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Penn and Teller show and teens

kittynh

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I've been watching the Penn and Teller show on DVD (you know BS) with my 14 year old. What I really like is that she will watch it and then talk about it as she watches. She totally disagreed with the second hand smoke show. That's because she has asthma. She said that second hand smoke can cause her to go into an attack. So if people could smoke everywhere, she could die. She also said that just because there were no studies that showed it caused harm, there was no saying there would not be a study showing this in the future. She asked how many studies HAD been done. To me, this is good news. I think if she watched the shows and didn't question or disagree, I would be worried. She's thinking for herself and that is a good thing.

Also, after while, you don't ever hear the language!

I think the thing I like about raising skeptics is that they are trained critical thinkers. They don't need me to tell them what to think or decide. I used to worry when my daughter would go visit her grandmother and her cousin (raised in a fundie family) was there. I've since learned that it's the cousin that is in trouble. They rented "Interview With a Vampire".....and the cousin really liked it! She even taught her cousin that she was an agnostic! The cousin didn't even know what the word meant!

So, if you raise a critical thinker they aren't always going to agree with you (or Penn and Teller), but they aren't going to agree with the first woo woo belief they run into in life.
 
I let my 14 year old son watch P&T and he thinks it's great. I'm always proud of him when he thinks critically about an idea or a situation. I wish I had instruction like that when I was a teenager. It took years for me to even start thinking critically. I used to be quite the woo-believer. :eek:
 
We've gone almost entierly smoke free in public places and it is WONDERFUL! I'm almost not caring about the science, it bothers the majority of people even if there is a smoking section and bothers people with asthma more. Its effect is more people quitting smoking and lessening the strain on our socialized healthcare system, which does everyone a favour.
 
This reminds me of chewing tobacco. Where I went to school (people do not believe Maryland is the South, but it IS), kids were (are?) really into chewing tobacco. Kids would bring a paper cup to class to spit. Since it was a lot of jocks, and we all know they can do no wrong, it was tolerated. It was so annoying. And gross.

Of course, something this annoying and gross has to catch on and so everyone began doing it. You couldn't go even to a restaurant and not have people spitting in cups. McDonalds at first, and then it worked it's way up the food chain. Nothing like being a starving art student happily about to tuck into an expensive meal (hey, for starving artists, dates are all about where are you going to dinner), and you hear that horrible spitting noise. I mean, they would chew that stuff right up until the salad was served.

Signs went up "No chewing tobacco" and you would have thought they had banned beer! It was still a mess when I finally left...
 
kittynh said:
She also said that just because there were no studies that showed it caused harm

There is. Look in the secondhand smoke thread.
 
I watch BS and I am a teenager(18).

You know..The only 2 things I disagreed on them about is the Second hand smoking thing,Because when someone smokes around me I get headaches and itchy eyes every single time they smoke around me...So Obviously it causes harm.


Also the HGH thing....They came to the conclusion that HGH did not help with aging because ONE scientists said that it in aging lack of hgh MIGHT be natural in aging and that giving yourself HGH could actually make it worse...That was just nonsense.
 
kittynh said:
I've been watching the Penn and Teller show on DVD (you know BS) with my 14 year old. What I really like is that she will watch it and then talk about it as she watches. She totally disagreed with the second hand smoke show. That's because she has asthma. She said that second hand smoke can cause her to go into an attack. So if people could smoke everywhere, she could die.

I have asthma too for the record.

I won't go into the typical dangers of secondhand smoke (cancer etc.) but the idea of banning smoking for my sake is analogous to banner flashing lights for the sake of epileptics.

How far do we go with this line of reasoning? Banning chainsaws for the sake of clumsy, stupid people?
 
Careful with that "reasoning" word. It has an actual meaning.

Banning smoking in public places is reasonable. Smoking is a personal choice with immediate and obvious public consequences (it stinks, irritates mucous membranes, and soils apparel). While neither flashing lights nor epilepsy are personal choices, dealing with either is a personal responsibility -- avoid the lights if they bother you.

Banning chainsaws is reasonable only if the chainsaws are an unavoidable part of the environment that clumsy, stupid people are required to enter to lead a realtively normal modern life.
 
L7Cz said:
Careful with that "reasoning" word. It has an actual meaning.

Banning smoking in public places is reasonable. Smoking is a personal choice with immediate and obvious public consequences (it stinks, irritates mucous membranes, and soils apparel).

Another thing to consider is the risk/benefit tradeoff, and specifically the idea of risk to the unconsenting "public." You (and I, and everyone) have a duty under law to prevent foreseeable injury to people (basic tort theory). It's easy to foresee that smoking will cause "injury" to someone sensitive to smoke --- and it's your responsibility and duty to prevent that, if necessary, by not smoking in their presence.

