Mediumship

saddened by Lorri.

Lorri,
You are posting here: so post.
Reply to the careful questions asked of you.
Do not be selective and play "dumb".
If you do not engage in this debate, then don't bother posting here; go talk to a corpse.

Silence is the sound of one mind shutting...
 
CFLarsen said:


You don't believe that psychics can talk to dead people, that is, spirits?

Spiritualism is not as such a religion. A religion is usually defined as a belief in a greater being, service to and worship of this greater being, and a set of morals coming with it.

While a "greater being" could be contained within spiritualism in the sense that dead people's spirits are "greater beings", spiritualists don't as a rule worship the spirits. I also don't see a set of morals attached to spiritualism.

Hi Larsen - read the following

Churchill failed to keep Duncan from going to prison, perhaps at the insistence of superstitious intelligence officers. But Sir Winston did not forget about her. Upon his return to power in 1951, after having been voted out in 1945, one of Churchill's first actions was to repeal the Witchcraft Act. Churchill was a sworn enemy of needless laws and excessive red tape, but this move was more than just bureaucratic housekeeping. It was seemingly motivated by a personal interest in Spiritualism and his own leanings towards its beliefs.

While Churchill was never a Spiritualist himself, he was intrigued by its metaphysical tenets, and advocated the recognition of Spiritualism as an official religion. He frequently expressed his belief that a predetermined destiny had guided him throughout life, and that he possessed a sixth sense that saved his life on numerous occasions. As a young man Churchill was ordained into the mystical Grand Ancient Order of Druids. When he was lost in the wilderness as an escaped P.O.W. during the Boer War, Churchill believed that an imaginary planchette (a Spiritualist device comparable to a Ouija board pointer) mentally guided him to safety. In the years after World War II, Churchill once wrote a story in which his dead father returned and spoke with him about the fate of England.
Edited by Raja: 
 
CFLarsen said:


You don't believe that psychics can talk to dead people, that is, spirits?

Spiritualism is not as such a religion. A religion is usually defined as a belief in a greater being, service to and worship of this greater being, and a set of morals coming with it.

While a "greater being" could be contained within spiritualism in the sense that dead people's spirits are "greater beings", spiritualists don't as a rule worship the spirits. I also don't see a set of morals attached to spiritualism.

Hi Larsen - continue reading:

Spiritualism is not as is commonly believed, a sinister cult meeting in darkened rooms to “call up the dead” but an officially recognised religious movement with its own churches and Ministers, who possess the same rights and privileges as other religions.

Proof of Survival
Spiritualism is in itself a religion in that it embodies the main ideas of all religions that there is a life after death, an immortality and the existence of a God. The difference between Spiritualism and other religions is the ability through mediumship to provide evidence that man survives the grave; that is to say certain people called mediums are able to communicate with those who have passed over, thus furnishing evidence of their continued existence in another world. Mediums cannot call up these people as one would a friend on the telephone, they come to us, but only when they are ready, willing and able so to do.

The philosophy of Spiritualism is based on seven fundamental principles.

1. The Fatherhood of God.
2. The Brotherhood of Man.
3. The Communion of Spirits and the Ministry of Angels.
4. The Continuous Existence of the Human Soul.
5. Personal Responsibility.
6. Compensation and Retribution Hereafter for all the Good or Evil Deeds done on Earth.
7. Eternal Progress Open to every Human Soul.
 
Re: saddened by Lorri.

Donn said:
Lorri,
You are posting here: so post.
Reply to the careful questions asked of you.
Do not be selective and play "dumb".
If you do not engage in this debate, then don't bother posting here; go talk to a corpse.

Silence is the sound of one mind shutting...

Hi Donn

Do you know the sound of a rasperry xxxxxxxxxxxxx it's kind of like that = well to you I send that because that is how I feel about you Donn. Childish!!!

Lots and lots of love and light

Lorri xx
 
Lorri said:

Churchill this and Churchill that.. blah blah blah..

This is what skeptics refer to as: appealing to authority. It's considered a logical fallacy.

