bruto
Penultimate Amazing
This is one I disagree with. When I was in the Navy we (submarine force) were taught to use escalation as a means of keeping the ship safe. Verbal orders, then brandishing, then using actual force.
Brandishing was something that happened prior to actually pulling the trigger. It was a matter of relaxing if the threat went away or escalating further if the threat kept coming towards us.
I would suggest that the rules for military behavior, especially on a naval ship, are not universal. Brandishing a gun in any situation indicates at least the willingness to kill. For a civilian, not necessarily trained in naval procedure, and not under military orders to protect his situation, I think brandishing demonstrates a willingness so unrestrained and unmitigated by explicit procedure that it overlaps considerably with intent, and should be interpreted thus.
Again, I should mention that my civilian gun etiquette was provided long long ago by (ironically enough) the NRA and its participation with the Boy Scouts, wherein it was drilled into us that you should always consider a gun loaded until you've confirmed correctly that it is not, and that you should never point or brandish a weapon unless you intend to fire it.