Greetings my friend Ruby
I for many years studied the NT and OT and debated often concerning the Contradictions. I stopped for many reasons:
A- With the wrong people it was rude to confront what they healed dear regardless of their seeking debate.
B- Ego arose in me at times “ enjoying” being “right”.
Lastly even with people who were as these people you speak of, aggressive etc you will NEVER win. You will clearly demonstrate a clear contradiction providing all facts, date etc and the response will be:
1- “ You are taking it out of context” That will be followed with you asking for the “ right context and proof” that will be followed with crickets.
2- “ because” followed by you asking for more then that followed by, crickets.
3- Anger will start to arise and you will be accused being “stupid” “evil” “lost” a “fool” etc, etc, etc.
When you point out for example:
Matt. 5:22 Whosoever shall say Thou fool, shall be in danger of hellfire.
And
JAMES 1:26 -If Anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his sharp tongue but deceives his own heart, this ones religion is useless~
Their responses will be a replay of my 1-2 and 3.
You are where I was years ago after years of schooling and being raised in a Christian family I knew I did not believe what Christianity held but first fear (an illusion) kept be bound, then the fear of “ what if it is true then I am screwed” that passed then came debating and that was found for ME to be fruitless and more of a self “fulfilling” and ego trip if you will. But that is just me and I do not speak for you.
We do not have the power to change anyone and the “need” or desire to such as a Christian or other god based group seeking to convert of a non believer in the god idea seeking to change a believer, I believe is 100% a self or ego need. The need to be right, on the “right team”.
I still allow my silly self to become caught up in my ego but will always keep trying to catch myself.
I believe to plant the seeds of loving kindness, respect and compassion will “change” others to what I believe is best, loving kindness, respect and compassion for all living things.
Like all seeds they will grow and flower when the causes and conditions are right.
I still love to debate but on this topic you will NEVER WIN and only become frustrated.
This is just what I believe.
May you and all be well and happy.
OH yes, one last thing.
I am the most intelligent, hansom, sexy human on earth

and if you do NOT believe me, refer to number lines 1-2 & 3.
