Similarly, those who do not wish to abide by Eternal Law have a right to do so without harassment from those who do.
Janadele, if I fall in love with a woman and neither of us believes in the tenets of LDS, the LDS organization has no right whatsoever to interfere in our lives.
As for gender, My gender identity is extremely close to the centre point of the male-female spectrum. I've been attracted to tomboyish women and to long-haired men, but not to men or women at the extremes of the scale. Most of My interests are on the "traditionally male" side of the spectrum, but I also find time for a few items on the "traditionally female" side. I've been this way My whole life and rather enjoy being this way. (Translation: I'm not "broken" and am not in need of gender-identity-altering therapy.)
And I have no intention whatsoever of spending any time in the afterlife as someone's wife. If I do find Myself alive somewhere else after My death, the first thing I'm doing is looking for an after-hours club with good jazz.