Mediumship

Final part (and there was much rejoicing)

Now we're at Ian post #4

Ian agrees with my tiger analogy. Great. Ian agrees with my dragon analogy. Great.

Ian of course doesn't see the analogical connection to mediumship. Not so great. ;)

Ian quotes me as sayingWhen one makes a claim that is irrational, then asking for proof isn't bizarre. It's not a personal attack.

Ian responds The possibility of communicating with dead people is irrational? How so?

I already answered that previously, in this post and in other posts. I even broke down the meaning of irrational and applied it to the claim. If you don't agree with my position, super. However it's a tad disingenious to act as though I'm coming up with it out of the blue with nothing supporting that statement.

Skipping the illness analogy

Ian postsIf mediums can't provide any evidence for their claims, and what they achieve appears to be cold-reading, then obviously it would be rational to conclude that at the present time it is probably not possible to communicate with dead people. Obviously I do not dispute this.

Marian, what is your actual argument with me? What are you actually disagreeing with me about??
It doesn't matter if what they achieve appears to be cold readings or not. If mediums can't provide evidence for their claims, and those claims cannot be tested and verified, then at this time, as you agree, it's probably not possible to communicate with the dead.

Since no one at this time can communicate with the dead, someone claiming the ability to do so, without offering proof, is making an irrational claim.

Glad we agree. I'm not sure what you're disagreeing with me about over your 6 post response, other than missing things I've already posted in this thread.

Ian quotes meThe same is true of paranormal abilities, if someone wishes to publically make that claim, then yeah, skeptical people are going to question it. Just as I would question you if you claimed you had a pet dragon. Whereas if you had a pet tiger, I wouldn't really care.

Ian respondsWell of course people should question it. But they shouldn't ignore all the evidence. Or desperately seek post-hoc hypotheses to explain away the evidence.

Yet in your previous statement you said "what they achieve appears to be cold-reading", isn't that desperately seeking a post-hoc hypotheses to explain away the evidence? And what evidence? That's really the kicker. I disagree with you, it's not desperately seeking blah blah blah, it's offering alternative plausabilities for a scenario, instead of the paranormal one. And given that "the paranormal" has not been proven, yet other explainations HAVE been demonstrated previously...what's the more reasonable conclusion?

If someone hears voices in their head, is the more reasonable assumption schizophrenia, or God talking to them, or demonic possession? (That is, btw, another analogy ;))

Then I posted asking if you were done replying yet, and asking you to please define skeptic v. sceptic.

Then we have Ian post #5:

Ian quotes himself (I believe, wasn't 100% clear) as posting previouslyI told you. If you claim something is irrational it is insufficient for you to content yourself with your feelings. Communicating with the dead is not like levitating. Levitating contravenes what we understand about reality. This is not the case for communicating with dead people.

Ian quotes me as saying Communicating with the dead contravenes what we understand about reality too.

Ian then respondsAh! Does it indeed? Care to explain in what way??

You've already agreed to it:
Ian agreed:[/i]If mediums can't provide any evidence for their claims, and what they achieve appears to be cold-reading, then obviously it would be rational to conclude that at the present time it is probably not possible to communicate with dead people. Obviously I do not dispute this.

You've agreed that it's rational to conclude that at the present time, it is probably not possible to communicate with dead people.

So I guess I'd have to ask you to explain why you believe levitation contravenes what we know about reality, but communicating with dead people doesn't? It simply doesn't make sense to me, given your previous statement.

-Skipping over my addressing Ian using terms like 'stupid' etc, and his comment that it makes no difference how he explains things people are as 'thick as f*ck around here-

Only comment to the part I'm skipping over is, thanks for clarifying your position on how you view and treat others.

-Skipping over Ian addressing again 'you haven't shown why you believe it's irrational' and quoting me as already stating I have, and pointing out why. I can only say yet again if you don't agree with that, fine...but I've said it several times already, and have already reposted it again in this post. And as far as I can see, you've already agreed with me about it!-

Ian insistsWell, just paste them in again and I'll let you know.

