please, inform me what horrible ramifications occured after of the invention of modern anesthesia. I am just dying to hear this one.
Steve Martin in "Little shop of horrors" getting stoned performing denistry was the only thing that came to mind.
please, inform me what horrible ramifications occured after of the invention of modern anesthesia. I am just dying to hear this one.
please, inform me what horrible ramifications occured after of the invention of modern anesthesia. I am just dying to hear this one.
Dear Amapola
This brother & sister lost their parents at an early age,just before their puberty.The boy received some official support from the authorities as regards receiving money as pension.Some of their relatives arrived once in 6 months or a year to help them with the management of finances.In our country,people(neighbours) are too curious but helpful too although this help could irritate the boy & the girl at times.Their parents had money.The brother received a Master degree.Yes,he got a pretty good job.This is not a story which I made.They became close to one another in a house where they were of only help to one another ,may be first mentally,then physically.But I don't know whether they were completely innocent or not while being physically intimate.I presume nobody can know that.
Dude, "Flowers in the Attic" was not a documentary.
You want to watch that broad-brushing, Krispin. That is if you ever hope to be taken seriously.I just love it when people rave about the superiority of Nature and the evilness of Technology ... whilst using the internet. If Nature is the desired state, you should probably be getting back to it. On foot and clothed only in "natural" materials.
Your mommy? Who? Other kids have mommies and you want to know where yours is? Sorry, kiddie, you apple of my eye, you. I decided you didn't need a mommy for your upbringing.
Tell me, Krispin, with a straight face that the above scenario ISN'T monstrous.
conspiraider said:Pure selfishness and arrogance - that's what it is. A woman deliberately deciding that a child will NEVER know its birth father. I'd like to be there listening to her try to explain to the kid, especially if he's a boy, why she has no use for men and thought so little of them that they rate no more than a shopping item in a catalog to her. Monstrous. Not human.
Okay, here's another source (have you heard of the BBC?)
And here is the full article:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/4688450.stm
Kindly recognize my underlying point, Big Les, would you please? Which is essentially, that when we humans decide to shortcut or temporarily bypass the careful set of balances that Nature has devised over hundreds of millions of years - we should never be surprised at the counterpunches and consequences. What we should do is take a helluva lot more caution. Because poysonally, I don't want to unknowingly marry my half-sister. And if I ever do have a daughter, I don't want guys in their 20s hitting on her when she is 10.
You want to watch that broad-brushing, Krispin. That is if you ever hope to be taken seriously.
What you fail to realize, with your sweeping generalizations, is that I NEVER SAID Technology should be abandoned and that we should all go back to swinging from trees and scratching for fleas. You inferred that. Erroneously.
If Technology allows us to get an egg from a human female and allow fertilization from a male ostrich - should we take that and put it in her womb and see what happens? Hey - it's TECHNOLOGY! That means we should just plow right ahead and do it. We beat Nature again! We invented a life form that never would have happened! Yay! We're smarter than Nature! We're SUPERIOR to Nature!
Nature is like Ken Kesey's "Combine" of which he used as an allegory in One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest. The combine they use on farms. It's out there. It's coming. It's going to take it's good old time. But it is unstoppable. And inescapable. And yes - since Nature encapsulates everything that occurs, it is superior. We are a rather minor aspect in the skein of diversity that is Nature. And I don't mean just biology or the Earth or even the Solar System. It's everything else out there as well.
Let's just do a complete scenario-reversal that caused the flare-up in the first place, betwixt ponderingturtle and myself. That if a woman decides she wants to raise a baby without a man - she should be able to.
Let's assume I want to do this (and I don't - this is for the purpose of illustration of a point). Ready? I want to raise a newborn all by myself. Don't want the messiness of a relationship with a woman. Don't like women, want to do this thing myself. Just me and my baby, my little kiddie, who I am going to raise perfectly without anyone else getting in my way. I get a catalog. Nice one, color pictures, slick, well-designed. And I go shopping for a fetus carrier. I'm a Uterus Shopper. My sperm. Her egg. I don't want to know her, don't want to meet her, just give me her vitals. Height, weight, age, eye color, hair color, race, education. Ah! Here's one. Seems ideal. How much? Oh, five grand and she'll carry the fetus to term. Got that. Here's the cash. (9 months later) Hello? Yes? You got my baby? Terrific! Ahhh! Childrearing bliss! No pesky woman to screw up the perfect kiddie. I'll just get this infant formula, feed the kid the bottle, change it, coo and goo-goo with it, burp it, sing to it, read it stories... Your mommy? Who? Other kids have mommies and you want to know where yours is? Sorry, kiddie, you apple of my eye, you. I decided you didn't need a mommy for your upbringing. Dad knows best, right? And it's legal and I got just what I wanted - you - and we didn't have to involve anything like a mommy in raising you. Isn't it wonderful? Isn't technology great? You can do the same thing, kiddie!
