I had a separate issue with this column, and one that is neither completely the fault of Randi nor Mary, the reader reporting this incident, but illustrates a couple of important misperceptions about psychiatric care and trying to make armchair diagnoses without having the full picture.
It was this...
We may understand your frustration, Mary, but I do not think you handled the situation correctly.
The woman that was feigning to be deaf was suffering from conversion disorder. This is a complex psychiatric condition that cannot be dismissed as mere faking or being "obsessed with the grooviness" of being deaf. Mary's post adeptly illustrates what we call in the medical world "counter-transference", and she labels and attempts to 'diagnose' this patient with attributes that she believes to be there based on her own frustrations, misperceptions, and biases. But, I'm not pointing fingers. It's a reasonable human thing and happens often, especially when you don't have training to recognize it in yourself - it's easy to fall into its trap. Counter-transference happens when you have an emotional reaction to a patient (or someone you're providing services for), and when that person starts making you feel that way you have to stop and step outside of the emotion. Otherwise, you counter-transfer your predispositions, emotions, and biases into the situation and get sucked into something that really does not concern, nor is a reflection of, you as an individual.
Instead of taking this situation personally (which is, again, reasonable when one feels "bitter" and embarrassed) and wanting to "slap her boss", Mary should have gone back to him and said, "You know that the patient can hear and actually orally corrected me when I signed incorrectly. She was listening to the entire conversation."
She and the boss should've then called the doctor and informed him. She may have been surprised that this doctor was not aware, to that point in her treatment, that this client was feigning deafness. I'm sure he would have listened very carefully to her, and taken her information seriously and thankfully as any new information from a situation always further elucidates the patient's case. There's no reason to think, based on the information given, that the doctor simply sent a signer to facilitate this woman with an ulterior motive. Mary assumes that she was "set-up", again illustrating that she took this situation personally - which she shouldn't have.
Then, what happened next was that Mary jumped to conclusions about the situation, assumed the doctor was an idiot, and then went on to extrapolate this into an indictment of the "all-powerful doctor's note."
All too often, people think doctors always have all of the information and/or are not amenable to changing their opinions when given new information. The best of physicians cannot often make a full, accurate diagnosis in one sitting, and this is especially true in psychiatric conditions.
I'm not faulting Mary for feeling frustrated and perhaps embarrassed. I think it was wrong to include her in this person's care without knowing the full details of her client's psychiatric condition and care. However, she should not assume that this person is even self-aware enough of the depth of her own problem - and, she did. Again, it would've been more productive to get involved and provide such information to the treating physician - start a dialogue with him - instead of assume that he lazily, maliciously, carelessly (etc.) utilized her services. It may have been a simple oversite. It's still not too late...
I think the only thing this article has proven, and nothing more at this point, is the pitfalls of a communication breakdown. I'm sure that all of this could be solved with a phone call. Until we have more information, I think it's unfair to fault anyone in this case, not the least of whom is the doctor. And, knowing what I know about doctors, I'm willing to give him that latitude.
-TT
It was this...
[MARY]My take on the situation: she was obsessed with the groovyness of sign language and wanted to be deaf. At the college, I've actually seen several people pose as deaf before, so I'm not too surprised. I was, however, surprised at how my department spent hundreds of dollars providing services for a hearing person just because they came in with the magical, all-powerful doctor's note.
Yeah...I'm still bitter.
[RANDI]We understand your frustration, Mary....
We may understand your frustration, Mary, but I do not think you handled the situation correctly.
The woman that was feigning to be deaf was suffering from conversion disorder. This is a complex psychiatric condition that cannot be dismissed as mere faking or being "obsessed with the grooviness" of being deaf. Mary's post adeptly illustrates what we call in the medical world "counter-transference", and she labels and attempts to 'diagnose' this patient with attributes that she believes to be there based on her own frustrations, misperceptions, and biases. But, I'm not pointing fingers. It's a reasonable human thing and happens often, especially when you don't have training to recognize it in yourself - it's easy to fall into its trap. Counter-transference happens when you have an emotional reaction to a patient (or someone you're providing services for), and when that person starts making you feel that way you have to stop and step outside of the emotion. Otherwise, you counter-transfer your predispositions, emotions, and biases into the situation and get sucked into something that really does not concern, nor is a reflection of, you as an individual.
Instead of taking this situation personally (which is, again, reasonable when one feels "bitter" and embarrassed) and wanting to "slap her boss", Mary should have gone back to him and said, "You know that the patient can hear and actually orally corrected me when I signed incorrectly. She was listening to the entire conversation."
She and the boss should've then called the doctor and informed him. She may have been surprised that this doctor was not aware, to that point in her treatment, that this client was feigning deafness. I'm sure he would have listened very carefully to her, and taken her information seriously and thankfully as any new information from a situation always further elucidates the patient's case. There's no reason to think, based on the information given, that the doctor simply sent a signer to facilitate this woman with an ulterior motive. Mary assumes that she was "set-up", again illustrating that she took this situation personally - which she shouldn't have.
Then, what happened next was that Mary jumped to conclusions about the situation, assumed the doctor was an idiot, and then went on to extrapolate this into an indictment of the "all-powerful doctor's note."
All too often, people think doctors always have all of the information and/or are not amenable to changing their opinions when given new information. The best of physicians cannot often make a full, accurate diagnosis in one sitting, and this is especially true in psychiatric conditions.
I'm not faulting Mary for feeling frustrated and perhaps embarrassed. I think it was wrong to include her in this person's care without knowing the full details of her client's psychiatric condition and care. However, she should not assume that this person is even self-aware enough of the depth of her own problem - and, she did. Again, it would've been more productive to get involved and provide such information to the treating physician - start a dialogue with him - instead of assume that he lazily, maliciously, carelessly (etc.) utilized her services. It may have been a simple oversite. It's still not too late...
I think the only thing this article has proven, and nothing more at this point, is the pitfalls of a communication breakdown. I'm sure that all of this could be solved with a phone call. Until we have more information, I think it's unfair to fault anyone in this case, not the least of whom is the doctor. And, knowing what I know about doctors, I'm willing to give him that latitude.
-TT