Hard to imagine civilizations getting off the ground without religion.

Your rhetoric is certainly divisive and inflammatory. I know you would never do anything like make religion illegal, imprison religious, or worse kill religious types.

We have to be tolerant of each other, regardless of their beliefs. I don't fault science for nuclear bombs. Science is cool.

-Elliot
 
Christian, get over yourself.

Ruby has managed to divest herself of the unquestioning belief in a particular cult's mythology, a cult to which you apparently still adhere. Hence, she is already ahead of you, having managed the feat of entering the 21'st century while you are still stuck in you dogma.

I'm sure there were lots of factors which influenced her escape, not least the piling up of inconsistencies between what the cult preached and how it's leader and worshippers acted.

What is your hangup regarding her "intellectual" journey?
 
Christian said:
Ruby

Here a sample of your comments:
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Originally posted by Ruby on 01-30-2004 in The psychology of Hell

Fear, fear fear. That seems to be the biggest motivaton behind so much in Christianity...although so many Christians can't see it. So many who have doubts, but still cling to Christianity, would never admit that they hold on due to a deep seated fear that "Hell" might still be for real.
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I have been angered by the hardheartedness and mercilessness of those who, as you said, "take some perverse glee in describing the torments of the damned". Rapture ready forum....and other Christian forums have their fair share of those who get their jollies talking about how torturous they think "hell" is. The more hideous and agonizing they make it sound, the more they seem to get off on it.................even though some will say how desperately they don't want anyone to end up in "hell". Even if they say that, I still get the feeling that on some level they can't wait for people to be sent there.
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Originally posted by Ruby on 01-15-2004 in Are Christians Persecuted? A Replication Poll

So, I get pretty ticked off when Christians start running on about being persecuted. However, I know it's just a sort of brainwashed view. I had it once too. I would not...could not face the facts. I had to believe that we had it rough...even though I knew we had it great....if that makes any sense!!!
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Originally posted by Ruby on 11-19-2003 in Motivation for morals

When I was a Christian, I was motivated by fear to be moral...this turned into legalism. Most Christians went around feeling superior if they abstained from more "worldly" things than other Christians. For some, it was considered immoral to drink alcohol. For others, to wear make-up was immoral. So many Christians spent far too much time worrying and sweating over little things to even face the fact that they were being immoral in the big things...where it really counted. I found many christians to be harsh and condemning of others...and the biggest backstabbing gossips. The spread of false and malicious stories was rampant. There were abuses of every sort...including sexual.

Christians have not cornered the market on morals!!

Now, as an agnostic, I choose to be moral...without fear or pressure....without legalism...without pretense. I don't expect or wait to be rewarded for doing a good deed...as christians always do.....I just do good deeds, period...expecting nothing.

I feel better about myself due to this.
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Poor Catholics get picked on so bad by a lot of Christian....especially 1st United Pencostal christians. I think they'd just like to burn them all at the stake. It's so horrid how they talk about them
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Originally posted by Ruby on Most irritating theological argument ever

The guy's only "good" argument for the legitimacy of the bible was that it is "powerful" . He says the Holy spirit moves you as you read it. You "feel" something. Personally, I "feel" more reading a novel or watching a comedy or horror movie. I am much more moved by listening to Vivaldi or Puccini.

Anyway, I guess that is one of the most ridiculous arguments I hear a lot from Christians.
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Originally posted by Ruby on 09-02-2003 in Contradictions needed!

It does help that I've had years of bible study. In the lists of contradictions, I know so many that can be explained away by fundamentalist christian. I know the aruments and pat answers. Some are pitiful...some are logical......few are logical.
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Thank you for going to all the trouble of digging up those quotes. You have been busy. I still agree with them all and stand by them. Perhaps, in time, my mind will change on some things, but for now, I agree with what I wrote and see it as my opinion due to my own personal experience as a Christian.

Ruby wrote:
I was not aware that I have "Constantly" talked down about Christians. I will stand corrected if that is the case. Perhaps I have made a reputation on JREF for cutting down Christians without even realizing it.

Constantly is a subjective term I used loosely,

Now you say!!

nevertheless, you have done it sufficiently enough to accept challenges and observations.

It all seems rather ludicrous to me. I can't understand why you seem out to get me.

That you successfully vilified me, does not stop me from asserting that my statements have gone unchallenged by you.

Where on earth have I vilified you? I'm at a loss as to why you say that. You have put me down left and right...dug up former posts to malign my character for all to see......and now you say that I have "successfully vilified" you?

You have missrepresented my position. (this is another fact I point out.

