Ordinarily, as I have seen them, memes are brought up in terms of their own evolution - the evolution of ideas. That is, conceptually, a meme is a non-physical entity, a concept, thought, idea, image, etc, that evolves over time (though generally, this evolution is Lamarckian rather than Darwinian - ideas do not generally have a distinction between a germ-line and soma).
There is a problem of scale with memes, as it is not generally very easy to determine whether or where to draw a line between an individual meme, and a complex of memes, or meme-organism. Still, a variety of real-world examples of memes have been proposed - from the very simple and small, such as infectious tunes that linger in the mind, to the large and indefinitely prolonged, such as religion.
Ethnic cleansing, religious-motivated genocide, and even the lesser example of racial violence, are potential examples of a meme (or memetic group) causing a differential reproductive survival amongst those impacted by them.
Ethnic violence is obvious, and where religions are closely tied to ethnicity, a similar degree of obviousness occurs.
More subtle examples of the influence of memes is seen in sexual selection in organisms that display communication of ideals. That is to say, simple sexual selection, such as the ratchet effect on bird feather length, is not easily shown to be memetic, and likely is not. However, where sexual preference *changes* within a single generation or portion of a generation, or more specifically, where individuals are observed to change their preference during their lifetime, such as the rapid decline in the reproductive success of males sporting mullets in the U.S.
On a different note, I would point out that the idea that palliative care could be responsible for a cessation of evolution basically drops 'differential reproductive success' in favor of 'differential survival'... which is possibly applicable in terms of bacteria, as long as they aren't exchanging DNA or RNA, but not very applicable to humans.
Even if our likelihood of survival was completely evened out, such that every person that was conceived was also born and grew to the same age before dying, that would not remove the element of reproductive success. And of course, our likelihood of survival is NOT even.
Can we conceive of a world where both elements were evened out? It is possible - in a dystopian future such as seen in the Matrix, where humans are grown and harvested, it might be possible to basically provide equal life expectancy and probability of reproduction across all of humanity. Would this stop evolution? Not really - if the reproduction was essentially random, where any given individual is equally likely to reproduce with any other individual of the opposite sex, then humanity would evolve towards a homogenization of form, though this would necessarily have limits, due to the nature of Mendelian genetics. If the reproduction was non-random, then essentially we would be in a situation of guided evolution, much as we breed dogs.
So has human evolution stopped? No, not at all. Realistically, human evolution will cease when humanity ceases. Extinction, if and when that strikes humanity, is the only thing that would really stop evolution.
Howard, The Grum