'Pull the other one' - Sir Winston Churchill.


/thomas

PS. Before I was open-minded, now I'm pretty much convinced that you're a fraud.
 
Thomas said:


This is what skeptics refer to as: appealing to authority. It's considered a logical fallacy.

'Pull the other one' - Sir Winston Churchill.


/thomas

PS. Before I was open-minded, now I'm convinced that you're a fraud.

Hi Thomas

You disappoint me, you really do!!!
 
Thomas said:



PS. Before I was open-minded, now I'm pretty much convinced that you're a fraud.

I'm convinced she's a troll.

Anyway, because based on what I've seen it is polite to inform people, congrats on being the first person on my ignore list Lorri, and I'm reporting your post in the other thread (didn't want to further derail it there, biomagnetism thread) for trolling.
 
Marian said:


I'm convinced she's a troll.

Anyway, because based on what I've seen it is polite to inform people, congrats on being the first person on my ignore list Lorri, and I'm reporting your post in the other thread (didn't want to further derail it there, biomagnetism thread) for trolling.

Thanks for the applause Marian - I always wondered what it was like to win an oscar, thanks.
 
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Huh?? Clearly if one claims that something is irrational then they need to provide reasons and/or evidence to substantiate their position.
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Marian
Clearly if one claims something that is irrational then they need to provide reasons and/or evidence to substantiate their position. Right?

Sorry about not responding before. I was suspended for a week.

Anyway . . .

You are of course perfectly correct. Unfortunately it's a complete non-sequitur.

This is precisely the point in contention. The skeptic claims that something is irrational, but is quite unable to justify their assertion. So if even they don't know why it's irrational, I scarcely think that a rational person ought to take any notice of such a person. I am not interested in skeptics vague intuitive feelings. They need to present arguments.
 
Interesting Ian said:
Yes, I expect everyone's totally ecstatic that I'm back.
We are!

And yes, we enjoyed you in PalTalk as well.

Have you kept up with the JREF Drama?

[/slightlyderailing]
 
Interesting Ian said:


Sorry about not responding before. I was suspended for a week.

Anyway . . .

You are of course perfectly correct. Unfortunately it's a complete non-sequitur.

This is precisely the point in contention. The skeptic claims that something is irrational, but is quite unable to justify their assertion. So if even they don't know why it's irrational, I scarcely think that a rational person ought to take any notice of such a person. I am not interested in skeptics vague intuitive feelings. They need to present arguments.

Rehi Ian :)

There's a slight semantical difference in those statements, but it seems to boil down to semantics. The specific point in this thread (I'm new, so forgive me for not having the history, I'm going to ask you about another reference later in this post, because I'm not catching the difference) was that Lorri made some claims. Okay, if you make a claim, offer up some information, or some evidence. Nope, she didn't want to do that.

I have her on ignore at this point, so I don't want to talk too much about her specifically as I (probably) won't be reading her responses.

Let's pretend I show up and state that I can fly. People ask me how I can fly, and I refuse to state any information. So some people point out that many people can fly...with the aid of machines, etc. I say no, I'm able to levitate. But I'm not interested in offering proof. *I* know I can do it, and that's good enough for me, and people who doubt it are just close minded, stupid, blah blah blah.

Someone stating that they can fly (paranormally)....to me isn't rational. However, is it possible? I think most people would certainly be willing to look at the evidence regardless of their beliefs.

Going back to the issue at hand, which is a medium's ability to paranormally communicate with the dead...is that rational? Doesn't seem so to me. But...is it possible? So far I haven't seen anything that demonstrates that it is. However whether one believes, doesn't believe, or hasn't made up their mind...I think that most are open to evidence of such.

Not to jump around too much, but recently (elsewhere) someone brought up the proof of .99999(repeating infinitely) = 1 as irrational. It doesn't *appear* to make sense to most people. I've had people kindly walk me through the proofs. But to many people (and honestly I include myself in that) it doesn't 'feel' right. It doesn't SEEM like it should make sense.

