Or on a different note, what precisely are the bad consequences of my working on the sabbath?
Here's another example in the same vein:
A woman is in an abusive marriage with a man who wasn't violent when they first married but became so and now beats her often.
According to this:
1 Corinthians 7:10-11. To the married I give charge,
not I but the Lord, that the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, let her remain single or else be reconciled to her husband) and that the husband should not divorce his wife.
...if she wishes to avoid
SIN she must remain married to the abuser and live out the rest of her days in abject misery until she dies or the man kills her,
or join a nunnery. I used to work with a co-worker who stopped speaking to his own sister because she divorced her husband and later remarried. The co-worker was a member of a primitive Pentecostal congregation and the above verse was used as holy justification for shunning a woman who had attended the church for years, was an upstanding member of that community and who had
commited no other transgression.
One more story. On the radio one morning, during a call-in program, a woman admitted that she prayed daily to her deity that it would kill her husband so she could be rid of him as some aspect of his personality was highly annoying to her. When asked why she didn't just divorce him, her voice assumed a character dripping with piety and she replied that she was a
deeply religious woman and such an act would be an egregious
SIN.
Again, this is a woman who daily prayed for her husband's death.
ETA: which sins are not a choice?
I'd love to hear this explained. Yes, indeedy.