AtheistArchon said:
As an example, my wife and I are childless, and we will never have any kids. I've had surgery to make certain (or at least more certain) that this will be the case, and we both felt this way before we got married. We both work, we both contribute to society, we both have tons of free time. We sleep through the night without fail, barring the occasional barking dog. We have enough money to eat out four and five times a week if we like. We never need babysitters. We live comfortably and we survive successfully, and neither of us have even a college degree. But this lifestyle is almost never touted in our society. The ideal is always portrayed as husband, wife, and 2.5 kids.
Hear, hear. I've known all my life that I didn't want kids (and, even if I changed my mind someday, I wouldn't give a damn whether they were my biological offspring), so I got snipped at 25 (actually, I had to do it twice, so you
know I'm serious about it

).
On the other hand, the childfree lifestyle
is getting more exposure in American society -- there was even a Simpsons episode about it. And the number of women having children before 30 is dropping significantly.
What I'd like to see is a rollback of child tax credits and related rebates. We have quite enough people in this country already, and if we need more, there are millions south of the border or on other continents who are dying for a better life. There is no reason for our government to subsidize reproduction anymore.
Something else to think about is, of course, personal freedom. Why should the government step in to tell a single woman she can't have a child if she wants one? How much money should you have to make before you're "allowed" to get pregnant? Where is the cut-off point for the number of kids you're allowed to have vs. your ability to support them?
I wish there were some form of cheap, permanent, yet easily reversible birth control -- sort of like a vasectomy or tubal ligation that could be turned on and off.
Then, everybody could have the procedure performed at birth (or whenever practical), and, upon reaching majority, could get it reversed at any time they wish. There's no violation of personal freedom, since no one could stop you from getting it reversed if you want, but unwanted pregnancies would decrease dramatically. And I seriously doubt that most people with too many kids actually made a conscious choice to have them (although some do, of course).
- Finally, does even a polished and successful plan to forcefully control childbirth compare to a society where freedom allows both capable and disastrous parental experiments? Or does the long-term survivability of the species trump the personal desire to reproduce
It will have to -- or else nature will trump it for us. Right now, some overpopulated areas can still sustain themselves because they provide cheap labor for the rest of the world (India, China, etc.). But that won't always be the case. Population control
will happen at some point in the next 100 years, unless people take care of it on their own (as appears to be happening in Europe and, to a lesser extent, North America).
Jeremy