Hair preference
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That picture is you or your sister?
twin sister!?Cleopatra said:
I thought that Virgin Mary had them on her shoulders too...
I don't care that much anymore, I mean whoever tries to underestimate me just because I have very long hair that I enjoy them on my shoulders... then... he finds out -the hard way-what a "stripper" can do in her morning job
Also, I am proud for some grey hair I have.They are few and I haven't started colouring them. I love them. They make my twin sister -who colours hers- furious, something that doubles the excitement for having them!
That picture is you or your sister?
Long hair, at least to the shoulders, is a female sexual display. It's associated in lots of cultures with sexual availibility, which is why religions spend an inordinate amount of time dealing with how women dress or look.
When women get married or feel secure in a long term relationship, the first thing they do is have it cut for various BS reasons like "its too messy" "it takes too long" "my hair is really too thick/too thin/too greasy/too dry to be long" but really its about not showing a sexual display of availibility. Those women who keep their long hair, will often braid it or put it up so that it no longer looks long.
Its often possible to tell when a woman is sexually available at certain times of the month depending on whether the hair is worn up or down.
Let the protestations of stereotyping begin here....---->
When women get married or feel secure in a long term relationship, the first thing they do is have it cut for various BS reasons like "its too messy" "it takes too long" "my hair is really too thick/too thin/too greasy/too dry to be long" but really its about not showing a sexual display of availibility. Those women who keep their long hair, will often braid it or put it up so that it no longer looks long.
Its often possible to tell when a woman is sexually available at certain times of the month depending on whether the hair is worn up or down.
Let the protestations of stereotyping begin here....---->
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I think you misunderstood my post.
I was referring to the hair-up, glasses, business dress character that whips off her glasses and let's down her hair. Under her dress is sexy underwear, garters and stockings. It's a fetish for many men.
It sounds like you have already established yourself among your peers. I do not have a set group of people I work with, I have to pay attention to impressions I create. They make or break a sale.
In your case, maybe it's good to have people underestimate you
I can see that advantage in some professions.
Cleopatra said:
I thought that Virgin Mary had them on her shoulders too...
I don't care that much anymore, I mean whoever tries to underestimate me just because I have very long hair that I enjoy them on my shoulders... then... he finds out -the hard way-what a "stripper" can do in her morning job
I think you misunderstood my post.
I was referring to the hair-up, glasses, business dress character that whips off her glasses and let's down her hair. Under her dress is sexy underwear, garters and stockings. It's a fetish for many men.
It sounds like you have already established yourself among your peers. I do not have a set group of people I work with, I have to pay attention to impressions I create. They make or break a sale.
In your case, maybe it's good to have people underestimate you
I can see that advantage in some professions.
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Hmmm..... So, if somebody reads this and believes it and then visits for example Greece during the summer -especially when the summer is particularly hot like this year- he will think that every woman in the country is unavailable...and he will not think that they might wear their hair up because of the extreme heat...
Right!
Well... tell me, do you think that you have the right to ruin other people's vacations by spreading such theories?
So, is it right for women to presume that every man with the slightest indication of a...pot-belly is .... married?
These are fields to show how skeptical we are...or better to practice with critical thinking
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Well, no my mind didn't get that far ,indeed... let's pretend that I am slow because of the heat. Ok?
tamiO said:
I think you misunderstood my post.
I was referring to the hair-up, glasses, business dress character that whips off her glasses and let's down her hair. Under her dress is sexy underwear, garters and stockings. It's a fetish for many men.
Well, no my mind didn't get that far ,indeed... let's pretend that I am slow because of the heat. Ok?
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According to the article I linked above, it is not (yet) published in a paper, but was presented at a meeting. It is possible that the meeting abstracts might be available somewhere online, I haven't found them yet.Mercutio said:
I also like grey hair on women. I think it shows self-confidence and a rejection of the male-created barbie doll image of what women 'should' look like.
Has Mattell ever come out with an elderly grey-haired Barbie doll? They could be missing a big market. "Senior Barbie" or some such.
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My preference is for a man to have grey hair not short, shoulder length is short enough. Matching Goatee beard is an added welcome bonus.
On women I prefer the natural hair as they were gene given at birth. No artificial enhancements certainly no beards and or moustaches sorry ladies they do not do it for me.
On women I prefer the natural hair as they were gene given at birth. No artificial enhancements certainly no beards and or moustaches sorry ladies they do not do it for me.
