One of my few violent episodes as a teenager was when someone was damaging a book of mine. I lost my temper. When I told my grandma about it later, she pointed out that it was probably because a book was involved. So I've tried to lighten up. Now I gladly give my books out to anyone if I can share the enjoyment I got out of them.Cleopatra said:I belong to the neurotics that keep their books in a way that make you believe that none has ever touched them.
Do you remember that woman in Elia's Canneti book,"Die Blendung" Therese(?) which touched the hero's books only if she had wore gloves in order to impress him? I take notes of the books I read but on tiny notebooks. Each book has its own notebook.Yes, I have already told my therapist about that!
If I own a book, sometimes I use a highlighter on it. I like this because sometimes I like to scan through an old book, and this way I can quickly review my favorite parts. Also, highlighter marks fade and are almost unnoticeable after many years. I would quickly loose any "tiny notebook".
But writing in library books is just wrong because libary books are community property.