I'll pull out one VERY specific part where I directly addressed this previously. It's not the only part where I addressed it specifically though.

I posted previouslyIrrational (per M-W) not rational: as a (1) : not endowed with reason or understanding (2) : lacking usual or normal mental clarity or coherence b : not governed by or according to reason

The ability to communicate with the dead is not understood, correct? We have no formal studies on how (or if) this ability exists. It lacks normal mental clarity and coherence. The average person does not claim to communicate with the dead. And how/what each medium does/communicates varies widely apparently. And it is certainly not governed by or according to reason, otherwise it would be measurable, and demonstratable.

So I don't think it's incorrect to say it's irrational. Claiming to communicate with the dead isn't rational. Whether or not one is able to actually perform such an amazing feat...I await evidence. I do not believe it likely. As I said previously that doesn't answer to: Is it possible? So far that answer is "No, it is not possible." Perhaps that will be disproven by someone, but I'm not holding my breath. And as I stated before, I would be more than happy to be incorrect.

Ian quotes me as sayingIf someone claims to be able to communicate with the dead, I can say, well gee, that flies in the face of everything we know.

Ian respondsCould you elaborate on this? How does it?

You've already agreed with me. Here, I'll show you.

Ian saidIf mediums can't provide any evidence for their claims, and what they achieve appears to be cold-reading, then obviously it would be rational to conclude that at the present time it is probably not possible to communicate with dead people. Obviously I do not dispute this.

So um, what are you arguing again? If you agree that at this time it's not possible, and I say 'it flies in the face of everything we know', what's the dispute?

Ian quotes meSo yes, I'm not taking it at face value, I'd like more information please. They are making the claim. Again if they want to state that it comes down to an article of faith, that's one thing, but the ability to communicate with the dead isn't about faith. They're stating clearly that they have a very specific ability. Questioning that isn't just reasonable, it's common sense.

Ian respondsIt's not clear to me who is disputing this.

It's not clear to me what you're disputing since you seem to dispute something in one breath and agree with it in another. However I'll remind you again that the thread is about Lorri's claims that she is able to communicate with the dead. Lorri has made claims about how she doesn't need to prove it. The thread isn't about you, it's about Lorri and medium abilities. I've just taken the time to respond to you (quite a bit in this post).

I've since added Lorri to my ignore list, so I've attempted to avoid mentioning her (even though this IS a thread started by her claims) since I have no interest at this point in reading her replies since she seemed to bring nothing but baseless insults to the table. (My opinion).

Now we're at Ian post #6 (unless I've lost count)

Ian quotes me as saying (skipping the first quote) Irrational (per M-W) not rational: as a (1) : not endowed with reason or understanding (2) : lacking usual or normal mental clarity or coherence b : not governed by or according to reason

The ability to communicate with the dead is not understood, correct?

Ian respondsNot understood? :confused: Is communication with living people understood?? I really don't understand what you mean by "understood".

Depends on what the definition of 'is' is? C'mon. :P

Assuming you actually don't get it...communcation between living people is understood. It can be visual (sign language, body language, type/text), it can be auditory (hearing their voice, listening to a recording), it can be tactile (someone blind and deaf can have someone 'sign' into their hand, people can read braille).

These methods are not mysterious, they are completely demonstratable and understood.

The dead are rotting. (or are reduced to ash and bone bits, depending on one's prefered method of corpse disposal). I think it's safe to assume that no one is claiming that the dead body 'communicates' as most 'mediums' claim that it's the dead person themselves (which is not the rotting flesh, but their spirit/soul/essense/whatever) that is 'communicating. How is that done?