If you're not willing to shoulder your civil duty voluntarily, the government and law are willing to step in with criminal penalties.
 
Whilst I am sympathetic to the civil rights arguments about cigarette smoking in bars and restaurants, I think people should see it from the perspective of two non-smoking parents with a child who want to go to a restaurant where everybody smokes everywhere. I mean its just revolting and disgusting. Your clothes, hair and skin get full of smoke. You wonder about the baby's lungs. You wonder about your own lungs.

In the Netherlands they're just about to start a ban on smoking in public places. This is a country where practically everyone smokes in restaurants and bars (and frequently between courses), so what are the chances of a ban working? Especially since the owners are working hard on claiming that their restaurants are not public places (and where the walls are generally painted brown so as to hide the discoloration caused by smoking).

(Interesting aside: I was in a restaurant in Rotterdam with my wife and baby and the place was nearly empty. Close by were four Americans from a nearby secret military installation. One of them got up and went to the other side of the restaurant for a cigarette while we were talking. Reason: because he wanted to keep the smoke away from our baby. Nice man)

Forutunately I have now left the Netherlands.

There is no good evidence that second hand smoke causes cancer. We do have good evidence that SH smoke can trigger asthma. Smokers can do it outside or in smoking rooms.
 
The problem with Penn & Teller is that they sometimes cannot see the libertarian dogma that they believe for what it is.

Rather than looking at the full scientific evidence for and against SHS health problems, they toe the libertarian line.


They should be more skeptical of their OWN beliefs.
 
Where are your critical thinking skills, everyone?

My, my. For supposed critical thinkers, we're not thinking very critically in this thread.

"She totally disagreed with the second hand smoke show. That's because she has asthma. She said that second hand smoke can cause her to go into an attack. So if people could smoke everywhere, she could die. She also said that just because there were no studies that showed it caused harm, there was no saying there would not be a study showing this in the future. She asked how many studies HAD been done. To me, this is good news. I think if she watched the shows and didn't question or disagree, I would be worried. She's thinking for herself and that is a good thing."

While it is a good thing that your daughter is thinking for herself, and I applaud you for encouraging that, it is dangerous to allow her to assume that anything that affects her in a negative way should be banned for all others. This is typical of the "the world revolves around me" syndrome that so many adolescents (and adolescent adults, as well as people with illnesses) are known for.

Your daughter will be better served by understanding that the world can be a very cruel place, and that it's best to be prepared to deal with asthma attacks regardless of where she is (as I'm sure you have taught her) than to believe that anything that can trigger an asthma attack should be outlawed.

We can't just make laws based on the possibility that there might be something "showing this in the future". If that were the case, we could make the case for outlawing all kinds of things, like serving steak in public, since someone could argue that steak fumes could be proven at some time in the future to cause long-term lung problems. (No doubt, vegetarians will try that at some point.) Anything "could" happen in the future. We have to go by what we know and can prove NOW.

I have asthma as well as many other autoimmune problems, and cigarette smoke affects me terribly. However, I am aware that I have the choice not to patronize establishments that allow smoking. If I choose to patronize an establishment that allows smoking, I pay the price, but it's my choice.

As a person suffering from multiple autoimmune illnesses (MCTD=Multiple Connective Tissue Disease) including Lupus, MS, RA, Sjogren's, et al. I have had to learn that there are many things that can make me very ill, and living in this world requires that I deal with those things rather than expect that they will all go away at my command (or the governments). I have no right to expect the world to change to suit my needs.

The mature individual does not expect a world of healthy people to change their behavior simply to placate their own desire to have less triggers present for their illness which would NOT trigger as severe a reaction if they were healthy.

It's not your daughter's fault she has ashtma, but it's not the world's fault either.

If the government wants to ban smoking on GOVERNMENT property, or PUBLICLY OWNED property, fine. But NOT in privately owned businesses.

It saddens me how many people imagine that it is okay for the government to make rules to establish what is and is not permissible in a privately-owned business simply because they "agree" with the decision or find that it suits their preferences, but are the first to bellow out their protest when the government makes a rule that they do not happen to agree with.

It's been proven that having regular pap smears and mammograms saves lives, but that doesn't mean the government has the right to dictate that every woman must have one in a free society.

This tugging on the government's skirt as if they are our mommies and daddies every time others won't bow down to our preferences is not only self-centered, it's quite dangerous and affirms the belief of so many in the government that it is their job to parent us, rather than to govern us.

