thaiboxerken
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Uhm.. why is leaking the tape disgusting again?
I'm not sure if they are phone calls, or recordings of fights they had in person in their house. Nobody is specific yet.
Uhm.. why is leaking the tape disgusting again?
She classlessly and cowardly
taped him without his knowledge (and might have provoked him into saying those things),
Well, really, where else would they have gotten it from? She made the tape. She possessed the tape.
You know who else possessed the tape? THE COURTS. You don't think someone at the courthouse could have leaked it for a buck?
(and might have provoked him into saying those things),
She classlessly and cowardly taped him without his knowledge (and might have provoked him into saying those things), released it to the public- not the courtroom, not the judge- behind his back and publicly humiliated him in order to gain leverage in a custody battle.
If that's not disgusting, heaven knows what is.
Not that he isn't an absolute jackass. As a matter of fact, screw him. Forget about him.
What she did was disgusting towards her daughter. If she wanted the best for her daughter now and in the future, she should have sought to settle the custody as quickly and painlessly as possible, done as little as possible to poison the relationship between the daughter and her father, not separated her from her Dad (unless there was an issue of abuse) and not given the daughter horrible things to read about herself online 15 years from now.
Yes, he's nuts. Yeah, that rant is jaw dropping, even coming from him.
Still, his ex-girlfriend has no right to remove his daughter from him. Not unless he regularly uses racial or sexist slurs in front of the child, displays violent behavior in the child's presence or is otherwise an unfit parent. Not just a dirt bag- an unfit parent.
And she did the poor kid no favors by releasing all this publicly. All she did was damage the family even more, prolong the custody dispute and produce even more hurtful gossip for the child to hear when she's old enough to understand these things and be interested in them.
Well, really, where else would they have gotten it from? She made the tape. She possessed the tape. It contained things that would help her immensely in the custody fight. The tape was leaked. The most likely conclusion by far here is that the ex-girlfriend, who had control of it and whose interests it served, leaked it.
Allright, you are correct, answer changed. There is no direct evidence she did it, no. So she probably leaked the tape. It could have been someone else, yes. There could be something we don't know about, yes. So let's say for now that she probably did it.
I can't wait for Danny Glover's comments.
Then why didn't you write: "She says she didn't leak them and you and I don't have any evidence that this is true or false" ?
That would have been you being incredibly skeptical.
Instead you went into "oh, poor woman" mode and automatically took her side by saying, as you did: "She says she didn't leak them and you don't have any evidence that she did."