Huh?? Clearly if one claims that something is irrational then they need to provide reasons and/or evidence to substantiate their position.

So if I say .99999 (repeating infinitely) = 1 seems irrational, I can say it seems that way because it's not 1, it's a different and unique number. It doesn't make me right, of course, but it does certainly seem irrational to many people. ;)

However, if someone makes a claim that will appear to most people to be irrational...

Clearly if one claims something that is irrational then they need to provide reasons and/or evidence to substantiate their position. Right?

Then they need to substaniate their position. If it's an article of faith, or belief, then fine. Those things can't be realistically argued. Belief or non-belief in 'God' or any diety boils down to faith. You can't prove or disprove it. Afterlife, same thing.

However if someone claims that they are able to contact and communicate with the dead, that's a claim that can be substantiated.

Hmm how to rephrase it....Ian if you tell me you have a pet tiger, I may take it at face value, even though that's unusual. I happen to own an exotic animal myself. (Not THAT exotic though). If other things led me to believe that claim wasn't true (and I cared somehow about it) I might ask to see it if I lived locally to you, assuming we knew each other and that's how you told me about it. (Actually if someone I knew said they had a pet tiger I would ask to see it just to see it :D). If you continually came up with excuses then I would be skeptical about your claims. I can explain WHY I'm skeptical, and walk you through that process...but it's not like I'm running up to you on the street pulling you and others aside at random demanding to know whether or not you have a pet tiger then calling you a liar because I don't believe ANYONE can have a pet tiger.

I personally don't believe people can communicate with the dead. Am I wrong? Have I ever been wrong about things in my life? Oh sure, plenty of times. :) Am I wrong about this? So far I haven't seen any evidence to indictate that anyone can do it. Do I have any personal investment in it one way or another? Sure, I think most people do. I've said repeatedly I'd love to be wrong. Because it would prove that there is an existence after death, and I certainly would like that.

But I don't think it's unreasonable or bizarre to consider such claims irrational. It flies in the face of all reasonable information, logic and science. Again, does it mean it's not possible? I'm willing to take a look at evidence, I'm not falling into a black swan fallacy. But since it's unreasonable to make the assumption...no I won't make it. I'm willing to take many things at face value, as are most people, either because I have no personal investment in it (the analogy on whether you have a tiger or not wouldn't matter for example) but on other things...yeah I want to see it.

Hope that makes sense.

As to the other thing I was going to ask you, I think you may have discussed it before, or it's familiar to most people because you've said it more than once, you've refered to a difference between 'skeptic' and 'sceptic'. Honestly I dismissed it the first time I saw it as sarcasm because it appeared to be such in its context, but I think you're refering to something much more specific.

I'm not familiar with 'sceptic' (I thought honestly it was a UK spelling hence the sarcasm) what do you mean, and what is the difference to which you refer? (Or if you could point out a thread where you previously mentioned it, I'd be much obliged).

Also just as a btw, I use analogies...a lot. I'm not trying to infer that one thing is exactly like another by doing so, only that it is similar. Hopefully it's not too annoying, but I find it helps me to clarify what I mean more specifically. :)
 
Lorri--
Just as there is a huge difference between "catholic" and "Catholic" (the caps make the word refer to the religion), there is also a huge difference between "spiritualist" and "Spiritualist". I gather from your comments that you are decidedly not the latter, but I would argue that people here have suggested that you are the former. Indeed, you yourself, on page 10 of the other thread, say "I am not religious. I am spiritual", and of course your opening words on this thread were "Hi. I am a Medium...". I suggest that your own words are the reason you are being called a spiritualist, and that it is not an inappropriate label. Of course, I will take you at your word that you are not a Spiritualist.

In any event, I myself am a Behaviorist, and abhor labels of any kind (mild joke there...). What is important is what you claim to do (I ask that you please do not be offended by my choice of the verb "claim"...I assure you that I would use the same terminology for any claim I see in text only, and I further assure you that I have often asked "skeptics" here for further information or sources.) Whether or not you accept the label "spiritualist" (note small "s"), you do claim to communicate with the dead, or at least one dead person, and this is (as I am sure you are aware) the hallmark of the Spiritualist (yes, capital "S") movement.

