It isn't very difficult to discern. You have students who don't know what a graph is, meaning the examples she gave: bar charts, a line, the four quadrants - there should be no question about what she is doing and the only confusion arises because these are graduate students not competent at grade school level expectations concerning math.
I know what exams are being prepared for, have studied the sample questions, and the exams use the proper terminology. So rejecting the exam terminology for terms like "squiggle" isn't a good strategy.
For one thing, obviously you want to get exam-takers familiar with the terminology they are using on the exam itself. Secondly, this term clearly buys into an anti-math belief system where we trivialize math by choosing pejorative terms specifically implying they are meaningless doodles. Were I allowed to say who these people are, then it would be immediately apparent why it is pretty urgent to extinguish an anti-math attitude.
With the first and second grade graphing my four and five year old encountered, they use pictograms like this (We like Khan Academy):
So I understand the point about gently sliding people into graphing by using the familiar (the apples themselves) instead of symbolic representations to start with. That is how we teach graphing to little boys and girls.
But we are actually teaching them math. We are not coaching them on how to eliminate obviously wrong answers on an exam so they can guess between the remainder. That is the nature of the OP, and we can see the rationalization that despite concealing who these people are, we are assured that math has nothing to do with their jobs and how unfair it is to expect any understanding of grade-school level math out of them. Therefore, under this rationalization, it is appropriate that we coach them on how to make higher-probability guesses instead of understanding math.
These are six year olds, who do not need to have an explanation for what a graph is and why we do it.
And yes, I would show them this instead of making excuses for them. In my teaching career I ended up being thanked by people for cracking the whip and expecting more out of them. This is a very low expectation threshold for adults.