It seems like an oxymoron to me, but this seems to be the usual (only?) take from judeochristian religions.
Namely: do X because you'll be rewarded if you do and punished if you don't.
Not: do X because it's the right thing to do, even though you're not going to get anything out of it and might even be punished for doing it
Whereas I, an agnostic, try to do the right thing because it's the right thing, not out of any hope for salvation or fear of damnation.
It comes down to what sociologists would call a fundamental difference between obtaining behavior through internalization vs obedience.
Obedience will be rebelled against if the controls are ever released.
Internalization will not.
Tellingly, Christians very frequently pose morality in just such terms: that if we didn't have the bible, people would act with no concern for their fellow man, totally selfishly, etc.
IOW: they fundamentally believe that people only do the right thing if they are forced to.
I find that bizarre and a bit abhorrent. And scary - are they all potential serial killers just too scared of hell to do it?
Namely: do X because you'll be rewarded if you do and punished if you don't.
Not: do X because it's the right thing to do, even though you're not going to get anything out of it and might even be punished for doing it
Whereas I, an agnostic, try to do the right thing because it's the right thing, not out of any hope for salvation or fear of damnation.
It comes down to what sociologists would call a fundamental difference between obtaining behavior through internalization vs obedience.
Obedience will be rebelled against if the controls are ever released.
Internalization will not.
Tellingly, Christians very frequently pose morality in just such terms: that if we didn't have the bible, people would act with no concern for their fellow man, totally selfishly, etc.
IOW: they fundamentally believe that people only do the right thing if they are forced to.
I find that bizarre and a bit abhorrent. And scary - are they all potential serial killers just too scared of hell to do it?