A dear friend and colleague of mine * piqued my interest in Spiritualism, (yes, and spiritualism), and I would be extremely happy to discuss with you any and all aspects of the movement (I note that you quote this site; please do not be afraid to delve deeper--I am very familiar with over 100 years of the history of Spiritualism as it interacts with the science of psychology (my own back yard, if you will), and I promise to do my best to keep up.).

Please, Lorri, do not stoop to name-calling and the like. There is a history of over 100 years of actual scientific investigation of claims of communication with the dead. There is an honorable tradition here--I am perfectly willing to speak with you as an equal, and to treat your claims seriously. I will not, of course, take them at face value--and you should not expect me to! These are extraordinary and important claims, after all. I promise you, though, I will not dismiss them a priori. To use an analogy I have used before (and for which I am grateful to F. Thompson, my high school teacher), it is very much like examining a badly tarnished silver spoon--the more tarnish I remove, the more brightly the silver shines. But if it is all tarnish and no silver, and I remove all the tarnish and nothing remains? I have lost nothing but an illusion. If your claims are silver, Lorri, they are the most precious silver we could possibly imagine. If they are tarnish...well...they are tarnish.

Oh, yeah..*..Coon, Deborah J. (1992). Testing the limits of sense and science: American experimental psychologists combat spiritualism. American Psychologist 47: 143-151. (Deb, if you are lurking here reading...Hi!)
 
Marian said:
Rehi Ian :)

There's a slight semantical difference in those statements, but it seems to boil down to semantics. The specific point in this thread (I'm new, so forgive me for not having the history, I'm going to ask you about another reference later in this post, because I'm not catching the difference) was that Lorri made some claims. Okay, if you make a claim, offer up some information, or some evidence. Nope, she didn't want to do that.

We are discussing my sig. I have made no claims.

I have her on ignore at this point, so I don't want to talk too much about her specifically as I (probably) won't be reading her responses.

Let's pretend I show up and state that I can fly. People ask me how I can fly, and I refuse to state any information. So some people point out that many people can fly...with the aid of machines, etc. I say no, I'm able to levitate. But I'm not interested in offering proof. *I* know I can do it, and that's good enough for me, and people who doubt it are just close minded, stupid, blah blah blah.

Someone stating that they can fly (paranormally)....to me isn't rational.

Inconsistent with our theoretical interpretation of reality. Yeah sure. Nothing to do with my sig though.

However, is it possible? I think most people would certainly be willing to look at the evidence regardless of their beliefs.

Going back to the issue at hand, which is a medium's ability to paranormally communicate with the dead...is that rational?

That's the wrong question. The right question is "is it irrational?". The onus is on those who state it is irrational to explain why this is so.


Doesn't seem so to me.

I told you. If you claim something is irrational it is insufficient for you to content yourself with your feelings. Communicating with the dead is not like levitating. Levitating contravenes what we understand about reality. This is not the case for communicating with dead people.


But...is it possible? So far I haven't seen anything that demonstrates that it is. However whether one believes, doesn't believe, or hasn't made up their mind...I think that most are open to evidence of such.

Not to jump around too much, but recently (elsewhere) someone brought up the proof of .99999(repeating infinitely) = 1 as irrational. It doesn't *appear* to make sense to most people. I've had people kindly walk me through the proofs. But to many people (and honestly I include myself in that) it doesn't 'feel' right. It doesn't SEEM like it should make sense.


So if I say .99999 (repeating infinitely) = 1 seems irrational, I can say it seems that way because it's not 1, it's a different and unique number. It doesn't make me right, of course, but it does certainly seem irrational to many people. ;)

Seems to quite clearly = 1 to me. But I got embroiled in a very similar question a few weeks ago on this board. I couldn't believe that almost everyone was too stupid to understand I was right. Don't want to get into that again.

