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Man Held Captive by Stepmom for Twenty-plus Years

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Every so often you see one of these stories, a deranged, sadistic parent or stepparent, holding a child captive inside a house for years. Once the child grows to be an adult the abuse continues. In this case, Waterbury Conn. police say, Kimberly Sullivan and her husband -- the boy's biological father who passed away two years ago -- held their 32 year-old son/stepson captive inside their home for over twenty years. The boy was removed from fourth grade after teachers apparently noticed he seemed neglected -- he was caught several times stealing other kid's lunches and eating out of cafeteria garbage cans -- and notified Connecticut's Department of Children and Families. To avoid scrutiny, his father and stepmother kept him home.
From a local Connecticut news source:
He was extremely emaciated, his hair matted and unkempt and he was dirty and his teeth appeared to be rotted, according to a warrant for Sullivan's arrest....In an interview with police described in the warrant, the victim recalled having to drink water from the toilet at times because he was only getting two cups of water a day as a child. The victim spent much of his life in a small back storage space, about 8 feet by 9 feet wide, with no heat in the winter or air conditioning in the summer, according to the warrant. Norwalk Conn The Hour article link

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Kimberly Sullivan being arraigned.

About a week ago the stepson -- not identified -- used a lighter, hand sanitizer and paper to set fire to his area of the house, hoping to be rescued by firefighters. When they arrived, he was suffering smoke inhalation, he told them he wanted "freedom." He was taken to a hospital -- he weighs 68 lbs. -- and his stepmom was arrested. She's since been charged with second degree kidnapping and intentional cruelty. She professes to not know what any of this is about. Her attorney calls the allegations against her "outlandish."

A bizarre story to put it mildly.
 
Waterbury Conn. is an urban area, the second largest city in New Haven County, with a population over 100,000. Below is a link to Waterbury firefighters and police getting the Stepmom out of the way and then taking the man to a waiting ambulance.

Waterbury Firefighters at the scene

Waterbury Police officials have described the circumstances as "heart-wrenching." Waterbury Fire Department Captain Jon Paul Oldham -- with the first fire company to arrive -- described the incident:
"I saw, the mother and, at the time, what I thought was a child, in the kitchen. He was in the fetal position in the kitchen,” Oldham said. He was in the first engine responding to 2 Blake St. during that February evening, arriving in only two and a half minutes. Oldham said he had to tell Kimberly Sullivan to leave the home multiple times, and checked to make sure her stepson was still breathing...."The door opened to the second room, which was inside of that room. That's where the main bulk of the fire was. We put the fire out there, so it was actually a room that was inside of a room where this victim lived,” Oldham said. NBC News Connecticut article link
 
The stepmom who kept her stepson locked in a room for over twenty years -- including for months after her husband (the boy's biological father) passed away -- was able to make bail. People Magazine reports:
Kimberly Sullivan, 56, posted the $300,000 bail set by a judge during an appearance at Waterbury Superior Court on Thursday morning, according to Connecticut court records and her lawyer Ioannis Kaloidis. Prosecutors argued that Sullivan should be placed on house arrest or be made to wear an electronic monitoring device should she post bail, but the judge declined to make either of those conditions part of her release. Sullivan will have regular check-ins while out on bail as is standard and is due back in court of March 26, Kaloidis tells PEOPLE. People Magazine article link

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Kimberly Sullivan in custody
 
The stepmom who kept her stepson locked in a room for over twenty years -- including for months after her husband (the boy's biological father) passed away -- was able to make bail. People Magazine reports:


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Kimberly Sullivan in custody
The bail amount seems appropriate to me. Her making bail doesn't bother me at all. Some form of arrest or electronic tethering seems completely unwarranted at this stage of the proceedings.

I know we all want to skip ahead to the part where she gets her just deserts, but due process is there for a very important reason, and we should welcome it here.

Honestly, my biggest concern is that she's making it difficult for German U-boats to determine her range, speed, and direction.
 