Banning tobacco is fine, AS LONG AS IT IS THE RESTAURANT THAT DOES IT! There is a HUGE, GARGANTUAN (I so love that word, gargantuan, and so rarely have the opportunity to use it in a sentence... KB2) difference between the business owner or management making the decision and the GOVERNMENT effectively DICTATING the decision for ALL business owners. Let's not forget to exercise "critical thinking" in that area.

Selective "critical thinking" is equivalent to selective quoting of verses from "The Holy Bible".

In the ********! episode, they weren't referring to "causing harm" as meaning "nuisance" where you get watery eyes, maybe have to take a puff from your inhaler, get smelly clothes, et al. They were referring to ACTUAL PERMANENT HARM, as in CANCER, which has most certainly NOT been proven by any study. We need to remember what the intended definition of "harm" is in this case, lest we become confused and practice disorganized thinking.

The fact of the matter is, gasoline emissions cause me MUCH more respiratory distress when I'm sitting in traffic than second-hand smoke ever has. But that doesn't mean I get to play "little dictator" and cheer and applaud if the government should decide to ban gasoline simply because it annoys me because I have a respiratory illness.

There are many things in our environment that cause us a nuisance, including headaches, irritation, itching, smelly clothing, watery eyes, et al. That doesn't mean they should be banned by the government. Let the individual business decide that.

"Banning chainsaws is reasonable only if the chainsaws are an unavoidable part of the environment that clumsy, stupid people are required to enter to lead a realtively normal modern life."

You have to encounter gasoline emissions in order to lead a relatively healthy, normal modern life as well. I don't see them outlawing that!

"Another thing to consider is the risk/benefit tradeoff, and specifically the idea of risk to the unconsenting "public." You (and I, and everyone) have a duty under law to prevent foreseeable injury to people (basic tort theory). It's easy to foresee that smoking will cause "injury" to someone sensitive to smoke --- and it's your responsibility and duty to prevent that, if necessary, by not smoking in their presence."

I never consented to having to breathe gasoline emissions, nor to having to smell someone's farts, nor to having to smell someone's excrement in a public restroom, which makes me gag. Should they ban defacating in public restrooms as well? There's a HUGE difference between "injury" and "irritation". You're misinterpreting tort law and the word "injury" here. (My brother is an attorney, and I worked as a paralegal for several years in the area of tort law.)

"Whilst I am sympathetic to the civil rights arguments about cigarette smoking in bars and restaurants, I think people should see it from the perspective of two non-smoking parents with a child who want to go to a restaurant where everybody smokes everywhere. I mean its just revolting and disgusting. Your clothes, hair and skin get full of smoke. You wonder about the baby's lungs. You wonder about your own lungs."

When you have a child, you make some sacrifices. If you're so concerned about your child's lungs, you may have to forego some of the restaurant meals you'd like to have. Having a child doesn't mean everyone else should have to change a behavior like smoking just to accomodate your preferences and belief that encountering occasional second-hand smoke will cause long-term harm to your child. Really, you might want to stop taking your baby with you in the car where it will encounter toxic fumes from gasoline emissions, since they are actually PROVEN to cause long-term damage, whereas SECOND-HAND cigarette smoke on an OCCASIONAL basis (different than constant exposure in a residence) has NEVER been proven to cause long-term harm.

It's WONDERFUL when smokers are polite, and I find that most of them are. Unfortunately, having the government mandate good behavior simply because we imagine it to benefit us in a truly meaningful way when it comes to our long-term health when really it only prevents us from having to deal with minor nuisances on an occasional basis, does NOTHING to promote good behavior. It fosters resentment in those who recognize that the government often oversteps their authority, and it encourages others to attempt to control the behaviors of all others around them simply because it's their preference to do so.

Second-hand smoke can trigger asthma, but so can anything else. I often have bouts with it for no apparent reason, and yes, I consider it a nuisance more than a crisis, because it is MY responsibility as someone with this problem to either a) avoid places where I am likely to encounter triggers or b) be prepared to deal with triggers if I choose to be present in those places.

I'm not sure what is meant by "libertarian dogma", and I agree that at times Penn & Teller (mainly Penn) can go a bit to the extreme and forget to use common sense, but accusing someone of intelligently recognizing that the government has over-stepped its authority of adhering to dogma isn't accurate or appropriate. It's rhetoric.

Emotional maturity and mental self-discipline requires that we exercise critical thinking even about things that we feel should change in order to make OUR lives easier and use actual logic, rather than biased logic, in how we discuss them.

When you allow government to overstep its boundaries simply because you like what it's doing in that instance, you're subscribing to government as your god, your religion, and you're giving your power away.

You deserve what you tolerate. If you tolerate the government overstepping its bounds when you like the end result, you have NO right to complain when they overstep their bounds and it hurts you.

