Let me illustrate what I mean about the problem that arises when discussing "probability" in connection with the identity of a playing card laying face down on a table, or any other existing state of nature for that matter.
The probability that a standard die will land with six spots up when rolled randomly is 1/6. That is a property of dice and is not subjective. If I ask three guys what that probability is, they should agree that it's 1/6, and if so, they'll all be correct. If one of them says otherwise he'll be wrong.
Probability is an absolute objective state of nature that can often, although not always, be approximated by experiment or determined by analysis. Probability itself is not subject to opinion or differing points of view, although degree of confidence in an assessment of probability is.
Probability is not frequency, it is only the expected value of a frequency. If a die is rolled several times, it's unlikely that the frequency that a six appears will be exactly 1 out of 6. It's more likely be either higher or lower.
Confidence is different. Confidence is a property of a person and is affected by the knowledge that person has and his ability to properly analyze that knowledge, so different people can have different levels of confidence about an existing state of nature, based on what they know and how they analyze it.
Imagine that you're sitting around a card table with Andy, Bill, and Charlie, who, incidentally, aren't aware of any difference between confidence and probability. You remove the four aces from a deck of cards and set the rest of the deck aside. You stipulate that the aces of Hearts and Diamonds are "red cards" and the aces of Spades and Clubs are "black cards". You ask what the probability is that a randomly drawn card from that set will be red. Everyone agrees that the probability is 1/2.
You then shuffle the cards thoroughly so that it's impossible for anyone present to know which card is which, and you place one card face down in the center of the table. You then deal one card each to Andy, Bill, and Charlie, but warn them not to look at their cards yet. You ask them what the probability is that the card in the center of the table is red. They all impatiently repeat that the probability is 1/2. They feel that they've already answered that question.
You then instruct Andy and Charlie, but not Bill, to each secretly peek at the card he's been dealt. You give each guy a pencil and a piece of paper, and instructions to privately write down his name and the probability that the card in the center of the table is red, then fold up his paper and give it to you.
You then compare the papers. As it turns out, all three are different. Andy says 1/3, Bill says 1/2, and Charlie says 2/3. You then announce that not all answers are the same, and you ask how this could be. An argument breaks out because each person feels absolutely justified in his assessment of a property of a certain playing card, yet they can't all be correct. They begin to grasp at awkward phrases like "probability for you" and probability for me", but since they're talking about a property of a certain playing card, this sounds as weak and irrational as if they were speaking of "your truth" and "my truth".
The bottom line is that there is no probability that the card in the center of the table is red. It's either red or it isn't. At that point in the exercise, it would only have made sense to ask each person to write down his own level of confidence that the card is red, and in that case, what each person wrote would have been correct and there would have been no conflict.
Confidence is a measure of personal certainty about a state of nature.
Probability is a state of nature.