The bail amount seems appropriate to me. Her making bail doesn't bother me at all. Some form of arrest or electronic tethering seems completely unwarranted at this stage of the proceedings.

Why is it unwarranted? She kept a man locked away for 20 years of his life. People get detained or put on monitors for rape, or severe battery, especially if a weapon is involved. This woman used food as a weapon to deteriorate her stepson to the point that the only way he could get out is by starting a fire. He was ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ 68 lbs, bro. I get it, you have to be a contrarian, even if it means making ridiculous statements about cases like this. You just have to do it for some reason. But this is inane, even for you.
I know we all want to skip ahead to the part where she gets her just deserts, but due process is there for a very important reason, and we should welcome it here.

How would having her wear an ankle monitor or be on house arrest having any impact on due process? I mean that. I would seriously like to see your reasoning, if there is any beyond contrarianism for attention. I'm not looking for her to get her just deserts (sp), I'm looking for the man to get justice. Having her out and about with absolutely no oversight is more than likely fairly traumatizing and concerning for this man. At 68 ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ pounds he can't fight her off if she ends up finding him.
 
Why is it unwarranted? She kept a man locked away for 20 years of his life. People get detained or put on monitors for rape, or severe battery, especially if a weapon is involved.
Pretrial detention is used when the defendant is reasonably suspected to be a threat to themselves or to the community, if they are allowed to go free pending trial. It is not supposed to be a punishment for egregious or even obscene acts.

I see no reason to suspect that this woman is likely to find someone else to lock away for years, while she waits for her trial date. Nor that she is going to go on a habitual crime spree, or anything else that would warrant further restricting her freedom pending trial.
This woman used food as a weapon to deteriorate her stepson to the point that the only way he could get out is by starting a fire. He was ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ 68 lbs, bro. I get it, you have to be a contrarian, even if it means making ridiculous statements about cases like this. You just have to do it for some reason. But this is inane, even for you.
It's perfectly sane. What's insane is wanting to impose punishment on her before the trial even begins. That's not how our system is supposed to work. That's not how I want it to work. I'm surprised that you do want it to work this way.
How would having her wear an ankle monitor or be on house arrest having any impact on due process? I mean that. I would seriously like to see your reasoning, if there is any beyond contrarianism for attention.
It doesn't have any impact on due process. Rather, due process has an impact on what sanctions the state can justifiably impose on her, before she has had her day in court, and been found guilty according to the rule of law.

It's up to you to explain why the state should restrict her freedom before she's been found guilty. Do you think she's a flight risk? That's what the bond is for.
I'm not looking for her to get her just deserts (sp)*, I'm looking for the man to get justice.
Potato, potato.
Having her out and about with absolutely no oversight is more than likely fairly traumatizing and concerning for this man. At 68 ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ pounds he can't fight her off if she ends up finding him.
I don't think that's sufficient reason for the state to restrict her freedom before finding her guilty.

I'm sure a no contact order is part of her bond conditions. I'm sure he's in a safe place, that would turn her away and report her to the court, if she tried to get in. There's the oversight you're looking for. House arrest is not necessary here. Tethering is not necessary here. The state removing her freedom before she's been found guilty is not justice for this man. It's not justice for anyone.


*https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/just-deserts-or-just-desserts
 
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Pretrial detention is used when the defendant is reasonably suspected to be a threat to themselves or to the community, if they are allowed to go free pending trial. It is not supposed to be a punishment for egregious or even obscene acts.

Yes, and it is entirely reasonable to think that a woman who had detained a grown man for twenty years while starving him practically to death, would do that to someone else. What's your reasoning to think she wouldn't? Because she hasn't? She hasn't needed to, she had someone locked away already.
I see no reason to suspect that this woman is likely to find someone else to lock away for years, while she waits for her trial date.

Because she can't lock another person away "for years", she doesn't have that kind of time. That being said, locking someone away for "years" is not the only way to be a threat to the community, as you stated. The victim was "part of the community" and deserves protection. Ankle monitors aren't intrusive. It isn't some ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ massive inconvenience or even invasive to one's day to day life. Wear pants and most people won't even know but she'll be tracked everywhere she goes.
Nor that she is going to go on a habitual crime spree, or anything else that would warrant further restricting her freedom pending trial.