Tell me, Krispin, with a straight face that the above scenario ISN'T monstrous. And if it's monstrous - then so is the notion of a woman's deliberate decision to raise a newborn without a man - without the father around ever.
You mean medical anaestesia which is one of the leading causes of surgical complications?
Certainly the positive benefit outweighs the negatives in this case, but to think that there are no horrible ramifications is just naive.
I am not krispin, but no, its not monsterous. youre just again assuming you know what women think- and you dont. I do not glorify motherhood- having a loving responsible person around is more important than having one guy and one woman, or at least one woman, or whatever others consider ideal. and its completely unfair for you to speak for children of those women who chose single parenthood- what the hell makes you think that you have the right to say what they feel about how they were raised? its just another tired old strawman.
I think that the main issue ConspiRaider is trying to raise is not so much the single-parenthood aspect (adoption, orphanage, etc), but the implied misogyny/misandry of choosing not to involve a person of the opposite sex. The fact that this was not possible until technology made certain types of fertility feasible is what dragged the whole "tech = bad" theme into the conversation.
I don't think this is monstrous, or that much of a problem, but CR may have had personal experiences that inform his opinion*. If I had encountered people who believed and behaved this way, I might feel differently.
* He lives in So Cal, and I have met people from there who behave even more strangely.
i tried to find evidence of that on my own and came up short. it seems as though the leading cause of surgical complications is very dependant on the type of surgury being performed.
the underlined part was what i was getting at. that technology doesnt neccesarily lead to some sort of sci fi doomsday situation, and that some technologies provide solutions where even the complications are much more favorable than the original problem.i look forward to the future because of how technology changes the world.
True. I don't have the stats on hand myself, but a great deal of complications can arise from anaesthesia, even when the doctor has not been negligent. In the wrong hands (which is really the issue for any technology) it can be deadly or worse. Had to write a case note last semester on a case where an epidural had left a man a quadraplegic - a quick legal search found FAR too many medical negligence cases related to anaesthesia...
True, I don't think anyone is really doubting that - in a way I agree with CR, though for different reasons than I think he puts forward. He puts forward a moral argument, while I take issue more with the idea that we have technology now that is specifically aimed at increasing the population, and that is allowing couples who were biologically unable to reproduce the chance to introduce a baby into the world who may well share the problem its parents had and who is 'taking the place' of a possible adoption. For me, the biggest issue is that we are allowing unconstrained population growth in a world that cannot handle it - certainly I don't wish to limit or fine people who fall pregnant 'the natural way', but when there are children in need already, living on a world where there is limited space and resources, to me it is irresponsible bringing a child who could not have naturally been conceived into the world instead of caring for one who may not have a future without adoption.
It's all about managing the world and the people in it - you have to build the house before you can start to renovate.
this doesnt make sense to me. if the issue is unadopted children why do heterosexual couples get a pass from you?
If Technology allows us to get an egg from a human female and allow fertilization from a male ostrich - should we take that and put it in her womb and see what happens? Hey - it's TECHNOLOGY! That means we should just plow right ahead and do it. We beat Nature again! We invented a life form that never would have happened! Yay! We're smarter than Nature! We're SUPERIOR to Nature!
They don't, if they are unable to conceive naturally.
For me the issue is not that children require a mother and a father - though I would put forward that having a positive male and female role model is a must, even if they are not the parents but rather friends or a friend of the parents - but that if one cannot naturally conceive then if one wants a child, one should adopt. Heterosexual couples that can conceive get a pass because I'm not big on regulating people's sexual habits, and preventing or controlling pregnancies in the heterosexual population at large would be a nigh insurmountable task.
For me it boils down to this: If you cannot naturally conceive, be it because your sexual preference has left both you and your partner wombless, because of a medical condition, or for whatever reason in-between, then you should adopt if you want a child. We have reached a point now in cultural development where we should be able to overcome the programming of our genes, bite the bullet and accept that if we cannot conceive our own child then perhaps we should care for someone else's.