Not surprisingly, homosexuals are often the most virulent God-haters.
In an attempt to be reasonable here:
Don't you think that ambivalence, resentment, or even hate, toward God is a natural reaction by homosexuals who run across the attitudes of far too many followers of the God? If you are met with condemnation, no negotiation or compromise offered, in the name of that God and God's rules, how do you expect people to react?
Let's look at a portion of Muslims and Christians (about 2 billion people on the planet), whose creed basically condemns homosexuality. A good sized chunk of that mass of people are likely to be less than charitable towards homosexuals when applying strict interpretations of the codes and creeds of their God.
It appears that one can argue, based on tenets, that if one swings homosexual, and one recognizes it, one is acceptable to God if one overcomes biological and libidinous urges and becomes celibate.
How nice.
Technically, God and His people condemned me as a vile fornicator during my single days, as I was most assuredly poon hunting outside of marriage. Let's say I didn't give much of a crap about that condemnation.
Let's do the sums: there is
one option being, "OK if you are Gay" as seen by the more stringent adherents of two major religions worshipping God, and that option is celibacy.
Aside: there is enough wiggle room in the codes that the American Episcopal church has not only openly gay members, but also gay clergy. Not sure about the Lutherans. Don't know enough about various small Muslim sects to know if something similar has developed, but I read a neat piece in Atlantic a few years back that described the underground gay scene in Saudi Arabia. But I digress.
If the strict adherents could reliably point to how commonly practiced
celibacy is among the Faithful outside of marriage, there would be room to stand there, particularly if the attitude was open: "Come join us, and we'll be very helpful to you in remaining celibate, we'll be supportive, etc!" And actually be helpful.
But I don't think we see very much of that. (Example: you can be hanged for being gay in Iran. How special. You can be ostracized in any number of Christian sects for being openly gay ... and so on.)
While I am no fan of anti-Christian bigotry, I completely understand how a gay person would be uncomfortable with God, or emotionally negative up to and including hate, due to how His people often act in His name.
Yet even so, you find homosexuals practicing Christianity, see the example I offered above. That's a remarkable testament to me of the open-hearted nature of at least some of God's people, and by extension (in a similar rationale as above) of God.
In case you are wondering, I am a straight, married Christian male.
DR