Why is "habitual crime spree" the ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ qualifier? What if she finds this man and kills him for getting her caught?
It's perfectly sane.

I said inane, not insane but whatever.
What's insane is wanting to impose punishment on her before the trial even begins.

Monitoring isn't a punishment and people are detained, held without bail, etc. all of the time. Especially when they commit heinous crimes against another person. Like rape, murder, physical assault, assault with a deadly weapon, etc. Those situations result in people being held all of the time. Are you equally against those "punishments" being imposed before the trial begins? It wouldn't shock me if you were, but only because you say ridiculous ◊◊◊◊ just to continue an argument.
That's not how our system is supposed to work.

That's exactly how our system is supposed to work. Protecting the victim and the individual who is suspected of committing a crime loses rights and freedoms. I've personally experienced and understand it.
That's not how I want it to work. I'm surprised that you do want it to work this way.

I can't imagine why you're surprised, but I also genuinely don't care.
It doesn't have any impact on due process.

I know, that's why I said it in direct contrast to you bitching about due process. I planned it that way.
Rather, due process has an impact on what sanctions the state can justifiably impose on her, before she has had her day in court, and been found guilty according to the rule of law.

Yet it happens, justifiably, all of the time.
It's up to you to explain why the state should restrict her freedom before she's been found guilty. Do you think she's a flight risk? That's what the bond is for.

I think her callous approach to human life, her decades of torturing another human, her obvious desire to continue to do so and her apparent lack of remorse cause her to be a danger to society. I, also, think she should have had to turn over her passport, if she had one.
I don't think that's sufficient reason for the state to restrict her freedom before finding her guilty.

Cool, I disagree.
I'm sure a no contact order is part of her bond conditions.

Yeah, and we know she's a stickler for the law. Undoubtedly. That's why she kept a grown man locked away and starved him for 20 years.
I'm sure he's in a safe place, that would turn her away and report her to the court, if she tried to get in.

You seem to be sure of a lot of things. Yet there are thousands of cases of victims being assaulted by the person they accused, with countless killed over the years.
There's the oversight you're looking for. House arrest is not necessary here. Tethering is not necessary here. The state removing her freedom before she's been found guilty is not justice for this man. It's not justice for anyone.

I know you know better than this and I'm just not going to ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ bother. If you're too dense to be able to see why keeping her locked away or monitored is for the benefit of the community, then I can't help you. You're also saying "house arrest isn't necessary" based on a ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ assumption you're making about where this man is located. It's ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ stupid, and I refuse to engage further. Make up whatever half-assed, unsupported, ridiculous rationalization you want. Maybe I'll read it, but your legal knowledge is on par with many sheep dogs I've met over the years.
 
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I believe it's true that judges consider the case against someone when determining how high the bail should be set or even whether to grant bail. I've read transcripts of bail hearings where judges make comments like, "The People appear to have a very strong case against you."

Bail of $300,000 seems like pretty high bail. I'm surprised she was able to make it. Maybe the judge was too? It's not like the judge released her on a promise she'd show up for trial.

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Police photo of sliding lock used to keep stepson
in room. Kimberly Sullivan denies he was locked in.
 
The website of a Florida bail bondsman states the most common reasons for a judge to deny bail.
One of the most significant factors influencing the decision to deny bail is the severity of the crime. Serious offenses such as murder, rape, or armed robbery often result in bail denial because of the risk posed to public safety. Judges may believe that releasing the accused could lead to further harm or additional criminal activity. Crimes that carry the possibility of life imprisonment or the death penalty are particularly likely to result in bail denial. Courts are stringent in these cases, as the consequences of a defendant fleeing would be severe. Mike Snapp Bail Agency website link

If a judge can deny someone bail on the basis the crime of which they are accused of is especially severe, isn't that judge essentially presuming the defendant is in fact guilty? I mean, I know all about presumption of innocence but it appears judges have to balance that against protecting public safety.
 
