I was just reading some of the comments in this piece and I felt extremely angry with Felicity Lee who made this highly insulting and insensitive comment to the parent of a Castlewood victim.....
Felicity Lee · Top Commenter
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How do you know what goes on behind the walls of Castlewood? I don't see any evidence for anything that you wrote here -
I do understand your distress - if your daughter loses - what does that say about you? I would be worried and upset also - but, I would not go around the web writing foolish statements of which I had no evidence whatsoever. Just my humble opinion.
http://www.stltoday.com/lifestyles/h...?mode=comments
I would like to respond to Felicity's post here ....................
Felicity Lee - I'll tell you what goes on behind the walls of Castlewood.
Richard Schwartz, Mark Schwartz and Lori Galperin present their close friend and colleague, the notorious sexual predator Marc Gafni, to the rest of the world as though he is an authrority on treating addictions. They even arranged for Gafni to present at a conference hosted by Castlewood entitled "Complex Trauma and Treatment of Addictive Behavior" in Monterey, California.
http://www.castlewoodtc.com/2012/07/...tive-behavior/
Galperin and Gafni have been working togehter on a new model of therapeutic intervention called "Unique Self" - based upon the principles in Gafni's book of the same name - that was to be provided to patients suffereing with addictions at Castlewood. I think that we can all breathe a collective sigh of relief now that this will no longer happen - at Castlewood at least.
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Unique Self Recovery (Lori Galperin) – TO BE COMPLETED IN 2014
This project consists of four distinct parts: one, Lori Galperin, clinical director of Castlewood Treatment Centers and her team are developing Unique Self therapeutic models based on Unique Self and other dimensions of World Spirituality. These models will provide an advance system of personal development that is specifically designed for those in recovery, which awakens and enlivens all parts of the human being to generate exceptional health outcomes and authentic spiritual realization. The Unique Self Recovery modules are currently being deployed and refined in the therapeutic process. Appropriate professional evaluation of the efficacy of the models is being conducted by experts in the recovery/treatment world. Upon accumulation of sufficient clinical data, a book outlining the key principles of Unique Self Recovery theory and practice will be published.
http://www.ievolve.org/publications/books/
Various cult leaders, unorthodox psychotherapists, "tantric healers", new age commentators and persons of dubious reputation have acclaimed Gafni's Unique Self book:
Dr. Mark Schwartz, Clinical Director, Thought Leader in the Fields of Eating Disorder, Trauma, Sexual Addiction, Clinical Director, Castlewood Treatment Centers:
“Unique Self is a truly important book which can potentially take the conversation between psychology and spirituality to the next level. The crossroads of so many psychotherapies is facilitating the differentiation of self, moving beyond the false self that fears the disappointment of others, and opening the full capacity of the human to be intimate. This book integrates in an original and important way Eastern and Western spirituality in a way that provide therapists and their clients with critical new tools and insights for the assault on self hatred that blocks integration internally and confidence and competence externally.”
Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and author of Family Therapy: Concepts and Methods:
“I am usually stingy with superlatives because their meaning has been so diluted by overuse, but I cannot control myself regarding this book — it is truly brilliant. If offers an engaging and erudite corrective to tendency in the spiritual community to disdain personal uniqueness and worship transcendental oneness; the striving to rise and remain above the ego and the material world. Instead, Gafni says go ahead and transcend but then reclaim your uniqueness no the other side of transcendence and bring your unique enlightened consciousness back to this world with you, and use your unique gifts to change it for the better. It would be entirely accurate to say that Internal Family Systems and Unique Self are overlapping models which recognize each others insights while each excels in its own domain. The integration of these two models fosters a creative synthesis that is nothing short of revolutionary in its implications for healing and transformation.”
Lori Galperin, accomplished leader and author in fields of marital and sexual dysfunction:
“The malady that afflicts us as a species is both prevalent and insidious. Mutating to avoid detection, it masquerades as friend. It comes bearing gifts, seducing with offers to “help us be all we can.” Giving with one hand, it takes with the other. Inevitably, we are emptied out. Shame exists where once dwelled joy. Objectification replaces sacred seeing. Celebration becomes constriction, and embodiment, estrangement. The good news is: there has always been a cure to this anti-love, anti-life malignancy. It is the delivery system that has been inadequate. At last – a safe, precise and potent infusion - Unique Self! Not so much a book, as an antidote, Unique Self stands with spiritual teacher, scholar and master, Marc Gafni’s Soulprints and Mystery of Love as a trilogy of love and healing for humanity. Read and be restored.”
John Friend, Founder of Sridaiva Yoga (currently engulfed in his own sexual scandals):
“I predict that history will note Your Unique Self as being a seminal work in helping to accelerate the evolution of the consciousness of the planet in the 21st century. In a truly momentous book of integrated philosophy by Marc Gafni, the Tantric view that we are in essence unique reflections of the Supreme Self is presented in an unprecedented way. For the masses to make an inspired personal choice to glorify the Universal as singularly diverse individuals will be the legacy of this great book.”
Bruce Lyon, tantric teacher:
“This book contains a profound healing and integration of east and west enlightenment paradigms. The individual self is not only transcended but crucially resurrected as a point of unique fire in the universal life we all share. Marc ‘s articulation of this core realization as the heart of an emergent and synthetic world spirituality is nothing less than utterly essential.”
