kittynh said:
I let people know via JREF and in person. I don't post his name as most people can figure it out and let's face it
I can’t, can you give me clue?

What sort of psychic is he? Is he a ‘medium’ the term usually used for someone who claims dead people contact him? Or is he more the fortune telling type psychic who reads people’s personalities and might use tarot, palmistry, astrology, etc. Mediums generally have to follow regulations (e.g.. codes of conduct in spiritualism, etc.) and charge small amounts of money (some just travel expenses) unless very famous ……. Psychics on the other hand are generally trying to make a business out of it.
I would say about my friend Pat that she was emotionally depressed after her sons death. I think that if she had joined a support group, or gone to therapy to deal with the death and accept it she would still be alive. However, that is just my opinion.
People do commit suicide even after seeing counselors – psychologists – psychiatrists - doctors etc. I don't think there is evidence to say psychics increase suicides, if that was the case I think some CSICOP psychologists would be extremely keen to present such data.
However even for psychologists/psychiatrists it might open an uncomfortable debate on how many people commit suicide on medications. Some trials showed antidepressants increased suicide. For example ……
http://kdka.com/health/health_story_202161159.html
Was this lady on antidepressants?
I’m sure many people in here are atheists and probably feel sure the world would be a better place if others shared their own beliefs of no afterlife, are keen to say there is no evidence and it’s all self deception. ……but if it is just self deceptions, our evolution has written rather strongly within us that we feel more than a body. The ‘near death experience’ is an interesting example, very young children have had NDEs, (even some atheists have had NDE). if these are just our brains again fooling ourselves we are more than a body, then our survival and evolution might have benefited in someway from having such beliefs.
I do share her story, and I hope that skeptics are just aware that psychics do so much harm. A psychic does not make someone fell better about a loved one dying.
Sorry but I disagree, some might do harm. Some psychiatrists, psychologists, doctors, priests, atheists, ministers, humanists, lawyers, politicians, etc. also do harm …….. the problem is human dishonesty, a willingness to manipulate or cheat for self gain. …… it probably has little or nothing to do with a afterlife belief system or trying to contact an afterlife.
One of Pat's complaints was that her son was "upset" with her, as he sometimes did not come through "clearly". I suspect the psychic would use that as an excuse for a poor performance.
I certainly do agree most psychics are keen to appear more psychic than they are , it’s part of our culture today where most people are impressed by displays of confidence and unimpressed by the more honest display of less certainty and confidence. This is a potential problem not just amongst psychics, etc. but it is also a potential problem even amongst dogmatic sceptics whose confident opinions are impressive to others and other place faith upon them.
Can I prove that her son did not come through? No.
I’d like to psychics tested too but not by the CSICOP organization or their most prominent members, in my opinion their firm beliefs in psychologists explanations are biased against PSI. We need some independent neutral testing of psychics in a properly controlled conditions looking for weak PSI effects over a long term trial. I personally think most psychics would be found out to be not psychic to a meaningful degree or anywhere near what they have convinced themselves to believe ….. however I also think a small number would be found to be beating the odds of cold reading consistently, not every time in a remarkable way, just overall. …… this small effect would have major consequences, if PSI is found and acknowledged it would probably rewrite some area of physics.
And if PSI is eventually proven, should people then put great faith in psychics? No, probably none are anywhere near accurate enough to do that. I also see fortune teller type psychics advertising they are ‘95%’ accurate I’d like to see the ‘fraudulent mediums act’ brought into operation too when such unproven claims of accuracy are made..