Pretrial detention is used when the defendant is reasonably suspected to be a threat to themselves or to the community, if they are allowed to go free pending trial. It is not supposed to be a punishment for egregious or even obscene acts.

I see no reason to suspect that this woman is likely to find someone else to lock away for years, while she waits for her trial date. Nor that she is going to go on a habitual crime spree, or anything else that would warrant further restricting her freedom pending trial.

It's perfectly sane. What's insane is wanting to impose punishment on her before the trial even begins. That's not how our system is supposed to work. That's not how I want it to work. I'm surprised that you do want it to work this way.

It doesn't have any impact on due process. Rather, due process has an impact on what sanctions the state can justifiably impose on her, before she has had her day in court, and been found guilty according to the rule of law.

It's up to you to explain why the state should restrict her freedom before she's been found guilty. Do you think she's a flight risk? That's what the bond is for.

Potato, potato.

I don't think that's sufficient reason for the state to restrict her freedom before finding her guilty.

I'm sure a no contact order is part of her bond conditions. I'm sure he's in a safe place, that would turn her away and report her to the court, if she tried to get in. There's the oversight you're looking for. House arrest is not necessary here. Tethering is not necessary here. The state removing her freedom before she's been found guilty is not justice for this man. It's not justice for anyone.
This is insane.
She is a huge flight risk; her husband is dead and her stepson has escaped.
How the ◊◊◊◊ do you think setting bond was reasonable?
 
Yes, and it is entirely reasonable to think that a woman who had detained a grown man for twenty years while starving him practically to death, would do that to someone else. What's your reasoning to think she wouldn't? Because she hasn't? She hasn't needed to, she had someone locked away already.


Because she can't lock another person away "for years", she doesn't have that kind of time. That being said, locking someone away for "years" is not the only way to be a threat to the community, as you stated. The victim was "part of the community" and deserves protection. Ankle monitors aren't intrusive. It isn't some ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ massive inconvenience or even invasive to one's day to day life. Wear pants and most people won't even know but she'll be tracked everywhere she goes.


Why is "habitual crime spree" the ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ qualifier? What if she finds this man and kills him for getting her caught?


I said inane, not insane but whatever.


Monitoring isn't a punishment and people are detained, held without bail, etc. all of the time. Especially when they commit heinous crimes against another person. Like rape, murder, physical assault, assault with a deadly weapon, etc. Those situations result in people being held all of the time. Are you equally against those "punishments" being imposed before the trial begins? It wouldn't shock me if you were, but only because you say ridiculous ◊◊◊◊ just to continue an argument.


That's exactly how our system is supposed to work. Protecting the victim and the individual who is suspected of committing a crime loses rights and freedoms. I've personally experienced and understand it.


I can't imagine why you're surprised, but I also genuinely don't care.


I know, that's why I said it in direct contrast to you bitching about due process. I planned it that way.


Yet it happens, justifiably, all of the time.


I think her callous approach to human life, her decades of torturing another human, her obvious desire to continue to do so and her apparent lack of remorse cause her to be a danger to society. I, also, think she should have had to turn over her passport, if she had one.


Cool, I disagree.


Yeah, and we know she's a stickler for the law. Undoubtedly. That's why she kept a grown man locked away and starved him for 20 years.


You seem to be sure of a lot of things. Yet there are thousands of cases of victims being assaulted by the person they accused, with countless killed over the years.


I know you know better than this and I'm just not going to ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ bother. If you're too dense to be able to see why keeping her locked away or monitored is for the benefit of the community, then I can't help you. You're also saying "house arrest isn't necessary" based on a ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ assumption you're making about where this man is located. It's ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ stupid, and I refuse to engage further. Make up whatever half-assed, unsupported, ridiculous rationalization you want. Maybe I'll read it, but your legal knowledge is on par with many sheep dogs I've met over the years.