Depends on who you ask, right? I mean sometimes it's some physical manifestation (Knock three times if you can hear us oh spirits!), sometimes it's "images" directly conveyed to the medium, who translates those images for the sitter. Sometimes it's direct telepathy. None of these things are 'understood' right? Unless of course you can show me scientific data explaining the processes.

But we've already agreed that it's never been demonstrated, and that it's a reasonable assumption that it cannot be done at this time. So what is it again that you're disagreeing with?

Unless you're presenting (which I think you are) that while no one has been able to do it at this time, that it is possible to do. In which case I'd ask what method that would be, please explain it.

If you're saying that it could be possible, then assuming anything could be possible, sure. But obviously communication with the dead isn't "understood" by any definition you could offer, given your previous agreement to it not being possible at this time.

Ian quotes me as sayingWe have no formal studies on how (or if) this ability exists.

Ian respondsHow does anything exist?

Oh so when previous arguments fail, and you basically agree that it's not possible at this time, you resort to philosophical quips? I mean if you want to get into a 'what is reality?' discussion all well and good, but if you want to derail into philosophy then can I fall back on you being a figment of my imagination? ;) Or perhaps I'm a figment of yours?

Either way it's a non sequitur.

-Then we have more stuff about 'irrational' which was already hashed out several times previously but you keep returning to it because somehow you missed it I guess-

Ian quotes me as sayingWhether or not one is able to actually perform such an amazing feat...I await evidence. I do not believe it likely. As I said previously that doesn't answer to: Is it possible? So far that answer is "No, it is not possible."

Ian responds: Not possible? Logically impossible? Physically impossible? What sort of impossibility are we talking about here?


Which is funny since you know what I'm talking about having already agreed with it. Sure out of context it appears as though I'm saying it's an absolute impossibility, or that one could imply that was a possible meaning. But in context when I stated repeatedly it is not possible at this time, you've agreed.

So you were well aware of my meaning, and the context. It didn't magically change mid-post. ;)

Since I don't know the color of the sky on your world, I'll say very clearly that it is reasonable to assume that the context remains the same, that the reference goes back my previous assertation in the very same post, that currently it is not possible. Which was already stated by me, which you acknowledged and agreed with.

That should be extremely clear....in context.

And Ian's post ended with him finally offering me a link to clarify what he meant between "skeptic" and "sceptic". Thanks for the link, I appreciate it. :D And I found the article interesting. :)
 
Posted by Oleron

I do not know you but I would love to get a message from my father, who died in 2001.
Hi Oleron,

Just a friendly word of advice (as someone who's had many readings), usually its better to not give anything out ahead of time and just see what they can get, if anything.

(Well, that's unless one is doing it for a different reason, of course. :) ).
 
Clancie said:

Hi Oleron,

Just a friendly word of advice (as someone who's had many readings), usually its better to not give anything out ahead of time and just see what they can get, if anything.

(Well, that's unless one is doing it for a different reason, of course. :) ).

Clancie quick question (and if you addressed this previously I apologize for missing it), when you've had readings done, do you commonly take recordings, or get a recording from the medium?

And if so (even though this is almost a little offtopic) have you found that your recollection of the experience is often very different from the recording (similar to the thread where someone posted 'an amazing reading from PalTalk)?

I know it's anecdotal but I was curious. Also if you do have such tapes, have you thought about sharing transcriptions? (With personal information changed so as to not violate your privacy). I know I'd love to see them along with your personal commentary of the experience(s).
 
