El Greco
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I know quite a few heroin addicts as a result of running a pharmacy. I have learned their ways so well that I can now tell them from 50 meters away, from the way they walk and their facial expression; I'm very rarely wrong. I have also talked with many of them. And I used to know a few who are dead today.
It's extremely difficult to deal with them. A heroin addict has only one thing in his mind: to find money to get his dose. When he needs his dose he will say almost anything in order to persuade you that he is clean and that he wants the money for something else. I've known addicts who have played many different roles in order to get money. A usual thing is to stop people or cars in the street and ask for money because they've ran out of gas and they don't carry any money with them. Or something similar, like someone has stolen their wallet and they need money to pay the parking. If you happen to offer them your cellphone to call someone, they will find another excuse: They know nobody who is near. Or their mother is sick and cannot come to bring money. Or anything else. Of course, they resort to such tricks only after they've exhausted all possibilities of getting money from their home (including stealing it).
I have observed that spiffy middle-aged women often give in to their pressures. They simply can't stand a dirty addict skirting them. I've seen such women giving 20 euros to them and actually being proud of it. They're idiots.
I recently met a girl who works as a family councilor for drug addicts and their families. She told me that one of the most important things she teaches families is to never give in to the addict's pressures. The addict may give excellent performances in order to persuade his mother that the money are for a date or something else. He may beg for money with tears in his eyes, but family members should never give in. They shouldn't make it easier for him under any circumstances.
Families are alone in this. Police here is a joke. I've talked with fathers who followed their kids and then the smugglers and got all the way to the dealer's doorstep. They reported everything to the police, addresses, telephones, names. Nothing happened. The police is simply non-existent. Or maybe too small to deal with the problem.
It's so difficult to deal with addicts. You have to assume they lie, because believing them means giving them money. Sometimes you even have to tell them they lie, or they will keep pestering you for money (or pills) for ever. Even then, they will probably tell you that you are an inconsiderate bastard, at which point you have to threaten you'll call the police. Some pharmacy owners who have made the mistake to "help" one or two of them, soon found out that a whole army of addicts were lining up in their pharmacy because they heard the rumour that this pharmacist is "soft". Same with doctors who can prescribe sedatives and similar drugs. Of course, addicts often forge their own prescriptions. You can tell them from a mile away.
What can one do, it's one of those cases that you actually have to be an inconsiderate bastard. Trying to help even one of them would take a tremendous amount of time and energy and I wouldn't do it for a stranger. Sometimes their own families quit too.
What's hopeful is that I've seen a few of them quitting and staying clean. They are a small percentage, but they exist.
It's extremely difficult to deal with them. A heroin addict has only one thing in his mind: to find money to get his dose. When he needs his dose he will say almost anything in order to persuade you that he is clean and that he wants the money for something else. I've known addicts who have played many different roles in order to get money. A usual thing is to stop people or cars in the street and ask for money because they've ran out of gas and they don't carry any money with them. Or something similar, like someone has stolen their wallet and they need money to pay the parking. If you happen to offer them your cellphone to call someone, they will find another excuse: They know nobody who is near. Or their mother is sick and cannot come to bring money. Or anything else. Of course, they resort to such tricks only after they've exhausted all possibilities of getting money from their home (including stealing it).
I have observed that spiffy middle-aged women often give in to their pressures. They simply can't stand a dirty addict skirting them. I've seen such women giving 20 euros to them and actually being proud of it. They're idiots.
I recently met a girl who works as a family councilor for drug addicts and their families. She told me that one of the most important things she teaches families is to never give in to the addict's pressures. The addict may give excellent performances in order to persuade his mother that the money are for a date or something else. He may beg for money with tears in his eyes, but family members should never give in. They shouldn't make it easier for him under any circumstances.
Families are alone in this. Police here is a joke. I've talked with fathers who followed their kids and then the smugglers and got all the way to the dealer's doorstep. They reported everything to the police, addresses, telephones, names. Nothing happened. The police is simply non-existent. Or maybe too small to deal with the problem.
It's so difficult to deal with addicts. You have to assume they lie, because believing them means giving them money. Sometimes you even have to tell them they lie, or they will keep pestering you for money (or pills) for ever. Even then, they will probably tell you that you are an inconsiderate bastard, at which point you have to threaten you'll call the police. Some pharmacy owners who have made the mistake to "help" one or two of them, soon found out that a whole army of addicts were lining up in their pharmacy because they heard the rumour that this pharmacist is "soft". Same with doctors who can prescribe sedatives and similar drugs. Of course, addicts often forge their own prescriptions. You can tell them from a mile away.
What can one do, it's one of those cases that you actually have to be an inconsiderate bastard. Trying to help even one of them would take a tremendous amount of time and energy and I wouldn't do it for a stranger. Sometimes their own families quit too.
What's hopeful is that I've seen a few of them quitting and staying clean. They are a small percentage, but they exist.