Opening arguments:

"My client, the wolf, is "

Sheepdog jury:

"Guilty on all charges!"

:)
 
This is insane.
She is a huge flight risk; her husband is dead and her stepson has escaped.
How the ◊◊◊◊ do you think setting bond was reasonable?
$300,000 in liability seems like a reasonable hedge against flight risk in this case. She's not independently wealthy. She's not got strong foreign ties.
It would be unconscionably cruel to hold her against her will for a limited time.
Without justification, surely. We hold the state to a high standard in such matters for a reason.
 
Yes, and it is entirely reasonable to think that a woman who had detained a grown man for twenty years while starving him practically to death, would do that to someone else. What's your reasoning to think she wouldn't? Because she hasn't? She hasn't needed to, she had someone locked away already.
What's your concern? She's going to get married, get pregnant, give birth, and conspire with her spouse to keep their child locked in a cell for the rest of its life?
Because she can't lock another person away "for years", she doesn't have that kind of time. That being said, locking someone away for "years" is not the only way to be a threat to the community, as you stated. The victim was "part of the community" and deserves protection. Ankle monitors aren't intrusive. It isn't some ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ massive inconvenience or even invasive to one's day to day life. Wear pants and most people won't even know but she'll be tracked everywhere she goes.
What kind of threat are you concerned about here? Is she going on a carjacking spree? Serial rape? Loitering?
Why is "habitual crime spree" the ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ qualifier? What if she finds this man and kills him for getting her caught?
As a general rule, the courts do not indulge in bizarre what ifs. They save concerns about habitual crime sprees for defendants who have a history of that sort of thing.
I said inane, not insane but whatever.


Monitoring isn't a punishment and people are detained, held without bail, etc. all of the time.
I and I generally disagree with the practice.
Especially when they commit heinous crimes against another person. Like rape, murder, physical assault, assault with a deadly weapon, etc. Those situations result in people being held all of the time. Are you equally against those "punishments" being imposed before the trial begins? It wouldn't shock me if you were, but only because you say ridiculous ◊◊◊◊ just to continue an argument.
It's a difficult subject with no bright binary line. People that have a history of violence against the community pose a greater risk than people who don't.
That's exactly how our system is supposed to work. Protecting the victim and the individual who is suspected of committing a crime loses rights and freedoms. I've personally experienced and understand it.
Yes, that's what the no contact order is for; to protect the victim. It's a balancing act, and I think the court struck the right balance this time. Regardless of how greatly the nature of the allegation offends me.
I can't imagine why you're surprised, but I also genuinely don't care.


I know, that's why I said it in direct contrast to you bitching about due process. I planned it that way.
Sure, sure.
Yet it happens, justifiably, all of the time.
And unjustifiably, too.
I think her callous approach to human life, her decades of torturing another human, her obvious desire to continue to do so and her apparent lack of remorse cause her to be a danger to society. I, also, think she should have had to turn over her passport, if she had one.
Lack of remorse is a factor in sentencing. You can't demand that the defendant show remorse for a crime they haven't yet been found guilty of.
Cool, I disagree.


Yeah, and we know she's a stickler for the law. Undoubtedly. That's why she kept a grown man locked away and starved him for 20 years.
You'll find that courts generally start with no contact orders as bond conditions, even for people who are "obviously" not sticklers for the law.
You seem to be sure of a lot of things. Yet there are thousands of cases of victims being assaulted by the person they accused, with countless killed over the years.
It's a balancing act, and I think the court struck the right balance this time. Regardless of how greatly the nature of the allegation offends me.
I know you know better than this and I'm just not going to ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ bother. If you're too dense to be able to see why keeping her locked away or monitored is for the benefit of the community, then I can't help you. You're also saying "house arrest isn't necessary" based on a ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ assumption you're making about where this man is located. It's ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ stupid, and I refuse to engage further. Make up whatever half-assed, unsupported, ridiculous rationalization you want. Maybe I'll read it, but your legal knowledge is on par with many sheep dogs I've met over the years.
LOL. Carry on, then.
 

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