Posted by Marian

Clancie quick question (and if you addressed this previously I apologize for missing it), when you've had readings done, do you commonly take recordings, or get a recording from the medium?
Usually I record it myself, even when the medium provides one as well.
And if so (even though this is almost a little offtopic) have you found that your recollection of the experience is often very different from the recording (similar to the thread where someone posted 'an amazing reading from PalTalk)?
Not quite that dramatic, but, yes. I would not like to rely on memory and/or notes.
I know it's anecdotal but I was curious. Also if you do have such tapes, have you thought about sharing transcriptions? (With personal information changed so as to not violate your privacy). I know I'd love to see them along with your personal commentary of the experience(s).
Well, I've done snippets here and there, but it really serves no purpose. The readings are usually an hour--waaayyy too long for complete annotated posts (even if I were so inclined). And, as for excerpts....after all, snippets are of two kinds--good and bad. The good are suspect ("Is she just making it up?" "Did she inadvertently tell the medium the information earlier herself?" etc. etc.) The bad just confirm that, "They're blatant cold readers. How can you believe these frauds?"

But...maybe some day...there will be "Clancie's Readings: THE BOOK"! If so, I'll let you know. :)
 
Clancie said:
But...maybe some day...there will be "Clancie's Readings: THE BOOK"! If so, I'll let you know. :)

No need to wait for that. Just go on PalTalk and play the tape. We can record it, and then analyze it.
 
CFLarsen said:


No need to wait for that. Just go on PalTalk and play the tape. We can record it, and then analyze it.

Or wait for the library and search under 817.044
 
Just another question (smart idea btw on having your own recording regardless), has your recording ever differed from one provided to you (in other words have they ever tampered with the recording given to you)

Another thought I had is while I personally enjoy reading snippets (of mediums who do quick readings, like John Edwards) because you can merely apply all of them to your own life and see how many 'hits' they'd get off you, to see how generalized it can be...with an hour long personalized reading, there's probably no way to present it without presenting all the personal (and private) details of one's life.

Otherwise those details wouldn't be independantly confirmable or refutable.

And while personally I don't really care that much about letting others know details of my life, I'd probably balk at providing numerous personal details, if for the sake of other people's privacy if nothing else. (And of course just personal privacy). And I'm not 'shy' by anyone's standards. :( Plus I've seen some claims that have been made (specifically in John Edward's transcripts) which would be almost impossible to refute as it's a 'when did you stop beating your wife' question.

An example would be additional siblings. I know how many siblings I have, but can I say with absolute certainty that my father didn't have a bastard somewhere? (I can state I'm 100% confident the answer is no, because I know my father) but I am not he, and so cannot answer for everything he's done. Plus any man who has engaged in sexual relations with more than one woman (and didn't know her for 10 months following the event) may not be able to state for certain. Even knowing her following the event is not absolute proof.

Too much weasel room on things that really cannot be absolutely demonstrated, and so are 'safe' claims.

And of course going back to the personal details issues, I noticed in a John Edward transcript I saw that he accused someone of lying about a connection out of 'embarassment'. So again, without knowing absolutely all the details of someone's life, it's difficult to ascertain some of those details.

Other details though, could be. Anyway now I'm basically thinking outloud (err in type!), and this is all probably stuff people have hashed through previously hehe.

Even if its nothing more than curiosity, such readings always interest me, especially when I've heard a personal account. (In other words, I've had people express that they've seen 'real' psychics and have accounted what they were told and how amazing it was, and I'd just love to be able to hear the recording or see a transcript of the actual reading for comparison).
 
Interesting Ian said:
Ummmm . . .sorry Marian, but I've left. I've had enough of these forums. I didn't realise you had responded to me.

Sorry to hear you've left actually, but honestly if you responded to every single thing I responded to, and vice versa again, we'd probably both waste days and it would be excruciatingly long :( (Though I'd probably give up before then! ;))

I'm willing to take it on faith that were you not done with the forums (and had time and/or desire to respond in kind) that you would have offered a differing counterpoint to my posts. :)

Sincerely though, best of luck to you.
 
Marian said:


Sorry to hear you've left actually, but honestly if you responded to every single thing I responded to, and vice versa again, we'd probably both waste days and it would be excruciatingly long :( (Though I'd probably give up before then! ;))

I'm willing to take it on faith that were you not done with the forums (and had time and/or desire to respond in kind) that you would have offered a differing counterpoint to my posts. :)

Sincerely though, best of luck to you.