However, if someone makes a claim that will appear to most people to be irrational...

But they need to supply reasons for supposing it is irrational.

Then they need to substaniate their position.

No, unless we can supply reasons for supposing something is irrational, then it is irrational to assume it is irrational. Our failure to show it is irrational doesn't of course make it rational. But neither can we assume it is irrational without supplying reasons. You can't just take it on faith that something is irrational. Indeed by the very definition of irrational we can't.
 
Lorri,

Thanks for the anecdotes.

Could you please address the question?

Do you believe that psychics can talk to dead people, that is, spirits?
 
Interesting Ian said:


We are discussing my sig. I have made no claims.


1: I have a very bad habit in my writing style, I use the generalized 'you'. My apologizes as I was not refering to you specifically when I said 'you make a claim'. Very lousy wording on my part.

2. If you look at the quote, I've changed the location of one word, which changes the sentence substantially. I probably should have highlighted it to make it more clear, since it's not obvious at a glance.

Original: Huh?? Clearly if one claims that something is irrational then they need to provide reasons and/or evidence to substantiate their position.

My rephrasing: Clearly if one claims something that is irrational then they need to provide reasons and/or evidence to substantiate their position. Right?

I saidHowever, is it possible? I think most people would certainly be willing to look at the evidence regardless of their beliefs.

Going back to the issue at hand, which is a medium's ability to paranormally communicate with the dead...is that rational?


Ian repliedThat's the wrong question. The right question is "is it irrational?". The onus is on those who state it is irrational to explain why this is so.

In my post I explained why it is irrational. However again, if one (avioding the generalized 'you' this time :D) states that they are able to do a thing, then one should be able to offer evidence of such a thing.

Again, as I said previously if one states that they believe in God, or an afterlife, those things are articles of faith. They cannot be proven or disproven as such, which is why they are articles of faith. I can state that it doesn't seem likely to me that there is an afterlife, but the reality is I don't know. I also don't claim to know.

If one states that they can communicate with the dead, that is not an article of faith, that is something that can be demonstrated. If someone makes a claim that, oh a one time incident occurred and they believe that a dead relative or angel or whatever helped or assisted them, that's an article of faith. Others can offer alternative reasoning that can be plausable in such circumstances. The reality of the situation is that it's an unknown unless there is some form of evidence beyond an personal account. If there's some type of evidence, that can be examined. In the end, there may be multiple answers there as well.

However, if one states that they can communicate with the dead, as mediums claim, then that is testable. I've come up with (I think I posted it on this thread) one potential way to test it, just off the top of my head. It may not be feasible monetarily, but it's one potential. I'm certain people can come up with other protocols that are better and would be pretty definitive.

So we're back at rationality. I stated before why it's reasonable to believe such a claim is irrational. It doesn't just defy experience, reason, science and logic, it also has never been proven.

Going back to my tiger analogy, if you were to tell me you had a pet tiger, that's not irrational. There ARE people who have pet tigers. However if you refused to let anyone see your tiger, if you didn't know anything about tigers or their care, etc. then it would be reasonable to be skeptical of your claim. That's a rather generous analogy because there are actually tigers.

Let's say you claim you have a dragon, instead of a tiger. This flies in the face of everything as well. I certainly would want to see your dragon. I wouldn't believe you. I would want to believe you, because hey...dragons are cool. :) I would absolutely want to see it. However if you refused to show anyone who was a non-believer, and only let believers feel the hide while blindfolded, then yeah, I'm going to think you're a fraud. ;)

When one makes a claim that is irrational, then asking for proof isn't bizarre. It's not a personal attack. I mentioned in another post an illness I have (which is rare). Let's pretend someone doesn't believe I have it, and demands proof. Whether or not I have that illness has nothing to do with what I have to say. Demonstrating it or not, changes nothing. However I could easily offer proof, whether it was taking my digital camera and taking pictures of my prescription bottles and what paperwork I have, or authorizing a medical release (which I'm actually doing for a study I'll be part of). But realistically such a challenge wouldn't matter here because it has no bearing on what I'm saying. However if I was on the support group site for my illness and I claimed an amazing cure, damn skippy people would have a right to challenge that and demand actual evidence beyond my ancedotal accounts.