I don't want to hear any complaining from anyone here who is a victim of the government conducting an illegal search or any other offense, because you've already made it clear that you're for it, so long as its "for your own good".

Max
 
Diamond said:
Whilst I am sympathetic to the civil rights arguments about cigarette smoking in bars and restaurants, I think people should see it from the perspective of two non-smoking parents with a child who want to go to a restaurant where everybody smokes everywhere. I mean its just revolting and disgusting. Your clothes, hair and skin get full of smoke. You wonder about the baby's lungs. You wonder about your own lungs.

Why would any non-smoking parents bring their child to a restaurant where everyone smokes? It's like taking their kids to Hooters and then complaining about all the scantily clad women.

Just because someone opens a restaurant doesn't mean that everyone has the right to _enjoy_ their meal there. Some restaurants have crappy food. Some have crappy service. Some are loud. Some have a lot of smoke. Some are too expensive.

Don't go to the ones where you are unwilling to put up with what they offer.

Suppose I wrote something like, "Whilst I am sympathetic to the open market arguments about food in restaurants, I think people should see it from the perspective of a poor couple who want to eat in an expensive French restaurant. I mean, first they probably don't even have good enough clothes to pass the dress code. Then when they get in, the appetizers alone are $12, the main course is $50, and desert is another $8. Throw in a $40 bottle of wine and a tip, and their meal costs $200! They can't afford that."

Should we then pass a law to require all restaurants to be affordable to poor people?
 
Public smoking bans are a way for bored, inneffective legislators to encat a law that will make them feel like they're doing something and earn almost universal congratulations.

I've proposed this a number of times: Instead of an outright ban, how about one out of every...oh...three liquor licenses is desgnated a liquor/tobacco license.

That way, customers have choices and what's more, bartenders and waitresses have choices, since it is concern for their well being that is allaegedly behind much of this lawmaking. They can work at smoking or non-smoking establishment and, under my plan, the non-smoking places have a 2-1 advantage.

I wonder which licenses would be more sought after?
 
3 ways to end a discussion on JREF:


Bring in a gun control subject.

Bring in an Israel/Palestinian subject.

Bring in a smoking ban subject.
 
Silicon said:
3 ways to end a discussion on JREF:


Bring in a gun control subject.

Bring in an Israel/Palestinian subject.

Bring in a smoking ban subject.

They should ban guns and smoking in Israel/Palestine!

/had to be said.

OK, somewhat more related anecdote to add to the discussion. Went to Reuben's last week for lunch, there was a line of people waiting, and of course the non-smoking section was already full. (I don't know if it's the same elsewhere, but I noticed that, even with the ever increasing size of the non-smoking section, it's always the first one to be full). So the manager was asking the arriving non-smokers if they would mind sitting in the smoking section or not. Then he realized something: there were no smokers in the smoking section, only non-smokers who had decided to bear with the possibility of being next to a smoker, and a few empty tables. Seeing the line of people waiting, he decided to remove all ashtrays from the smoking section, made it into a temporary non-smoking section for lunch. No one complained, and the waiting time for everyone was reduced...
 
"OK, somewhat more related anecdote to add to the discussion. Went to Reuben's last week for lunch, there was a line of people waiting, and of course the non-smoking section was already full. (I don't know if it's the same elsewhere, but I noticed that, even with the ever increasing size of the non-smoking section, it's always the first one to be full). So the manager was asking the arriving non-smokers if they would mind sitting in the smoking section or not. Then he realized something: there were no smokers in the smoking section, only non-smokers who had decided to bear with the possibility of being next to a smoker, and a few empty tables. Seeing the line of people waiting, he decided to remove all ashtrays from the smoking section, made it into a temporary non-smoking section for lunch. No one complained, and the waiting time for everyone was reduced..."

Yep. I have no problem with that, because it was the BUSINESS OWNER that did it and NOT the government. Does anyone here possess the intelligence to recognize the difference?

"3 ways to end a discussion on JREF:
Bring in a gun control subject.
Bring in an Israel/Palestinian subject.
Bring in a smoking ban subject."

Umm... nope. It seems to me that's what STARTED the discussion. And it doesn't look to be ending anytime soon...

I'm new around here, but must say that so far I'm disappointed. I thought there would be more critical thought and less bandying about of opinions with no discernment.

Max
 
The original post was about raising a child to be a critical thinker and to question the information that they get from a tv-show, no matter how "skeptical" the hosts claim to be.

It devolved to a thread where we endlessly rehash old arguments about the dangers of second-hand smoke.

If you are interested in going around that old merry-go-round a few thousand more times, by all means start a smoking ban thread.
 

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