WOW!! Making up I've agreed about this, that and the other. No intention of constructing honest arguments I see :rolleyes:

Good job I'm out of here. That's another thing I'm pig sick of, people making up that I've said things that I haven't :rolleyes:

Farewell.
 
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Originally posted by Marian


Sorry to hear you've left actually, but honestly if you responded to every single thing I responded to, and vice versa again, we'd probably both waste days and it would be excruciatingly long (Though I'd probably give up before then! )

I'm willing to take it on faith that were you not done with the forums (and had time and/or desire to respond in kind) that you would have offered a differing counterpoint to my posts.

Sincerely though, best of luck to you.
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Interesting Ian said:


WOW!! Making up I've agreed about this, that and the other. No intention of constructing honest arguments I see :rolleyes:
Does anybody know what Ian is talking about?
 
Interesting Ian said:


WOW!! Making up I've agreed about this, that and the other. No intention of constructing honest arguments I see :rolleyes:

Oh I constructed honest arguments based on...lemme see your quoting me out of context, your sementical game of not understanding what 'understanding' means, your non sequitur philosophical 'what is reality?', ad nausem.

I've been around a month, and have noticed that when people present things you apparently can't counter, you resort to ad hominem attacks. I suppose I should note that instead of calling me stupid or 'thick as f*ck' this time, you resorted to implying I'm a liar. :rolleyes:


Good job I'm out of here. That's another thing I'm pig sick of, people making up that I've said things that I haven't :rolleyes:

Well when you come back, as I believe you will, perhaps you can point out one instance of where I 'made up' a quote that wasn't attributable to you.

Yeah, I won't hold my breath. I've gotten the impression that they do take libel seriously around here, so feel free to back that up. If you WANT to say that I'm drawing incorrect inferences based on things you did indeed say, that are inaccurate...that's a horse of a different color. And you'd be free to correct it. Oh, if you were staying and all that. I'd truly love to see how you'd explain the contradictions. My bet? You wouldn't. You'd merely engage in more quoting out of context, insults, and What?!?!? WHere?!?!?! HOw?!?!?! what does 'is' mean?!?

Oh and explaining that we're all just too stupid to understand you.



Farewell.

Bye!

Cya soon. ;)
 
Judging by how many people Ian are able to get arguments with at the same time, I would say that the nick 'Interesting Ian' begins to make sense.
 
Posted by Thomas

Judging by how many people Ian are able to get arguments with at the same time, I would say that the nick 'Interesting Ian' begins to make sense.
Well, if you really think that Thomas, I have a suggestion. Why not try posting a viewpoint that is outside the "accepted wisdom" of the vast majority on this forum? Believe me, you'll see how quickly a barrage of people will respond to you.

Ignore them and you get criticized as being unresponsive. Address them, and you quickly find yourself involved in -many- individual arguments/discussions.

Ian,

It does get exhausting to find your ideas under attack from so many people...and posts...all at once. (At least, I find it so). Its good to take a little break from it all from time to time, but --please-- come back...soon! :) I refuse to be the lone "woo woo kaffee klatch tse tse balloon fly that-we-all-need-a-call-to-arms-about"*! No way! :)


*Yes, Bill Hoyt, you just keep outdoing yourself! :w2:
 
Just to note, Ian PMed me offering to continue our discussion elsewhere, and offering an apology for his comments if I misunderstood him. He gave me permission to repost the entire PM (but I don't like doing that personally, just a pet peeve).

Anyway, I wasn't even going to comment unless someone assumed he just bailed instead of responding, but then realized that was a tad crappy. So I thought I'd acknowledge it. I also responded to him privately (if he wants to repost it I don't care and told him so, but don't feel the need to rehash it since he's stated he's not posting here.)