No, this is your opinion. I cannot even conceive of how you come up with the idea that I have misrepresented your postition. I am sure you will let me know now.

And I believe you are wrong. You can't take a position and the complain if someone calls you on it.

That is not my habit. However, when someone cuts me down or my posts, without an apology, I don't feel inclined to respond to their questions.

When you responded to my post by saying " I don't think you stopped being a Christian for intellectual reasons. From your posts, I see very little intellectual reasoning and a lot of emotional elements. The refutation for the "the suffering in world" by non-believers is very basic and straight forward. That you come out and say this is one of the reasons you had to rethink your belief system is intellectual lazyness or a cop-out answer."

I did not feel good about myself after reading that. It stung. Laugh if you want. As I already told you, I struggle enough feeling inferior coming on here where everyone is miles above me intellectually. Plus, I have Fibromyalgia, which effects cognitive abilities. See these two sites for info http://www.drlamb.com/fibrofog.htm
http://www.wearefmily.com/brainfog.htm <----This is a humorous site. It helps fibro sufferers to see humor in some of the fibro symptoms, especially brain fog.

I used to be good at debates, but now it takes time, and sometimes, my brain is in a total fog. That is one reason I tend to choose discussions that are not too intellectual. The thread you accosted me in seemed a safe and easy thread.

Anytime I tried to explain my lack of intellectual ability or cognitive problems you accused me of "playing the victim". No matter what, you twisted everything around to put me in the wrong. I am sure you will do likewise with this post too.

Still, I will keep plodding through until I can respond to most of what you have said here...and then maybe I can share my conversion story...........but that may take some time to put together..... to get all my thoughts clear and typed out halfway legible.

As I have already admitted, I think, emotional reasons did play a big part in my departure from Christianity, but there were intellectual reasons too. It was not based solely on being hurt/emotionally abused by the church. Anyhow, I'll get to that as I'm able.
 
Excellent stuff, Ruby!

Don't mind Christian. He is simply trying to denigrate the achievements of those who were strong enough to escape the mindcontrol. "Sour grapes" is an appropriate term.
 
Ruby,

You are one of the most peaceful and respectful people on the board, I don't know why Christian would feel that you have constantly badmouthed christians or anything. I have a hard time undestanding why C. is having this conversation with you, I have read the thread a number of times. At least you make sense.

Peace
 
Originally posted by elliotfc

I'd quibble by saying you get the "lake of fire" if you reject, as oppose to the whole belief thing. At that point belief is out the window, all the cards will be on the table.
Huh?
Taking the card analogy from above, if you're playing a card game, like spades, you can go from believing you'll make your bid to believing you'll be set.
Like most words in the language, 'belief' has more than one possible meaning. The one you are using here is not the one most relevant to this discussion.
Is that what you believe?
Yes. What is important is that I don't have any choice about believing this.
I think there are a whole bunch of variables.
Yes, that's pretty much what I was saying.
How exactly do you know this?
I'd say that is a relatively trivial observation about human nature.
I could also say that you stating your beliefs gives you a warm and fuzzy feeling.
You could. This is in fact precisely the erroneous assumption Christians so often make that atheists reach their conclusions by the same methods they themselves use (i.e., trying to make the facts fit the pre-drawn conclusions). I do not doubt that for many atheists, this is in fact the case.
How do you know what feelings people have?
I think that regardless of perspective -- religious, political, emotional, philosophical, whatever -- a reasonable (even indispensible) assumption is that there is more commonality than variation between individuals with regard to certain fundamental qualities of experience.
See, you tried the wrong methods (in my opinion).
We are speaking across a vast gulf it seems. You assume a priori that reaching a particular conclusion is a valid objective.
I see excessive enthusiasm for belief systems all over this forum. What's so bad about that?
Well, there's nothing bad about it. It is simply part of a struggle. I take excessive enthusiasm as evidence of doubt, no matter what direction it's pointing in. It may be that, like those who claim to be sincere believers, not all who call themselves atheists are secure in that either (or they might be less inclined to spend so much energy defending it -- unless they're just bored).
It is always good to be compassionate. That includes not assuming what is going on inside other peoples heads
Sorry, but you simply can't not do that. It runs on automatic. A huge amount of your cognitive wiring is devoted specifically to that task. It's not about perfect accuracy, it's about fast, reasonable guesses. I wasn't actually making any broad claims about being able to do any more than that, but I do feel that my personal experience is a valid (if imperfect) model in trying to understand others. Without such a model, I have nothing on which to base compassion, or anything else.
I don't know what this red pill stuff is about
You never saw The Matrix?
 

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