Also, I found this response on a blog:
http://www.melvinkonner.com/index.php?option=com_wordpress&p=512&Itemid=72
One of the comments there (by the blog author!) was:
Note the underlined bit well. It suggests that working your ass off like crazy is far from a guarantee of success, at least in certain types of ventures. Truth is indeed not black and white at all.
http://www.melvinkonner.com/index.php?option=com_wordpress&p=512&Itemid=72
One of the comments there (by the blog author!) was:
Melvin Konner said:I think it hurts either way. But your point is very, very well taken. I remember I once was a guest on a popular local radio show with an African-American host and a predominantly African-American audience. It so happened that I followed a segment about the sports aspirations of African-American boys. Well, this talk show host read the riot act to all those who encourage those boys to give up all other aspirations in order to nurture vain hopes of huge success in professional sports. He said in no uncertain terms that not one in a thousand of those who give up so much for those goals will reach them. Who is doing those 999 boys a favor? The coach who says, “Reach for the stars, you might be an NBA star even at 6′2″? Or the math teacher who says, “Back up your sports dreams with a decent math grade. You have the real potential to be an accountant or math teacher”? In my travels, I’ve seen “You can be anything you want to be” do a lot of harm to a lot of kids. How about, “Let’s talk about how to make what you have a good chance to be meet up with some of your dreams.”?
Note the underlined bit well. It suggests that working your ass off like crazy is far from a guarantee of success, at least in certain types of ventures. Truth is indeed not black and white at all.