The same is true of paranormal abilities, if someone wishes to publically make that claim, then yeah, skeptical people are going to question it. Just as I would question you if you claimed you had a pet dragon. Whereas if you had a pet tiger, I wouldn't really care.

Hope that clarifies the difference. And I was discussing your signature in relation to that issue.

I told you. If you claim something is irrational it is insufficient for you to content yourself with your feelings. Communicating with the dead is not like levitating. Levitating contravenes what we understand about reality. This is not the case for communicating with dead people.

Communicating with the dead contravenes what we understand about reality too.

Seems to quite clearly = 1 to me. But I got embroiled in a very similar question a few weeks ago on this board. I couldn't believe that almost everyone was too stupid to understand I was right. Don't want to get into that again.

No offense, but I've noticed you sling words like 'stupid' and 'ignorant' around. Perhaps it's frustration with a multitude of threads, or past history, I don't know. My personal experience is if many people fail to understand what I'm saying, I'm not being clear enough. If only a few fail to get it, then sure the fault may lie with them, or some people like to go 'lalalala I can't hear you' ;) but if almost everyone isn't getting something I'm saying...I look to how I'm saying it and think maybe I need to better phrase it.

I have no idea what issue you're refering to, or if you were right or not, but assuming you were, and assuming everyone else wasn't getting it...maybe trying to explain it another way would have been helpful? I learn new things all the time and enjoy it, but if someone starts engaging in name calling, I don't tend to want to have discussions with them. Anyway I'm not trying to be snide or patronizing or anything, hope you don't take it the wrong way, it's truly not meant that way.


But they need to supply reasons for supposing it is irrational.

I did supply reasons. Perhaps you didn't like them, or didn't feel they were valid enough. If someone claims to be able to communicate with the dead, I can say, well gee, that flies in the face of everything we know. So yes, I'm not taking it at face value, I'd like more information please. They are making the claim. Again if they want to state that it comes down to an article of faith, that's one thing, but the ability to communicate with the dead isn't about faith. They're stating clearly that they have a very specific ability. Questioning that isn't just reasonable, it's common sense.


No, unless we can supply reasons for supposing something is irrational, then it is irrational to assume it is irrational. Our failure to show it is irrational doesn't of course make it rational. But neither can we assume it is irrational without supplying reasons. You can't just take it on faith that something is irrational. Indeed by the very definition of irrational we can't.

Irrational (per M-W) not rational: as a (1) : not endowed with reason or understanding (2) : lacking usual or normal mental clarity or coherence b : not governed by or according to reason

The ability to communicate with the dead is not understood, correct? We have no formal studies on how (or if) this ability exists. It lacks normal mental clarity and coherence. The average person does not claim to communicate with the dead. And how/what each medium does/communicates varies widely apparently. And it is certainly not governed by or according to reason, otherwise it would be measurable, and demonstratable.

So I don't think it's incorrect to say it's irrational. Claiming to communicate with the dead isn't rational. Whether or not one is able to actually perform such an amazing feat...I await evidence. I do not believe it likely. As I said previously that doesn't answer to: Is it possible? So far that answer is "No, it is not possible." Perhaps that will be disproven by someone, but I'm not holding my breath. And as I stated before, I would be more than happy to be incorrect.

Now I just hope I didn't screw up any of the quote coding. :) Also, hate to pester, but would you mind explaining the difference between 'skeptic' and 'sceptic'? Or at least point me in the right direction? :)
 
There was a troll named Lorri
To whom the dead said "Sorry."
but she was a fake
and we all smelled hake
when she pushed her folly.

(Too much Limeric challenge - blame Mercutio :) )
 
Lorri said:
Churchill failed to keep Duncan from going to prison...

Post reported for copyright infringement. I wonder, does Lorri do any thinking for herself?
 

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