Anyway I did want to make ONE additional comment...and please take this at face value. I got on his ass about the personal attacks. I don't care for them. I'm new and I understand I don't "Know How Things Are Done", but without sounding like a jerk, why I came here was for...well to blow time sure, like everyone else, but also to engage in some intelligent discussion. I don't expect everything I post to be a pearl of wisdom (haha far from it) and I don't expect for me to always be on my best behavior.

I get pissy (in the bitchy sense, not drunk sense). I'm not playing holier than thou. And I've certainly engaged in a personal attack or two in my time.

But c'mon. As crappy as it is for Ian to waltz around informing everyone he's an intellectual therefore you're dumb as a counter to a discussion, posting speculation or personal attack comments about his drinking habits and/or problem (if one exists) is even sh*ttier.

As I said, I haven't been around long at all. I'm as much as a noob as you'll get. I didn't lurk on the forums before posting, I didn't know they existed (which doesn't say much for my observational powers since I had read the JREF page for a couple of years.) I'm positive there's some lengthy history behind it all. Just as I know a community I've been a part of for like 4 years now...if someone waltzed in and asked why we were all bashing (I won't say his name haha) but Person X, we'd defend it by saying the guy MORE than deserved it, because of all the crap he'd pulled over time.

I understand that, and I know that those situations exist.

That being said, being here less than a month I can quickly see why some people get picked on. And it's probably become something like a horrible cycle of some kind. But everyone plays their part in it.

God, I'm sounding like the self-appointed voice of reason, which is the LAST thing I want to do. :( And requesting full elimination of personal attacks rarely works in lively debates. Everything gets all hashed out, people find their 'corners' and nothing new enters. Someone new comes along and says 'hey guys what about...' and someone will say 'been there, done that here's a link'. As much as I hate to say it a certain degree of 'Jane you ignorant slut' is par for the debate.

Yet, at what point does it cross the line? Okay Ian calls me stupid (in essense). That sucks. But he's not making it THAT personal. He's not suggesting that I have no life, and nothing better to do with my time than to type of lengthy posts. Or that my mother performs oral sex in exchange for small change so she can buy another rock at the crack house. There are degrees I guess.

Anyway, I'm really not playing holier than thou, a part of me went 'good' when Ian said he was leaving, because the personal attacks he did engage in, and some of the game playing instead of responding IMO sucked. No loss there. But what *is* a loss is the alternative viewpoint. I don't learn as much from people I agree with, as I do someone who presents an intelligent counterargument.

What's my point? I've probably completely come of as a self-appointed voice of reason, which is just something I loathe. :( I don't know if I have a decent point to make. Just that if this was a flame forum, at least I'd know where it stood on that. I can participate in flame forums and generally stay out of the path of flames (partially because I really don't like it, and partially because I suck at it). If it was a complete non-flame forum, then this crap wouldn't occur. It seems to be a weird mixture of both.

And something good seems to be getting lost in the mix.
 
Clancie said:
Well, if you really think that Thomas, I have a suggestion. Why not try posting a viewpoint that is outside the "accepted wisdom" of the vast majority on this forum? Believe me, you'll see how quickly a barrage of people will respond to you.

Ignore them and you get criticized as being unresponsive. Address them, and you quickly find yourself involved in -many- individual arguments/discussions.

As a theist who has been posting openly about my beliefs in a forum that is dominated by the atheists I don't accept that. This is not accurate.

You tend to confuse our reaction to some forum behaviors with opinions and ideas.

I grew up in a country where the descendants of the victims of the Holocaust are called soaps so, knowing what being a minority means I have swore in my life that I will never participate in any group activity that involves bashing of the minority or the weak so, I take what you posted sort of personally because many people here including myself tend to defend those who hold the opinion of the minority.

But as I have pointed out you tend to confuse our reaction to your behavior as a bashing to your views and this is wrong.

I post for one more time my post to Ignatius so as to refresh the memory of "the elders" and to teach " the youngers".

Enough.
 

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