slightly different experience
I have a different experience when it comes to dreams. Several years back I went through a phase of having dreams that were a bit off. For example, I was helping my daughter look for some kind of info, and referring to my partner, but - the odd thing in the dream was, it was not my partner of the time, I referred to some bloke called Garry, and the house was not the flat we lived in at the time, but a house.
I spoke to my husband of the time about these, and we both agreed - very odd, but nothing to think about further. I used to keep a dream diary, but it was lost in a fire.
Now, on 3 separate occassions, I found myself in the circumstances of the dream. i.e, my current partner is called Garry, I was helping my daughter the other night and told her to ask him for advice, and we live in a house.
The first time this happened a few years back, I called my ex, and asked if he remembered me speaking to him about these dreams, and explained the one at the time. At first he said.. umm... maybe, sounds familiar, tell him more... and then agreed that he remembered that particular conversation.
This week I have twice had the absolute conviction that I had just experienced one of the dreams I had told him about. Unfortunately, we aren't on such good terms any more, so I won't call him. He also likes to mess with my head these days, so I don't know if I would believe him now anyway, whatever answer he gave.
It's like deja-vu, except I don't clearly remember the dream, I get a flash of me doing whatever I was doing, and then a memory (or whatever) of me explaing to my ex - "so I was just doing this everyday thing,... but the weird thing is, that you weren't there.. and the house was all wrong... " and so on.
I don't know exactly what my beliefs are in precognition. I am still open to persuasion either way. I know that instinctively I would disbelieve someone else telling me they foresaw something, but then, when these events happen to me it seems so real. Yet, I know I have no proof - even to myself, that I am not kidding myself. I don't have my dream diaries any longer, and we are talking about a period over 6 years ago.
Also, it was like an ad for an upcoming tv program - just a flash of a picture - there is no 'helpfulness' to the 'vision' (for want of a better word). There is no reason for me to see myself advise my daughter that someone else can give her better help on a homework question than me. What purpose does it serve? So, I think my memory must be playing tricks on me somehow, but I don't understand how or why.
It's confusing, and I just wondered if anyone else ever experiences this type of thing - not remembering the dream, but apparently living through a moment that you believe you already described to someone else after a dream.