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Cont: Transwomen are not women part XII (also merged)

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I sometimes, occasionally, dip into this apparently never-ending thread. Series of threads. Which is not meant as a dismissive observation, I think the arguments both sides put down make for interesting reading, when one happens to look in; and, taken in small doses, the back-and-forth sniping can be entertaining, as well!

Me, I'm undecided, really. Earlier on, when there was actually a trans person commenting here, I found myself in her favor, given that here was an actual person who's putting herself out, and all she's asking is we refer to her as a 'she'. So that it seemed somewhat perverse not to accede to her wish. But, and like I said, in the abstract, I'd say I'm undecided. Both sides make compelling enough arguments!

So anyway, I was generally wondering what exactly all of this hoo-haa actually amounts to. How many people actually are trans? No doubt the seasoned debaters on this subject are well aware of this stat, but I was not; and so I looked it up: and apparently the number is less than a percentage point! (Link: https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/transgender-population-by-state)

That's such a small number, that I'd suggest that, regardless of the merits of the arguments on either side, that tiny number itself makes an argument for accommodation of these folks. Half a percentage point overall, I mean to say! (Although yes, I agree, the argument some make, that there are, or might be, predators out there who misuse the self-ID route in order to, well, get into spaces where they've no business entering, does make sense; and I've no counter-argument to that; like I said I'm undecided on the question. Just, the tiny percentage itself, it seems to me, makes an argument for accommodation these people, regardless of other, more substantial arguments, on either side of the question.)

It's not really a counter argument but there is no reason "self-ID" has to mean "I can call myself a trans woman this minute so I can enter this female toilet and abuse a woman, then step out and now call myself a man".

There is no reason at all that self-ID legislation couldn't be like the GRC approach in the UK i.e. require someone to have lived as their new gender for 2 years.

An issue is that time and time again the discussion is held hostage or hijacked by those "all or nothing" extremists on either end.

I can have sympathy with those that don't want a "medicalised" approach but can't see why that can't be one route someone could go down, if you have gender dysphoria that's the route for you. If you don't have gender dysphoria I do think there should be some route you can go down so you can have your gender changed. I think the having to "live as your new gender" is a good place to start looking at what that route may look like.

Even allowing people to change their gender does not mean that we have to be blind to what a person's "biological sex" is in all circumstances. All our rights exist in a balance with other people's rights. Think of it akin to our right to freedom of expression - we recognise that is not an absolute right, that there are some circumstances when my right to freedom of expression can be curtailed.
 
Since puberty by definition happens before someone is an adult, that rapidly drops the whole discourse deep back into distinction without difference territory.

Children and teens and other "non-adults" have to be in the discussion somewhere or this rapidly becomes purely a thought experiment with zero real world application.
 
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It's not really a counter argument but there is no reason "self-ID" has to mean "I can call myself a trans woman this minute so I can enter this female toilet and abuse a woman, then step out and now call myself a man".

No but you also can't solidify a NoTrueScotsman style "Personal gender identity is unquestionable unless you use it to do something bad" standard either.

The transcommunity can't just define anyone who does exactly what they do dot dot dot but it leads to a bad outcome as not counting.
 
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It's not really a counter argument but there is no reason "self-ID" has to mean "I can call myself a trans woman this minute so I can enter this female toilet and abuse a woman, then step out and now call myself a man".

There is no reason at all that self-ID legislation couldn't be like the GRC approach in the UK i.e. require someone to have lived as their new gender for 2 years.

An issue is that time and time again the discussion is held hostage or hijacked by those "all or nothing" extremists on either end.

I can have sympathy with those that don't want a "medicalised" approach but can't see why that can't be one route someone could go down, if you have gender dysphoria that's the route for you. If you don't have gender dysphoria I do think there should be some route you can go down so you can have your gender changed. I think the having to "live as your new gender" is a good place to start looking at what that route may look like.

Even allowing people to change their gender does not mean that we have to be blind to what a person's "biological sex" is in all circumstances. All our rights exist in a balance with other people's rights. Think of it akin to our right to freedom of expression - we recognise that is not an absolute right, that there are some circumstances when my right to freedom of expression can be curtailed.

I'm not aware of any real situation where self-ID means people can flippantly change their gender whenever they like. Even in places like Canada or California there it requires some paperwork to officially document the request and change, including updating your official identification papers.

