Agreed that the TRAs are the primary pushers for formalizing legislation on the matter. What I'm not clear on is whether that is the cause or effect. Like, I'm not sure if they were pushing back against a movement to exclude them (starting around the time that conservatives started pushing against Drag Queens and the like), or if they were motivated by being tired of being marginalized. Either way,
What? Those seem pretty well the same thing - reaction to being "exclude[d]" or "marginalized" is just "effect." You weren't clear if it's the cause or effect, then presented them as pushing back in two slightly different ways. And...it's THE CAUSE. People are not of the opposite sex to their sex, even if you call it 'gender' - the whole philosophy is based on a mad idea, essentially a religious idea that people have some gendered essence that's independent of their sex. And they got together to demand we all join the cult. The history of it is quite clear.
I think the best solution remains to push back against legislation in either direction. Lobby to maintain the older status quo, as you say seems like the ideal.
Push back against the pushing back from both ends? No, either I didn't make myself clear or you're choosing to misrepresent what I explained. Transgender theory was deliberately inserted into Western culture, so the old social conventions and people knowing what sex they are went out the window. We're awash with pseudoscientific garbage and woke identity politics, and the TRAs will legislate to have their way if not stopped by law, so just saying "everyone go back to being nice and sort it out kindly" without legal clarification isn't sensible.
And just to clarify where my head is at, I very viscerally want the boys in the boys room. But as I talk to women, more seem to say it's not that big a deal to them as I would have thought. They view it largely the way I view a woman using the men's room (in some bars I used to hang out in, it was pretty common). It's a little weird and my guard is up while they are in there, but we tolerate that kind of stuff sometimes.
Consent can't be granted on behalf of others. Women who say they don't mind men in their spaces can't ignore the needs of other women who are endangered or threatened by that.
The Mass data is provided by the Williams Institute from UCLA in the states. In Jersey, our gender policy is lunatic wide open, but there is no formal data that I'm aware of. What's weird is that the state is almost evenly split politically left to right, but we don't see any reports of men in women's rooms behaving badly. If there were such instances occurring, I think social media would be ablaze with reports complaining about it and citing instances. But there's nothing.
No formal data you're aware of, and social media isn't "ablaze". Hmm. It's not taken me long to discover your level of tenacity in research.
Largely agreed. So maybe we should look into transwomen (or predatory imposters) that assaulted/harassed before the gender wars? What did they do? The answer seems to be the same: nothing different than after open gender policies.
Seems to be the same. Could you provide some evidence beyond this vague speculation that all is well despite letting any man into women's spaces?
We've discussed this at length ITT. You would intuitively think that every perv in the world would throw on a wig and charge the women's room if policy allowed it. But in the flesh and blood world, we don't see it happening. The perverts that perved before still do so at about the same rate. We never see an increase.
You're still missing the bigger issue here. You nor I have the right to say men should have the right to enter women's spaces. Whatever your sex. Women as a group should make that call - wouldn't you agree? And here I'll speculate: a large majority don't want them there. They have daughters. Do they want men in the changing room with their daughters? Do you have a daughter? Don't talk to me about what I'd intuitively think and pretend it's wrong before you've considered that.
Ok, but i didnt say 'behind the door'. I said on the other side of the door, meaning that if a predator was in the womens room, 'the other side of the door' is where the guys are walking around outside.
Oh yeah, predators in the women's will be terrified there might be a man walking past outside. The risk doesn't give them a thrill at all. That must be why no woman has ever been hassled, assaulted or raped in the women's toilets. Police might be somewhere. I'm astounded at what you come out with.
That's the thing: it was never kept closed over here. There was never (till very recently in a few US states) any actual laws or penalties for being in the wrong rest room. We just sorted it out ourselves on the fly.
No, I don't mean, "keep it closed" as in change the law to making it closed, I mean simply making a law that keeps it closed, even if it's never been done before. Because we're in 2026, and the TRAs are here, and they take a mile given an inch. They are utterly determined to force transgender ideology as far as it is possible to go. They've shown that time and time again.