Gravitational fields fall off with distance but accelerating frames don't.
How gravity falls off depends on the source. The gravitational force above a infinite massive plane, for example, is constant everywhere in space. You can construct a planet whose density increases as 1/r; the acceleration due to gravity has a constant magnitude anywhere inside this planet. (The direction varies, of course, since it always points inwards)
How acceleration behaves depends on ... well, on why you're accelerating. If you're standing in a space elevator in a textbook relativity problem, you're accelerating because of a normal force on your feet (which goes to zero if you step out of the elevator). If you're positively charged and getting pulled towards a large negative point charge, your acceleration varies as 1/r^2.
Anyway: as a purely practical matter, yes, you can probably determine the cause of a force by looking for commonsense external clues, like "Am I standing on a space elevator or not?" and "Are there familiar gradients in this force?"