But that's the source of the so-called paradox: different observers would consider different events simultaneous.I guess in my mind the only correct observation/measurement is a universal one that considers all observers simultaneously.
Here's a simple geometrical picture one can draw on a piece of paper: have an angle, and imagine two observers starting from the vertex and going along the rays of the angle, marking distance traveled. Let's call the first "t-axis" and the second "T-axis", and the angle between them θ.This would create a paradox however with self-observed proper times conflicting with other-observed dilated times when they are in the same inertial frame.
Code:
t T t T
|_____/ |\ / Two different identifications
|____/ | \ / between t-axis and T-axis lead
|___/ |\ \/ to opposing relationships:
|__/ | \/ t/T = cos θ vs. T/t = cos θ
|_/ |\/ (A) Ident. perpendicular to t-axis
|/ |/ (B) Ident. perpendicular to T-axis
A B