I am trying to speak to you in terms you will understand.
For simplicity and to avoid unnecessary argument let's say we can agree that Israel and Hamas both should follow the Geneva Conventions, and other widely-subscribed western conventions on ethical warfare, acceptable collateral damage, etc.
And let's say we can also agree that when Hamas violates these conventions - by using human shields to try to win a battle, for example - it is Hamas, not Israel, that should be held accountable for the civilian deaths arising from Israel not granting them victory by means of human shields.
At least, I think we can agree on these things. Do you think we can agree?