Who is "you"? The US isn't getting any territory, under any conceivable outcome.
Ukraine, not the US, is the party that wants territory it may have to give up in negotiations. Despite the fact that we're mostly on their side, Ukraine's interests are not synonymous with US interests. We (the USA) aren't giving up anything. We don't gain anything by pretending impossible outcomes are not impossible.
We could. So could Europe. But should we? Or should Europe?
Can't be relied upon, or can't be mooched off of?
And refusing to make a promise is rather different than refusing to honor a promise. In fact, the unreliable party isn't the one who won't make a promise but the one that makes a promise and doesn't honor it. Did Obama honor Clinton's promise to protect Ukraine's territorial integrity? No, he did not. Did you complain about that loss of reliability?
You want to know what makes alliances reliable? Self-interest. If you want a US-Ukraine alliance to be reliable, there's got to be a benefit to the alliance for the US, and much as I enjoy doing it, the fact is that sticking it to Russia isn't actually that much of a benefit to us. You know what would give us considerable self-interest in the welfare of Ukraine? If we were getting resources from Ukraine, not just sinking money into it. Guess what Trump is trying to do? Establish a relationship where we get something from Ukraine. Why is Zelensky on board with that? Because he knows that this would provide a stable incentive for us to keep helping to protect them long term.
Miss the point much?
First, statements of the kind Hegseth made undermine the U.S. position as a broker for a deal between the two involved parties.
Second, I'm not talking about refusing to
make a promise. that's fine. I'm referring to Trump's talk suggesting we might not honor our agreements. For example, talking about not coming to assist NATO allies should Russia invade one of them. which Trump has done previously. Breaking or threatening to break trade deals. Or talking about taking territory from an ally.
That talk makes it difficult for anyone to trust an agreement they make with us. It also means that if we
did decide to guarantee something as a third party, why would anyone trust us to actually do so?
Note-This is different from withdrawing from withdrawing from treaties, agreements and alliances under the procedures built into the treaties.
Third, not everything is transactional. At least not in material terms. When we assist other countries after a disaster, we don't get material benefits. If anything, we get a measure of positivity to our reputation and a bit of goodwill.
The benefit we get from keeping our allies under our nuclear umbrella is that it prevents them from feeling it necessary to have their own nuclear arsenal. Hopefully, you can see how that benefits us.
Similarly, the benefit we get from standing between Russia and our allies, is that our involvement is a deterrent to a general war in Europe which would not be to our interest.
And sometimes you stand against aggression because it's the right thing to do. After all, what material benefit do we get from the aid and support we give Israel?