Moose said:
Jellby, you're still assuming that you know which child you've been told the gender of. "Elder" and "Younger" is irrelevant except as a way to identify each child. In a way, it's a red herring. It could just as easily have been "leftie" and "rightie" or "innie" and "outie".
No, I'm not assuming that. All I'm assuming is that the selection of which child we see is independent from its gender. I mean, we see a child, whatever child, and it happens to be a boy, it could be a girl, but it's a boy. Especially important is that, if the children are boy and girl (or girl and boy), we could just as likely see a girl or a boy.
The twist is that we know both children aren't girls. That's all the information we've been given. Even if we see a boy, we don't know which boy this is. This does not fix a gender to a child, it only eliminates the G-G possibility.
The other probabilities have not been affected in any way. This leaves three possibilities, each bearing an equal probability of 1/3.
Remember, there are two ways to encounter a boy and a girl, which your example seemingly ignores.
I wasn't ignoring that. I'll try to explain it again. Let's consider a population of 100 mothers with 2 children each, ideally:
25 have 2 girls
50 have 1 boy and 1 girl
25 have 2 boys
Now, all of them say the sex of one (at random or at will) of their children with the phrase "I have two children, one of them is a ...", and that's all they say.
25 will have to say "girl"
25 will have to say "boy"
50 will be able to choose between "boy" and "girl", ideally 25 will choose "girl" and 25 will choose "boy".
So the total is 50 will say "boy", and of these, 25 have 2 boys, that's 50%.
My point is only 50% of the mothers who have one son and one daughter will say "one of them is a boy", so when a mother says that, you can eliminate half of them. Not a specific half, you don't have such information, but you know the "population" has been reduced to one half.
But if you ask: "do you have at least one boy?" then all the 50 mothers who have a boy and a girl will have to say "yes", and
then we're at 1/3 probability.
Put in other way. We have 4 coins: two normal coins, one with two heads, and one with two tails. Flip a coin at random and it gives heads, what's the probability of it being the coin with two heads? 1/2.
Now pick a coin and look at it. I ask you, does it have at least a head? You say "yes". What's the probability of it being the coin with two heads? 1/3.
I say someone saying "one of my kids is a boy" when no one asked and when nothing forced him/her to speak only of boys is equivalent to the first case.