Requiring someone to live as their gender unrecognized for years at a time seems a cruel request. It basically requires these people who likely have only recently transitioned to constantly out themselves by virtue of having no official recognition. In theory they'd constantly be drawing attention to the fact that they are trans and not cis by having official gender out of sync with their presented gender. In practice I imagine more than a few just illegally pass as their preferred gender if practical in order to maintain a bit of personal privacy. Is a trans man with a flat chest and full beard going to walk into a ladies room and invite all kinds of questions just because they are in their 2 year probation period, or just go into the mens room and assume nobody is going to even bat an eye?

Formalizing a path to easy recognition seems an improvement over the ambiguous status quo in many places where trans people have little option but to operate in grey zones of unrecognized status.
 
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We are allowed to discuss things that might happen if "self identity" becomes as key a part of social life as is being suggested, provided it is done reasonably.

Not every "okay but what if" is a slippery slope.
 
I'm not aware of any real situation where self-ID means people can flippantly change their gender whenever they like. Even in places like Canada or California there it requires some paperwork to officially document the request and change, including updating your official identification papers.

Depends what you mean by “flippantly”. In California you can “change the gender marker or sex identifier on a birth certificate or driver's license without a court order or medical certification. You can change it to male, female, or nonbinary.”

Pretty much the definition of self id.
 
Depends what you mean by “flippantly”. In California you can “change the gender marker or sex identifier on a birth certificate or driver's license without a court order or medical certification. You can change it to male, female, or nonbinary.”

Pretty much the definition of self id.

I mean, I got married without a court order or medical exam and I don't consider that "flippant".

Filing paperwork with the state is a non-trivial process.
 
Here is your problem. You will note I used the words transwomen and transmen.

Ok, on the other "pronoun" thread there are posters who object to the courtesy of addressing other adults as their preferred gender.

The point remains that your comment about a baseline level of trans acceptance is simply not true.
 
The point remains that your comment about a baseline level of trans acceptance is simply not true.

********. Prove it. Poll after poll shows public acceptance of transgender people. You seem to be imagining massive bigotry. It’s not there. Is there concern about minors having puberty blockers without parental consent? Absolutely. The impact of transwomen on women’s sports? Absolutely. Etc on prisons, locker rooms etc.

On the right of adults to live their lives as a gender other than their sex? No. Not in this thread and not in the population at large. Prove otherwise.
 
To pick an issue I think is extremely important, that fraction of a percent of transwomen who went through male puberty and are subsequently allowed to compete in women’s sports will re-write the women’s record books, relegate women to also rans and ruin many women’s professional careers. They should not be accommodated for reasons of fairness.

As for other contentious areas like change rooms, prisons and so on, only one transwoman with bad intent can cause harm to many women.

As others have pointed out, they can be accommodated in sporting events, prisons and so on in competitions and facilities designed for their biological sex.


I don't know. Yes and no?

While at one level I agree; but at another level there's this as well, lionking: How is it fair for a super-short five-foot-three almost-dwarf to box or wrestle or MMA it out against a six-foot-seven massively build almost-giant? It doesn't, right? Which is why we have different categories in some sports?

Well then, what this argument actually does is show up the far more nuanced nature of this question. Sure, to divide the sporting world into men and women makes for fairness, or a kind, but only by simplifying the question. I guess a five-foot-three man and five-foot-three woman boxing with each other is probably not all that unfair, and certainly far MORE fair than a five-foot-three man boxing with a six-foot-seven man.

If it is unfair for a woman to compete with a man, then a more nuanced view might be to see what are the factors that apply to some particular sport, and to see what kinds of categories make sense in that sport. Perhaps what might really make for real fairness is to go for handicaps?

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I don't know. Not really arguing for either side, really. I recognize that it is unfair for transwomen to go competing in women's categories, for obvious reasons. But perhaps what this question actually does is open us up to the far more nuanced nature of this question, of what is fair when it comes to sports. I mean, either have a free-for-all, where everyone competes with everyone else; or else have a closely structured set of categories, like in boxing for instance. (On the other hand, until such a system has actually been designed and put in place, I don't know, maybe simply going with two categories, as a simplistic and inadequate but nevertheless an attempt, of a kind, at fairness, that kind of works, as well.)