Andrew Cohen, Founder of EnlightenNext, author of Evolutionary Enlightenment (some say notoriously abusive cult leader):
“Marc Gafni’s brilliant intellect and spiritual passion make him a force to be reckoned with. His deep knowledge and advocacy of Abrahamic mysticism, coupled with his inspired vision of a World Spirituality, offer a unique and significant contribution to the evolution of our understanding of God, religion, and Spirit in the 21st century.”
http://webcache.googleusercontent.co...&hl=en&ct=clnk
Interestingly a review on Amazon is not so enthusiastic
1.0 out of 5 stars Bullhockey, May 24, 2013
By Sparky The Hamster (AZ) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Your Unique Self: The Radical Path to Personal Enlightenment (Kindle Edition)
Alright - listen up boys and girls:
This is simply tripe; shilled to clueless individuals and even more clueless managers in corporations. Using lofty descriptors, the ivory-towered shyster attempts to peddle his wares under the guise of "personal enlightenment/development".
The lesson here is simple: how does one make money?
1) create a system
2) sprinkle lofty terms throughout
(bonus: make tenuous connection to religion for more "authority")
(bonus: use your own ambiguous, created terms for even more "authority")
(PRO TIP: acronyms are your friend)
3) write a book featuring your system
4) put it up on Amazon; charge a lofty price for your lofty sayings
5) get your ivory-towered peers to write glowing reviews
6) keep detractors and critics at bay with same said peers
7) profit $$$
(bonus: laugh all the way to the bank)
What a bunch of bullhockey. And yes, I know the individuals responsible for creating this book.
http://www.amazon.com/Your-Unique-Se...DateDescending
It is fairly obvious from the above reviews that M Schwartz, R Schwartz and Galperin are in awe of Gafni and regard him as a spiritual master or sorts.
This is extremely disturbing given Gafni's history of sexual transgressions.
Astonishingly Marc Gafni has actually confessed to molesting a child ("she was 14 going on 35 and I didn't force her" - in fact she was 13 and he was 19) and to sexually innapropriate behaviour with his pastoral and counselling clients.
Even the people who 100% belive that clandestine Satanist networks exist everhwyere, sacrifice babies to Satan and all the usual stuff, even they know about Marc Gafni. Seriously Felicity you should read the pages about Gafni on the Awareness Project website, a website that supports the SRA myth and is run by a woman who claims to have DID and to be a survivor of satanic ritual abuse. Here's a page
http://theawarenesscenter.blogspot.c...gafni-aka.html
You should read this material and ask yourself what on earth Lori Galperin and Mark and Richard Schwartz are doing supporting and working so closely with a man with such an appalling history and reputation, a self-confessed child molester.
Surely it is highly unusual for people who are providing therapeutic services to vulnerable patients who they claim are survivors of child sexual abuse (let alone prolonged, sadistic, Satanic abuse) to also be working alongside notorious sexual predators as friends and colleagues.
Of course the Awareness Project is not the only website to list the various charges and accusations facing Gafni. There is a wealth of material on the internet, news reports, victim / survivor reports, there is really no shortage at all and no reason for anyone to claim that they didn't know about Gafni and his activities. I have included some link at the end of my post FYI
Galperin clearly did know about the allegations as she signed a letter supporting Gafni in relation to them.
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c...alperin"+support+gafni&hl=en-GB&gbv=1&ct=clnk
It may be that Scwartz and Galperiin's support of Gafni is the kind of support that cult members lavish on their gurus? In fact Richard Schwartz (Internal family Systems) Mark Schwartz and Galperin are members of the "Wisdom Council" of Marc Gafni's spiritual movement the Center for World Spirituality.
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c..."wisdom+council"+gafni&hl=en-GB&gbv=1&ct=clnk
I honestly do now know or understand everything that is happening or has happened, but some things are fairly clear.
Richard Shwartz, Mark Schwartz and Lori Galperin are all deeply involved at a senior level in a controversial spiritual movement, the Center for World Spirituality, founded and headed by Marc Gafni.
Marc Gafni has been given a platform upon which to promote his aganda and his varioius business interests by the staff of the Castlewood Treatment center.
Marc Gafni has been working collaboratively with Lori Galperin at Castlewood on a business venture to develop a model of therapy to treat addictions called "Unique Self".
Marc Gafni has been working collaboratively with Richard / Dick Schwartz on a business venture to combine Unique Self with Internal Family Systems.
Marc Gafni is closely connected to an extremely controversial guru (many would say abusive cult leader) Andrew Cohen at EnlightenNext. Details about Andrew Cohen, EnlightenNext and Cohen's and Gafni's relationship can be found on many cult awareness websites and websites giving voices to survivors of abusive cults.
Gafni is friends and associates with many dubious new age healers, therapists and life coaches who use pseudo-tantra allegedly to heal people of trauma, often by using anal and genital massage (more on this in subsequent posts). Gafni himself runs workshops and retreats on "tantra".
Marc Gafni is a self-confessed child molester and sexual predator.
So Felicity, I would be interested in hearing your opinion about all of this.
further reading
http://nhne-pulse.org/rabbi-marc-gaf...improprieties/
http://www.integralworld.net/scofield1.html
http://www.jewishjournal.com/religio...ual_allegation
http://thebabarazzi.com/2013/04/22/h...lations-agent/
http://failedmessiah.typepad.com/fai...marc-gafn.html
http://forum.rickross.com/read.php?12,2579,page=1