'three women I know have cut their beautiful long hair and then within months had a divorce! It wasn't the hair though, that was just their way of showing they were sick of their husbands!
I get nervous now when someone I know makes a big change to her hair...
I get nervous now when someone I know makes a big change to her hair...
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lol, I know! Nice hair! But I'm gonna guess you got a bit older and decided that that hair was getting in the way, or something like that. My mother decided the same thing when I was little. I wasn't a hair-pulling child, either. 
My hair is at about mid-back now, but it used to be all the way down to my tailbone. One day, I handed my mother a pair of scissors and said "Cut it." She cut it off just below my shoulder blades, and with the curl, it dried much shorter. I was horrified. That was 2 years ago. I'm just waiting for it to grow back. With my recent trim it's now about as long as yours is in that pic. I guess I wasn't thinking at all that day. lol. But it is just hair, it will (and does) grow back. I've read messages of women on long-haired forums describing how they cried when some stylist cut their hair a couple of inches. 
But I'm gonna guess you got a bit older and decided that that hair was getting in the way, or something like that. My mother decided the same thing when I was little. I wasn't a hair-pulling child, either. My hair is at about mid-back now, but it used to be all the way down to my tailbone. One day, I handed my mother a pair of scissors and said "Cut it." She cut it off just below my shoulder blades, and with the curl, it dried much shorter. I was horrified. That was 2 years ago. I'm just waiting for it to grow back.
With my recent trim it's now about as long as yours is in that pic. I guess I wasn't thinking at all that day. lol. But it is just hair, it will (and does) grow back. I've read messages of women on long-haired forums describing how they cried when some stylist cut their hair a couple of inches. RSLancastr
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I once dated a girl who had hair that went all the way down her back.
Unfortunately, she didn't have any on her head.
Try the veal! I'll be here all week!!
Seriously though, I prefer longer hair on a woman. Laying back, looking up at a woman, with her hair falling down around your face is... very sensual.
However, most women seem to prefer to have short hair, as it is much easier to deal with.
Unfortunately, she didn't have any on her head.
Try the veal! I'll be here all week!!
Seriously though, I prefer longer hair on a woman. Laying back, looking up at a woman, with her hair falling down around your face is... very sensual.
However, most women seem to prefer to have short hair, as it is much easier to deal with.
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Not sure, but I bet I know what Pool Boy was thinking!kittynh said:
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Long.
Straight.
Red.
Period.
And no dye jobs... only the real stuff will do. O.k... I give in... dye jobs are fine, just get your eyebrows done too. Nothing turns me off more than flaming locks paired with Brooke Shieldseque eyestaches.
And other thing, please don't the "Post-Menapausal". You know... frosted, light perm, high and tight. It might work for butchy lesbians, but it does not look attractive even with a pretty face.
Straight.
Red.
Period.
And no dye jobs... only the real stuff will do. O.k... I give in... dye jobs are fine, just get your eyebrows done too. Nothing turns me off more than flaming locks paired with Brooke Shieldseque eyestaches.
And other thing, please don't the "Post-Menapausal". You know... frosted, light perm, high and tight. It might work for butchy lesbians, but it does not look attractive even with a pretty face.
It would be interesting to know where these preferences stem from. I have a friend who actually prefers bald men. I have never been attracted to men with long hair.
Mine is past my waist. I'm afraid I'm going to be sitting on it soon. It is already getting caught in doors once in awhile. But I'm lazy and don't like hair salons - or what ever they are called. It just seems easier to let it grow and let it curl any crazy way it decides, I'm done fighting with it. Another advantage of it being this long is that on 'bad hair days' I just pull it back or put it into one long braid. Anything not to fuss with it.
Mine is past my waist. I'm afraid I'm going to be sitting on it soon. It is already getting caught in doors once in awhile. But I'm lazy and don't like hair salons - or what ever they are called. It just seems easier to let it grow and let it curl any crazy way it decides, I'm done fighting with it. Another advantage of it being this long is that on 'bad hair days' I just pull it back or put it into one long braid. Anything not to fuss with it.
Julia said:
Baldness is caused by over-production of testosterone, which would therefore imply greater virility. Naturally I'm balding
although I wish I wasn't It looks athough quite a few people were caught out. Long hair in women is a sexual signal, as blatent in its own way as figure hugging clothing and visible cleavage. It may not have occurred to you before, but they're all non-verbal messages of sexual availability.