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eta: Deja vu! Heh, it comes back to me, now. Long long back, certainly before the pandemic, maybe well before that, I don't remember exactly when, I remember having this exact same discussion with another poster, in this very thread (earlier volume, obviously). I even remember the poster now, but I won't name them, I don't mean this as a callout (not that there's anything to call out, it's just that that poster doesn't post here any more). So yeah, I just remembered, that poster had made this exact same argument, back when this thread was young(er), and I'd made this exact same ...not counter-argument exactly, but made this point about the far more nuanced nature of this question, about fairness in sports, than merely a men-women divide might rightly accommodate --- but that, in the meantime, we sort of kind of make do with (so that, to be fair, it seems a bit unfair to jettison it without first bringing in that more nuanced solution to this nuanced question). As far as I remember the question had gone unresolved that time. That poster was given to posting very prolifically, and apparently indefatigably; and I simply gave up and dropped off, after exchanging a few posts with them.

So yeah, deja vu! That's all this edit is for, to record that weird memory, of having had this exact same conversation already, and that I only just remembered.
 
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********. Prove it. Poll after poll shows public acceptance of transgender people. You seem to be imagining massive bigotry. It’s not there. Is there concern about minors having puberty blockers without parental consent? Absolutely. The impact of transwomen on women’s sports? Absolutely. Etc on prisons, locker rooms etc.

On the right of adults to live their lives as a gender other than their sex? No. Not in this thread and not in the population at large. Prove otherwise.

Aren't we talking about members of this forum? That's how I interpreted your original post.
 
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At the end of the day we're talking "What arbitrary categories can we make so the most people can be 'the best' at something."

So I kind of have to ask.. does this really work for anyone? If you can't run as fast as most other people so they make a new group of people who can't run as fast so now you're in the top 1% of THOSE runners... does it really feel the same?

I feel like this is an uncomfortable but not without reason and validity question we've been dancing around for a bit.

At a certain point doesn't this turn into "I'm the fastest left handed Jewish 0+ blood type under 165 lbs under 35 years" kind of levels of arbitrary categorization that at a certain point has to start being kind of transparent?

Most of us aren't "the best" at anything. There's like 9 billion people on the planet I thought we all got that.
 
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On this very page of this thread there is a member aghast that a trans child would be able to dictate their own name, pronouns, and manner of dress.

That is not what Samson is aghast about. He was aghast at the next logical steps this child would have to take - and he articulated them clearly!

"And right on cue a 14 year old girl is being aggressively affirmed to change her sex in a New Zealand state school.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/christ...GY4ZEQ5U2E74I/

This means chest binders, sterilization and breast removal."​
Don't take any notice of the dogma spouted by trans activists - puberty blockers are often irreversible - you get one chance at going through puberty, if you block it, there is likely no going back. It is very unlikely that a person on puberty blockers past the point where their puberty would have finished, will magically go into puberty once the blockers are no longer being administered. A sex change is definitely irreversible.


A 14 year-old is not socially or emotionally mature enough to decide on having a sex change. If they change their minds about this in a couple of years, its too late. We don't even consider them old enough to marry, drive, vote or drink in a pub - why on earth would we even consider they were old enough to to undertake such a potentially negative and irreversible life-changing decision.


 
That is not what Samson is aghast about. He was aghast at the next logical steps this child would have to take - and he articulated them clearly!

"And right on cue a 14 year old girl is being aggressively affirmed to change her sex in a New Zealand state school.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/christ...GY4ZEQ5U2E74I/

This means chest binders, sterilization and breast removal."​
Don't take any notice of the dogma spouted by trans activists - puberty blockers are often irreversible - you get one chance at going through puberty, if you block it, there is likely no going back. It is very unlikely that a person on puberty blockers past the point where their puberty would have finished, will magically go into puberty once the blockers are no longer being administered. A sex change is definitely irreversible.


A 14 year-old is not socially or emotionally mature enough to decide on having a sex change. If they change their minds about this in a couple of years, its too late. We don't even consider them old enough to marry, drive, vote or drink in a pub - why on earth would we even consider they were old enough to to undertake such a potentially negative and irreversible life-changing decision.



