I have a daughter with severe dyslexia. We are talking thousands of hours of tutoring since she was quite young, and we are thrilled she can "kind of" read enough to barely function in the real world. Forget school, books on tape and an intensive LD program (along with even more expensive private tutoring) will get her through that AND through college.
I still get the "You didn't talk to her enough as a baby...."
or
"What did you feed her when she was young? Did you let her have sugar?"
or
"You should have read her books." (I DID!)
She has been down to Yale where important work is being done. There is now a gene that has been identified. I've seen the brain scans of my daughter that SHOW her brain works differently when attempting to read. So I'm familiar with the fact that she just IS this way.
I've also learned over the years that there is nothing wrong with her being this way. The differences in how her brain works may result in trouble reading and writing. But it has so many benefits also. She is a very creative thinker, and has a sense of empathy that I would not trade for making her "like everyone else". We need people with dyslexia. Walt Disney, Churchill, there are so many that has added so much to our lives, that I don't let her or myself think of this as a "problem" anymore. It's a pain, she STILL has to learn to read and write, because that is the way life it. But it is also a good thing.
here is the link to the latest "news". But the important part for me is at the end.....
http://news.yahoo.com/s/hsn/20051028/hl_hsn/researchersmayhavediscovereddyslexiagene
"Whether or not these findings translate into concrete gains for people with dyslexia, the research sends "a very important message to educators, parents and children, which is that you're not dumb. This isn't your fault. You're not a bad parent," Gruen said. "This is a transmitted difference in our gene that makes one person learn differently than another. That's all it is."