Why is there something and not just nothing? This sounds like a strictly metaphysical question, and I don't know if we will ever be able to answer this question. It might be nevertheless interesting to try to find different possible answers. At least one benefit would be that we would be able to show that there are different possible answers, so an argument from ignorance ("my favorite religious answer is the only possible one, so it must be correct") becomes harder to maintain. This is what I have found:
Something like (0) was proposed by the Logical Positivists, but I guess it can be traced back further in time. (1) is the traditional religious explanation, and obviously very old. Some version of (2) was proposed by Charles Sanders Peirce; I don't know of any earlier source, but wouldn't rule out the possibility that there is one — with some stretch of imagination, one could claim that the "chaos" of some creation myths corresponds to the "lawless absolute nothingness" presented here. (3) seems to have gained popularity with the rise of certain modern physical theories, like the Many Worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics or Inflation models of cosmology, which postulate infinite many worlds anyway. I don't know who was the first to propose such a theory as (3), but, for example, Max Tegmark is an outspoken proponent of this solution.
Although all of these solutions are mere metaphysical speculations and therefor can't be refutated, all of them have their specific drawbacks. The following list is not meant as to be regarded as exhaustive:
The list given above seems remarkably short. This may be because it is a difficult question; or perhaps the incentive to find a non-religious solution is psychologically not very compelling (if you don't stick to solution (1), you are probably a skeptic and avoid metaphysical speculations). But perhaps the shortness of this list just shows my lack of education. At least this last possibility might be curable: what further proposals have I missed?
- Don't Ask
The question is meaningless. It asks for a cause of everything there is which is not part of everything there is. It also assumes that the totality of everything there is needs a cause. We may or may not observe that causation is a useful concept when talking about certain objects that are specific parts of the totality of everything, but that doesn't allow us to assume that this concept is also applicable to the totality of everything. Since the question is inherently meaningless, there is no meaningful answer to it.
- God Did It
Our part of the universe (the "Flesh"), is not in itself necessary and therefor needs an explanation. But there is another part of the universe ("Eternity") that, due to its perfection, necessarily exists and explains the existence of our part of the universe.
- Physical Laws Evolved
The rule "something can't come from nothing" is something we observe in our world, but it is not a necessary rule in all possible worlds. If we try to imagine absolute, perfect nothingness, we have to imagine a nothingness that doesn't contain the physical laws as we know them, which means, the perfect nothingness doesn't contain a rule that precludes something to come from nothing. New rules and things formed from the initial nothingness, until the universe was saturated with rules which prevented the advent of new rules and things (this is not necessarily a chronological process, since time came into existence along this process).
- Everything Possible Exists
We are used to distinguish between actual and merely possible things. But this distinction is moot and unjustified. In fact, to assume that such a distinction exists violates Occam's rule. For each thing that is logically possible exists at least one world where this thing actually exists. This view is actually an extreme version of mathematical Platonism: all mathematical structures actually exist, and they are the only things that exists. Our world is a possible mathematical structure (and that explains why science is able to describe it in mathematical terms), and therefor it exists.
Something like (0) was proposed by the Logical Positivists, but I guess it can be traced back further in time. (1) is the traditional religious explanation, and obviously very old. Some version of (2) was proposed by Charles Sanders Peirce; I don't know of any earlier source, but wouldn't rule out the possibility that there is one — with some stretch of imagination, one could claim that the "chaos" of some creation myths corresponds to the "lawless absolute nothingness" presented here. (3) seems to have gained popularity with the rise of certain modern physical theories, like the Many Worlds interpretation of quantum mechanics or Inflation models of cosmology, which postulate infinite many worlds anyway. I don't know who was the first to propose such a theory as (3), but, for example, Max Tegmark is an outspoken proponent of this solution.
Although all of these solutions are mere metaphysical speculations and therefor can't be refutated, all of them have their specific drawbacks. The following list is not meant as to be regarded as exhaustive:
- Don't Ask
I don't like concepts that don't allow you to ask certain questions. It would be more convincing if it could be shown that nothing (the absence of anything) is logically impossible (like in (2)). Merely saying that a certain question is meaningless is a bit disappointing. On the other hand, maybe that's just how it is.
- God Did It
There are several models trying to explain why God has to exist, but they are far from convincing. Basically, this explanation just shifts the problem around. It begs the question who created the creator.
- Physical Laws Evolved
The specific details about the genesis of the universe out of nothing are a bit vague; Peirce, for example, isn't very clear about this point, and I don't know of any proponent of this theory who is clearer about it. The absence of any kind of physical law is extremely counterintuitive, and unfortunately, there is no mathematical model as of yet that could counterbalance this lack.
- Everything Possible Exists
There are some problems with probability in this explanation: a world with lots of improbable things happening seems to have the same ontological status as a world where lots of probable things are happening. Even worse, it seems difficult to argue that the "plausible" worlds outnumber the "implausible" worlds. It seems that we are living in a "plausible" world (that is, lots of probable and few of improbable things happen), and I would prefer a solution that explains why this is what we should expect (besides this, I have to admit that I like this solution: it accommodates my disposition for mathematical Platonism).
The list given above seems remarkably short. This may be because it is a difficult question; or perhaps the incentive to find a non-religious solution is psychologically not very compelling (if you don't stick to solution (1), you are probably a skeptic and avoid metaphysical speculations). But perhaps the shortness of this list just shows my lack of education. At least this last possibility might be curable: what further proposals have I missed?