I'm not entirely sure where Samson got any of that, considering none of it appears in the article linked about a teacher getting fired for repeatedly and stubbornly misgendering a trans student, which has nothing to do with medical transition. The phrase "Chest binders" or "breast removal" appears 0 times. If I dismissed Samson's points out of hand, it was only because they seem to be entirely an ass-pull with no connection to reality.

14 year olds regularly consent to serious medical procedures. With proper guidance by a doctor, it's ridiculous to pretend it's impossible for an adolescent to take control of their own health.
 
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At the end of the day we're talking "What arbitrary categories can we make so the most people can be 'the best' at something."

So I kind of have to ask.. does this really work for anyone? If you can't run as fast as most other people so they make a new group of people who can't run as fast so now you're in the top 1% of THOSE runners... does it really feel the same?

I feel like this is an uncomfortable but not without reason and validity question we've been dancing around for a bit.

For USA sports in particular this whole thing is both really frickin easy and really difficult at the same time.

For any privately funded sports not covered by Title 9 its always quite simply just whatever "categories" that sport's governing body decides. Womens category, junior's, senior's etc. From something like the LPGA to an amateur co-ed adult softball league. If someone doesn't like how they decide how to categorize and which athletes to be allowed to play, the players can withdraw their participation and the fans can withdraw their support of the sport.
 
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Well yeah "What people want to watch" is the biggest factor even in non-professional sports and this thread has to just aggressively ignore that because nothing we're talking about in it matters. It's the giant black hole of how 99% of all society actually functions that is completely gone from discourse.

Get the money, build a stadium, and have any combination of any category of people you want throw the ball around for points. Literally nobody is going to stop you or indeed even really has a way to stop you.

But that's not what we are talking about. We're talking about leagues and tournaments and sponsorships and TV deals and that... needs people who are entertained by it. People who voluntarily choose to be entertained by it, a social interaction outside of talk of rights and tolerance that we have no framework to talk about.
 
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I'm not entirely sure where Samson got any of that, considering none of it appears in the article linked about a teacher getting fired for repeatedly and stubbornly misgendering a trans student. The phrase "Chest binders" or "breast removal" appears 0 times. If I dismissed Samson's points out of hand, it was only because they seem to be entirely an ass-pull with no connection to reality.

Exact words do not have to appear in the article for it to be so. We are allowed to apply our own commonsense and read between the lines - its called reading for comprehension.

Both Samson, and I (and frankly, anyone with half a brain in their head) know what the next logical steps will be for this girl - puberty blockers, chest straps, breast removal and sex change. If all that happens before she realizes it is a mistake (and at 14 years old, she is in no way old enough to make that decision) there will be no way back. Sometimes young teenagers have to be protected from themselves - that's why we don't allow them to drive or drink or marry.

A 30 year long Swedish study found that transgender adults who had undergone surgical transition were 19 times more likely to die by suicide than the general population of the same age. The risk for females who had undergone surgical interventions was 40 times higher.

https://segm.org/ajp_correction_2020

Full study here: https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/appi.ajp.2019.19010080

There is enough evidence to show that the majority of teenagers who transition later regret it.

Of course there will be any number of enablers around who will encourage her to go through with it - and they will disappear faster than the babysitter’s boyfriend as the parents arrive home up if it all turns to **** and tears.


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Okay so let's workshop this.

What level of transitioning could a person reasonably do after the age of 18?
 
Exact words do not have to appear in the article for it to be so. We are allowed to apply our own commonsense and read between the lines - its called reading for comprehension.

Are any of these topics oven obliquely referenced in the article about the NZ teacher getting fired? No. Ass-pulls it is then.

A 30 year long Swedish study found that transgender adults who had undergone surgical transition were 19 times more likely to die by suicide than the general population of the same age. The risk for females who had undergone surgical interventions was 40 times higher.

https://segm.org/ajp_correction_2020

Full study here: https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/appi.ajp.2019.19010080

There is enough evidence to show that the majority of teenagers who transition later regret it.

Of course there will be any number of enablers around who will encourage her to go through with it - and they will disappear faster than the babysitter’s boyfriend as the parents arrive home up if it all turns to **** and tears.


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Nothing in the articles you cited suggests that gender affirmation treatment increased mental health issues or indicated "regret".

Are you actually reading any of these things, or just wishcasting your own conclusions from them?
 
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